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Spontaneous Sex Isn’t The Hottest Sex, Study Says

Good things come to those who wait, according to a new study. New research from York University published in the Journal of Sex Research found that planning ahead can be just as sexy and satisfying as spontaneous sex—despite popular beliefs otherwise. “But, despite these beliefs, across our two studies, we did not find strong support that people actually experience spontaneous sex as more satisfying than planned sex,” the study’s authors said.

“When we suggest that couples or other romantic configurations carve out that time, we’re not necessarily saying you put it into a calendar—like 7 p.m. on a Tuesday, after putting dinner in the oven and before folding the socks,” explained a registered psychotherapist specializing in romantic relationships. The study’s authors concluded that the key to planning sex ahead of time is “intention, versus expectation” and to plan to regularly spend quality time together with no distractions to keep hold of the spark and alleviate any pressure. “But the intentionality behind it can be transformative in the sense that we don’t wait around for the right moment, because sometimes the mood just never strikes, really, for some people, and that might deter them.”

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Manifesting Orgasms Using Sex Magic

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Kinksters are spicing up their sex lives through “sex magic,” a type of sexual “manifestation” that utilizes “energy within.” While sex magic is often used for self-pleasure, it’s traditionally much more involved than simple “manifesting.” In 2020, Vice writer Helen Meriel Thomas detailed her dabbles into the kinky craft, claiming it was a multi-step ritual that involved setting intentions, breathing exercises, and, of course, masturbating.

For some, the intention might be as simple as a climax, but for others, they can “channel all of the electric energy of your orgasm into” the visualization of any goal. Some sex magic proponents also charge their sex toys in the moonlight or carve sigils on candles to burn. “There are some immediate effects because you are charged and aware of what you just did, but as the afterglow of an orgasm surfaces, so does the energy created and released into the universe,” one woman enthused.

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Sex Cures Work Stress

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Having sex is one of the best ways to recover from the pressures of the office, researchers have found. And women benefit from it even more than men, according to findings published in the Journal of Sex Research. One in five adults confess to regularly feeling stressed about work and numerous studies have found that pressure can crush a healthy sex drive.

Psychologists at Portland State University quizzed 1,100 men and women in full-time employment on how often they had had sex with their partner in the previous month. The findings revealed that, among those reporting high levels of work-related stress, more frequent sex led to better scores for both job and life satisfaction, especially for women. The researchers said: “We would encourage employees to dedicate uninterrupted leisure time to sexual activity to promote stress reduction, well-being, and positive work outcomes.”

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Not Being Horny Enough Can Lead To An Early Death, Study Says

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Better get your kicks in now…A study published in the journal PLOS One suggests that men with a low libido are almost twice (1.82 times) as likely to suffer an early death. Researchers from Yamagata University studied more than 20,000 people—8,558 males and 12,411 females—in Japan for over a decade, to examine links between sexual interest and “all-cause” mortality, including cardiovascular and cancer.

Results showed that men over age 40 who had a low libido were 1.94 times as likely to die from cancer and 1.36 times as likely to die of heart disease. Men with lower sex drives also reported lacking ikigai, a Japanese term for the reason of having a life worth living—a quality some may describe as having a “zest for life.” Scientists could not explain why there’s an association between libido and longevity; however, a constant lack of sexual interest can be a sign of poor habits that raise the risk of chronic disease, such as smoking, drinking or overeating, according to researchers: “Based on these results, we speculate that maintaining sexual interest may be related to positive psychological well-being and ‘ikigai’ especially among men,” the scientists said.

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Check out more about a study showing not being horny enough can lead to an early death: https://nypost.com/2022/12/19/not-being-horny-enough-can-lead-to-an-early-death-study/

Here’s the study: https://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0277967#sec010

Pornhub Reveals Most Popular 2022 Searches

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It’s the most wonderful time of the year—Pornhub has just released the most popular XXX searches of 2022! The company released the dirty data, revealing that “lesbian” was the most searched term across the frisky 50 states, with “hentai” following close behind. Meanwhile, the words “blowjob,” “cosplay” and “trans” also saw considerable search growth in 2022, while “transgender” exploded in popularity to become America’s fourth most-viewed category overall.

According to Pornhub, the kinky category saw a 75% increase in viewers, with the company stating that their top searches are “often influenced by pop culture and other worldwide events.” Floridian Abella Danger rose up the ranks to become America’s most popular porn star of 2022, overtaking last year’s most-searched, Lana Rhoades, who fell to second place. America was still the country with the highest daily traffic to Pornhub, while the United Kingdom came second, followed by France, Japan, Mexico and Italy.

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Check out more about Pornhub’s 2022 most popular searches: https://nypost.com/2022/12/13/pornhub-unveils-most-popular-2022-searches/

The New Bachelors Reveal The X-Rated Rules Of The Show

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The stars of The Bachelors—the new, gay iteration of the popular show—recently gave an X-rated interview that left little to the imagination. Thomas Malucelli, Felix Von Hofe, and Jed McIntosh didn’t hold back as they answered a series of crude questions, including their favorite sex positions. “This is hard, choosing just one,” Thomas said. “I’m gonna say 69!”

Jed chimed in: “But you’re so tall you’re probably getting a foot in your mouth!” When asked if they like “to eat ass,” Jed responded: “It depends what day it is.” Despite the debaucherous discussion, the stars of The Bachelors admitted that there was a lengthy “consent” process during filming before anybody got intimate, saying “It’s a three week process before you can actually proceed.”

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Check out more about the stars of The Bachelors’ sex lives and behind the scenes rules of the show: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-11483529/The-Bachelors-stars-reveal-favourite-sex-positions-racy-interview.html

Belly Button Fetishists Love Navel Play

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You might not know, but the navel is an erogenous zone with multiple nerve endings that make it sensitive to touch and alive to various sensations. According to sexperts, the navel also shares some of the same kinds of tissue with the genitals, and in some people, the stimulation of the navel will “elicit a distinct tickle in the genitals.” Not surprisingly, many people are excited by belly buttons to the extent of fetishizing them.

The navel play fetish is also known as alvinophilia, where people might use feathers, candles, food and sex toys on one another to act on the fetish in practice—or just especially admire their partner’s belly button during sex. A lot of navel play deals with bare fingers: “Always trim your nails, because the navel is one of the most sensitive parts of the human body,” said an intimacy coach. Vibrators and other sex toys and ice cubes can be used on or near belly buttons, and of course, some good ol’ tongue action never hurt anyone.

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Check out more about navel play and belly button fetishists: https://www.vice.com/en/article/epzpv4/navel-play-belly-button-fetish-sex

Sex Workers Reveal What It’s Like To Perform At Posh Sex Parties

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Performers from the luxury sex club SNCTM dished about what really goes on behind the members-only doors. Guests include famed actors, professional athletes, affluent businesspeople and the elite 1%, all of whom participate in elaborate dinners, pool parties, masquerade balls—and, of course, their wildest sexual fantasies. The main event of each night is the erotic performances, which are created by the club’s creative director.

“I’ve participated in dominance and submission acts, as well as girl-on-girl and multiple-partner acts. I’ve been a virgin sacrifice, silver orchid, and even femme fatale, depending on the theme,” says one sex worker. Another performance artist who specializes in fire performance, burlesque and fetish says she uses her gig at SNCTM as a way to “live her sexual fantasies” and get paid for it. She begins most nights doing “a more ambient dance performance,” later indulging in “creative sex scenes on the main stage” with a partner—or partners.

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Check out more about sex performers at an elite sex club: https://nypost.com/2022/11/17/i-work-at-a-sex-club-this-is-what-happens-behind-closed-doors/