Tag Archives: personal growth

Take Care of Yourself Tuesday: Confidence Is a Practice, Not a Personality Trait

It’s Take Care of Yourself Tuesday, and this week we’re talking about confidence, specifically, the idea that it’s something you practice rather than something you either have or don’t.

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Choosing Yourself First: A Sexy Kind of Self-Care

Some people treat self-care like it’s an indulgence. Extra. Optional. Something you earn only after you’ve taken care of everyone else.

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What You’ll Remember: The Final Word on GoddessBeeOfficial’s Week as NiteFlirt’s Flirt of the Week

A full week of features has taken us from a first introduction to a genuinely layered portrait of who GoddessBeeOfficial is: a woman who values curiosity over first impressions, who wants to be met rather than admired, who structures her days around learning and presence, who considers consideration itself the rarest and most telling quality in a person, who could talk about human behavior for hours, and who is spending this particular summer more intentionally than most people spend an entire year.

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Her Night In, Her Terms: GoddessBeeOfficial’s Summer State of Mind

Every Flirt of the Week feature during Postcards from Summer has centered on a different weekly theme, and no one this season embodies the quiet, unhurried spirit of our Night In week quite as naturally as GoddessBeeOfficial.

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The Quality Everyone Wants and Almost No One Has: GoddessBeeOfficial on Consideration

Some qualities are easy to fake for the length of a first date or a first phone call. Charm can be rehearsed. Confidence can be borrowed.

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A Night In Kind of Day: How GoddessBeeOfficial Spends Her Perfect Summer

There is a version of summer that exists mostly in advertisements, all crowded beaches and constant motion, and then there is the version GoddessBeeOfficial actually lives in, which is quieter, more deliberate, and considerably more seductive precisely because of its stillness.

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Take Care of Yourself Tuesday: The Power of Being Authentically You

Pride Month may be coming to a close, but being proud of who you are isn’t something that belongs to a single month on the calendar.

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Take Care of Yourself Tuesday: Build a Summer Bucket List That Is Actually About You

The summer bucket list has a reputation problem. It has become, for a lot of people, a performance document: a list of things that would look good in a caption, or that seem like the kind of things you should want to do in summer, rather than the things you actually want to do.

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Take Care of Yourself Tuesday: How Confidence Became the Best Thing You Can Offer

Confidence is one of those things that sounds simple and is actually quite difficult. Not because it requires a particular appearance, background, or set of accomplishments, but because it requires a relationship with yourself that most people have never been explicitly taught to build.

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National Doughnut Day and the Art of Enjoying Things Without Earning Them

Somewhere between childhood and adulthood, most of us absorbed the idea that enjoyment needs to be justified.

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