The kinky people of Whisper recently confessed what really gets them hot when masturbating. And some of their fetishes are a little, um, strange (ever jerked off to images of hot dogs?). Here are the best fetish confessions that will make you go WTF.
“I love all black Camaros so much that I masturbate to a video of one starting up sometimes…”
Talk about revving your engine!
“I save pictures of plants on my phone to masturbate to later.”
This person takes “plant-lover” to a new level!
“I know I’m weird but I masturbate to death core rock music.”
Hey, everyone gets their aggression out in different ways.
“Something I’ve never told anyone is that I masturbate to images of hot dogs.”
Mmm, cancerous meat in a phallic casing.
“My husband doesn’t know I masturbate to audio clips of Australian men talking. They make me so hot!”
Thunder down under!
“I masturbate to Judge Judy. Turns me on when she gets mad. Is that weird?”
Strange, but nothing out of order here!
“I masturbate to One Direction songs to the thought of Liam Payne tweeting me back.”
Talk about a Number One fan!
“I masturbate to the best deals I can find on Amazon.”
Talk about getting excited by a good deal!
“I masturbate to pictures of naked Disney princesses…I think my childhood is ruined.”
The magical world of Disney!
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The Flex Company’s aim is to end the stigma around menstruation. And now, the company has also committed itself to the goal of women getting theirs while on their lady times. For many women, having sex while on their period is just too messy to attempt. But this company has just designed the perfect product that will make getting laid while Aunt Flow’s in town much easier and less messy.
FLEX is a “menstrual disc” that “contours to the female body” and temporarily obstructs a woman’s menstrual flow for seamless period sex. For $15, customers can buy 3 disposable discs that last up to 12 hours. “FLEX allows couples who wouldn’t have previously had period sex a new opportunity to talk about it and try it,” the company’s founder told The Huffington Post. “And for those of us who were already comfortable having period sex, FLEX saves our white sheets and allows us to enjoy the moment more, instead of running to the shower.” The discs are hypoallergenic, latex-free and FDA-approved, with no link to toxic shock syndrome. Here’s to getting laid 365 days a year!
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Reading erotica to get off is nothing new. And while erotic e-books is pretty recent, this new invention is definitely the latest in buzz-worthy sex toys: vibrating E-books! A French start-up is marketing a blue-tooth enabled vibrator that connects to an erotic E-book. During the racy parts, you simply tap the screen or shake the device to get the vibrator’s motors going!
As one person on social media said, “Well this will put a brand new spin on Book Club.” Indeed! What a great way to give women incentive to catch up on their reading and their self-love. Maybe the start-up should expand this invention to all books—who wouldn’t want an orgasm at the end of every chapter?! Orgasmic literature—it’s the way of the future!
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Porn to Be Free, a new documentary which premiered at the International Film Festival in Rotterdam, explores the political impact of Italian porn before the 1980s. Back then, porn became a symbol for sexual freedom and freedom of expression. In the documentary, filmmaker Carmine Amoroso focuses on “‘pioneers who fought for freedom of speech and sexual freedom through the right to make pornography’—pioneers like pornographers Lasse Braun, Riccardo Schicchi, Ilona Staller (Cicciolina), and Giuliana Gamba,” reports Vice.
Amoroso explains that porn in Italy reached its maximum impact when the Catholic Church was very powerful, from the late 1960s to the late 1980s. During the 60s, porn was illegal; even nude pics were banned. So one of the first Italian pornographers, Lasse Braun, decided that to make porn mainstream and thus eventually accepted into society, he had to bring it to TV. To do this, he needed to turn his porn stars into celebrities—adult film actors like Cicciolina and Moana Pozzi became overnight sensations. Italian porn was also fundamentally political in the way it depicted sex as natural and beautiful, an important part of the sexual revolution of the 60s and 70s. As Amoroso says, “porn is not just a performance, it is an ever-evolving language.” Right on!
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Congratulations, Utah—you’ve just become the first state in the US to formally declare pornography a “public health crisis.” It’s true. The state’s Senate recently passed an unanimous resolution to crack down on pornography and the “sexually toxic environment” that it perpetuates. Though the resolution didn’t pass any laws, it aims to address “the pornography epidemic that is harming the citizens of Utah and the nation.”
State Senator Todd Weiler recently told Vice that porn is addictive and harmful, and that its consumption “can impact brain development and functioning, contribute to emotional and medical illnesses, and shape deviant sexual arousal.” Utah is a very religious state—60 percent of its residents identify as Mormon—which explains the public condemnation of porn as a “fatal epidemic; like a moral plague.” Many critics are calling Utah out for hypocrisy: the state teaches “abstinence only” in schools, and doesn’t include contraception education in its curriculum, which could account for the high STD rate among teenagers. As studies have shown, when you make sex taboo and shameful, it only fuels sexually risky behavior—maybe it’s time for Utah to include sex-ed in its schools before scapegoating porn for its problems.
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Some very naughty pupils took to Whisper to share their extra special relationship with their professor. All we can say is that these “Hot For Teacher” confessions are sure to get your creative juices flowing! Here are the 7 most shocking confessions about student-professor sex.
“I find it surreal to think I had a lesbian relationship with my college professor. It didn’t work out, but the sex was a lot of fun!”
Talk about learning through “hands-on” experiences!
“I had sex with my college professor and I still failed the final exam.”
No grading on a (sexual) curve for this professor!
“My professor started grading me especially hard AFTER I slept with him.
This professor loves to keep it hard!
“I hooked up with my professor in a bathroom stall. He has a wife and I’m gay…”
You know what they say about learning through (scandalous) experience!
“I got out of a year long relationship with a guy 11 years my senior. He was my ethics professor in college.”
Guess this professor doesn’t exactly practice what he teaches?….
“I slept with my astronomy professor because when he talked passionately about black holes it made me hard.”
Whatever turns you on!
“I want everyone to know I earned my A without sleeping with my professor. I slept with him after the semester ended.”
Now that’s what we call A for excellence!
Have you wondered what it would be like to share your sexual fantasies with your partner? Maybe you wanted to but felt there were some things just too kinky to reveal? Well, gay couple RJ and Will decided to take a quiz on a website that asked about their sexual fantasies to then share the results with each other. And as you can imagine, they found out some pretty interesting stuff about one another (check out a video of the encounter below).
“I want to take pictures of us having sex? That’s not something that we’ve done…” said RJ. Some of the stuff they’ve done (watch and do things they’ve seen in porn, for example), but a lot of the stuff they’d be into if the other wanted to try it: “Call RJ obscene words? No! That’s so mean….I mean, but if he’s into it…” For some of the questions, they were just confused: “Wear ear plugs during sex? What?” Will was also surprised to discover that RJ would be into “facials,” or, ahem, “cum over my face.” In the end, they discovered that they’d both be into group sex…maybe involving pies? “I say we go to a pleasure resort, and bring a ton of pies with us!”
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Have you been wanting to try some back-door action but don’t know where to start? If so, you’re in luck—with these ass-play tips, you will never fear the rear again! Here’s a beginner’s guide to anal sex that will help ensure everything goes smoothly.
Try Anal Solo First
Before exploring ass-play with somebody else, try it with yourself first. “Finger insertion is a great way to get your bottoms used to being penetrated,” says a sex expert. You can also use a butt-plug during masturbation to see what it feels like. “The more you gently play around the area, the more it will relax.” So exploration and foreplay is key here, people!
Be aware of what you’re eating
A lot of people are worried that they might have an, um, accident during anal sex. But if you pay attention to what you eat before having someone knock at your backdoor, you should be golden. “Tucking into gas-inducing foods like onions, chickpeas, broccoli, or cauliflower is not going to add to the experience,” says the sex expert.
Make sure you’re clean down there
If you know you’re going to have a dick in your butt, you need to make sure you’re clean down there. “There should only be poo in the anal canal when you actually need to go to the toilet,” so if you clean yourself with warm water or wet wipes after a bowel movement, you should be good to go.
Lube, glorious lube
This is the most important element of successful anal sex. The ass, unlike the pussy, doesn’t self-lubricate, so if you’re going to have a wet n’ wild experience, you gotta reach for the lube. “Apply [the lube] liberally before you have anal intercourse (to the anus and penis),” and remember to use water-based lube with condoms (oil-based will cause the latex in a condom to break).
Don’t go in dick-first
The ass is naturally tight, so you want to ease on in nice and slow. “The more time you take over foreplay, the easier it will be.” Start with your hands, making sure they’re clean and the nails trimmed. Using lube, you should “start by gently circling the opening with the pads of your fingers.” When the ass has been prepped for insertion, start with a finger, remembering to slowly and steadily insert just a little bit at a time. You should “wait for them to get used to the sensation and for the sphincter muscles to relax” before going in a bit more. This is also a good time to incorporate some rimming (with soft and wet gentle licks at first), as well as head, a hand-job, or clit-action.
Dick, meet butt
After some good foreplay, use the same technique as before for penetration. Slowly push in a bit at a time, pausing to allow the receiver to get used to it before pushing in further. Some good beginner positions to try: receiver on top so they have complete control, missionary, doggy style, and spooning. The sex expert adds, “positions where your knees are bent up to your chest generally feel more comfortable as this straightens out the anal canal.”
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Ladies, if you’ve ever wondered what it’s like to feel as sexy and empowered as Cat Woman in her black latex cat-suit, here’s your chance to find out. Buzzfeed asked women to wear latex for the first time to see what it’s like to feel “like a giant condom…but a very sexy giant condom.” Here were their reactions (check out a video of the women wearing latex below).
One woman in a tight yellow latex skirt and push-up bustier felt like she was going to “perform at a Katy Perry concert.” A different woman in black latex with a cut-out in the front that showed off her cleavage felt like an “endangered species” (what species is that sexy?!). So what did the latex feel like? One said the feeling of latex is like being naked, only with very tight fitting clothing on: “It’s like a second skin.” The ladies were surprised at how comfortable they felt wearing the latex. As one woman explained, “everything is on show, but you feel like a superhero!” And not only did the women feel super sexy, but they also felt super empowered: “You feel almost invincible.”
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Check out the video of women wearing latex for the time on BuzzFeed and watch the video below
WoodRocket.com recently made a video asking adult film actresses what they look for in a dick. And even though these desirable women are dick-experts, their answers range as much as the porn stars themselves. Here’s what they said (check out the video below). Many viewers assume a massive pornstar dick size is standard in the industry, but the real preferences of these performers might surprise you. Knowing the typical average pornstar penis size helps bridge the gap between cinematic fantasy and physical reality.
Porn Star Penis Size Preferences of Top Performers
To answer the question “what’s your ideal penis size,” porn star Kayla-Jane Danger said, “I have one. At home.” Arabelle Raphael said, “I’ve met wonderful cocks in all different varieties.” Some ladies liked them “large and in charge,” anywhere from 7 to 10 inches. But Shyla Jennings doesn’t need a giant schlong: “They don’t have to be super big, if a man knows how to use his junk.” Sheridian Love just needs a dick “big enough to fit between my tits but still pop out over the top.” Most of the ladies liked an average-sized dick (5.16 inches, according to a study last year), and didn’t love “porn dick,” which can leave them walking funny for a few days. Some porn stars cared more about girth than length—as Jeze Belle put it, “Chode. Like a soup can.” But really it all comes down to what the dick is being used for: “My butt’s gonna like something different than my pussy that’s gonna like something different than my mouth.” Well put!
To break down these preferences further, we can look at how specific stars view the ideal penis size and compare real pornstar penis sizes against common perceptions. Here is the direct breakdown of their feedback:
Kayla-Jane Danger – Prefers her partner’s size at home, emphasizing that personal intimacy and technical chemistry outvalue standard industry measurements.
Arabelle Raphael – Appreciates wide physical variety, explaining that pleasure is highly adaptable across different dimensions, contours, and physical textures.
Shyla Jennings – Prioritizes angles and technique, noting that a partner who knows how to position his hips can easily satisfy a partner without relying on a large porn star dick size.
Sheridian Love – Prefers a length suited for chest-intercourse, requiring enough extension to pop over the top of her breasts during a chest compression session.
Jeze Belle – Prioritizes width and fullness, explicitly favoring a chode-like shape for the deep internal stretch and vaginal wall friction it creates.
The Science of Average Porn Star Penis Size vs. Civilian Reality
While the average penis size in porn is frequently showcased as being upwards of 7 or 8 inches, scientific data reveals a different story for everyday men. A highly cited meta-analysis conducted by Dr. David Veale and published in BJU International (2015) reviewed measurements from over 15,000 men globally. The study determined that the average erect penis length is actually 5.16 inches (13.12 cm) with an average erect girth of 4.59 inches (11.66 cm). This aligns closely with the preferences of most adult film actresses who explicitly stated they prefer comfortable, everyday proportions over exhausting industry shapes.
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Check out WoodRocket’s video about the ideal dick on Huffington Post and watch the video below:
The kinky people of Whisper recently confessed what really gets them hot when masturbating. And some of their fetishes are a little, um, strange (ever jerked off to images of hot dogs?). Here are the best fetish confessions that will make you go WTF.
