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What Happens To Your Body When You Stop Having Sex

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_princess_anabelleWhile it’s hard to imagine a life without sex, you may have wondered what the effects of going through a “dry spell” can have on your body. As it turns out, refraining from fucking takes a toll on both your body and general psyche—especially for women. According to sexperts, some people begin to feel more sluggish, with less “vitality and hunger for sex,” while others might get super horny and fantasize more about sex.

The lack of physical contact can leave some people feeling depressed, since skin-to-skin contact is a primal way humans feel comfort. “Sexual connection gives partners loads of skin-to-skin caressing and touch and can help to regulate one another’s moods,” one sexpert said. This is generally through the release of the feel-good hormone oxytocin. Sex also releases stress, so going without it for a while could make some people literally tense. So there you have it: sex is good for your mind, body, and soul.

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Check out more about what happens to your body when you go without sex: https://nypost.com/2018/03/06/what-happens-to-your-body-when-you-stop-having-sex/

How To Sext Like A Pro

NiteFlirt_best_Phone _Sex_Sara cell phone picWhen it comes to sexting, there’s a fine line between sexy and cringey. It’s just one of those things you’re expected to figure out as you go along, which isn’t always easy. Here are some tips on how to up your sexting game and avoid some awkward conversations.

  1. Don’t be a dead-weight sexting partner.Questions are a good jumping off point, but you don’t want to get to the point where you’re only asking questions and making the other person do all the work. “Oh, yeah. And then what…?” is only good at first.
  2. Start by talking about the last time you had sex or some other hot memory.“How hot was last night?” is always a good way to get things going.
  3. Don’t skimp on the details.As BuzzFeed says, “Tell me exactly where your hands, lips, etc. are gonna go, and what they’re gonna do.”
  4. Ease into it. Sexting needs foreplay too.Start slow. Teasing is all part of the fun.
  5. Never show your face.It’s always good to take the necessary precautions.
  6. Also never send unsolicited nudes.No unsolicited dick pics, guys.
  7. Use Boomerang to make sexy GIFs.The only thing better than a sexy video is a sexy GIF.
  8. Or send voice notes with WhatsApp.It’s always so much hotter to hear each other’s voices.
  9. Ask your partner about their fantasies.Then you can bring them up in a sext.
  10. Set the mood.Even though sexting in your PJ’s and pretending to be naked is fine, it’s really fun to light candles and set a romantic mood, too.
  11. Go easy on the emojis.Not the time and place for cute symbols. Use words, people!

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Check out more sexting tips: https://www.buzzfeed.com/annaborges/how-to-sext?utm_term=.vkE7pew9KN#.ju9WMANPlX

Cuckolding Is A Shockingly Common Fetish, Study Reveals

HavenHesse02CNN posted an article about a recent cuckolding study published in the journal Archives of Sexual Behavior that got many peoples’ panties in a twist. The study surveyed a large sample of gay men about their cuckolding fantasies, and compared the results to research done on straight men’s cuckolding fantasies. Here’s what CNN wrote: “The numbers suggest that cuckolding, or at least thinking about it, is more common than you might imagine. [The researcher] surveyed thousands of Americans and found that 58% of men and about a third of women had fantasized about cuckolding.”

After CNN posted the story, Paul Joseph Watson, an editor of InfoWars, slammed CNN for the “salacious” story. But an author of the study defended the story, telling Gizmodo that “The research indicates that it is extremely likely that many of his followers enjoy this sexual fantasy.” He also pointed out that many people who publicly criticize sexual acts, sometimes secretly want them. “I always get sad and concerned when I see people publicly shaming healthy, normative sexual fantasies and behaviors. Hopefully by opening this dialogue, some of his followers might feel less shame and concern about their fantasies.” So there you have it: there’s nothing wrong with being a willing cuckold!

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Check out more about a new study that proves cuckolding is a common fetish: https://www.portlandmercury.com/blogtown/2018/01/29/19638800/cuckold-study-gets-conservative-panties-in-a-knot

Pornhub Reveals The Most Popular Gaming Character Searches

PikachuSexPornhub revealed 2017’s most popular gaming characters that users love to watch fuck, and the results are pretty interesting. When it comes to porn searches, female characters are the stars: of the 16 characters listed by Pornhub, 13 are female. The hot women of Overwatch snagged the top three spots—D.Va, Mercy, and Tracer—with over 8 million searches combined on the porn mega-site.

After that, “Misty from Pokémon (2.6 million searches) beat out Tomb Raider’s Lara Craft ( 2.2 million searches) for a fourth place spot and Zelda grabbed number six,” reports Daily Dot. Pokemon’s Ash was the only male character to make the list, which goes to show that in the male-dominated gaming world, sexy female characters win the porn popularity contest. Besides hot lady heroes, users also want to see non-human characters like Pokémon Gardevoir and Pikachu get it on.

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Check out more about Pornhub’s data on the most popular gaming character searches: https://www.dailydot.com/parsec/pornhub-most-popular-gaming-characters/

This Fetish Is So Weird, Only One Person Has It

michelleSea-monster porn is a thing, but it seems only one person is financing the unusual, scaly genre. According to Vice, an anonymous man with a fetish for sea-monster sex is responsible for bankrolling all of the 100 or so porn clips that exist online. His maritime fantasies are so specific that he commissions Bitch Slap Studios, a production studio that specializes in custom-made porn, to bring them to life for around $15,000 a film.

He prefers movies in which “an actor dressed in a mass-market sea-monster costume has his slimy, scaly way with terrorized female performers.” He also wants to see missionary sex along with “mostly the girl and some monster, but never mostly the monster and some of the girl.” But most important of all, he needs “a horror feel without any goofy/funny monster behavior.” Whatever floats your (monster) boat!

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Check out more about the man who finances sea-monster porn: https://nypost.com/2018/01/10/this-fetish-is-so-weird-only-one-person-has-it/

7 Kinky Sex Toys To Give Your Sex Life A Boost This Year

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_dildosIf you only make one new year’s resolution in 2018, let it be this: to explore the kink you’ve always wanted to try. Kinky sex and BDSM are just what you need to get the new year started off right. Here are 7 sex toys to help you keep that resolution going well past January.

  1. Babeland Cotton Bondage RopeThese are great for BDSM beginners because they’re super comfortable, won’t chafe, but still hold a knot well.
  2. Bondage Boutique Beginners Small Ball GagThis bondage gag is smaller than more advanced ones and soft enough to bite down on—perfect for a first-timer.
  3. Pipedream Fetish Fantasy Series Alligator Nipple ClampsAdd some pain and restraint to your sex routine with these adjustable clamps.
  4. Bondage Boutique Furry Spanking PaddleGet spanked with this double-sided puddle that offers a soft and furry option and a more hardcore matte leather side.
  5. Bondage Boutique Soft BlindfoldTry sensory deprivation with this silky blindfold—it’ll make all the other sensations that much more intense.
  6. Pipedream Two Timer Double Leg and Arm RestraintsThese double restraints will let you bond your partner’s arms, legs, or both at the same time.
  7. Sportsheet Door Jam Sex SlingThis sexy swing hangs in any doorway and will definitely take your sex life to new heights!

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Check out more sex toys for a very kinky new year: https://www.refinery29.com/kink-products-2018#slide-9

These Are The Most Common Sexual Fantasies

PinkPussyPaige02You might be surprised how common certain fantasies and fetishes are. A new survey of 400 people from a mobile dating app discovered that a lot of us have the same desires. The survey asked 241 women and 159 men about their sexual fantasies and found that the most common fantasy is having sex with multiple people at the same time, which 17.6% reported thinking about during masturbation.

Other popular sexual fantasies include role play, BDSM, and having an affair. Surprisingly, only 3% of respondents said they get turned on by the idea of public sex. “The big take-away from this data is that we are all more alike than we may think,” a researcher told Refinery29. “There’s safety in numbers, and if our survey can help people feel more comfortable in the knowledge that others share their thoughts on threesomes and role play, for example, perhaps it can lead to more fulfilling sex lives for all.”

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Check out more about the most common sexual fantasies: https://www.refinery29.com/2017/11/180046/common-sexual-fantasies-data

6 Kinky-As-Fuck Sex Stories

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_sex9What’s the kinkiest thing you’ve ever done? If you’re looking to reach even kinkier heights, these very kinky sex stories are sure to inspire you. Here are 6 real life, kinky-as-fuck things people have actually done during sex.

  1. “I flew to New York City to visit a friend, and he threw me a full-blown orgy. There were nine people, and at one point I was chained to a bed and blindfolded and had to guess which of the other eight people was going down on me.”
    Now that’s a good surprise party!
  2. “I once had sex with a father and son at the same time. The son was my age (30), and the father was in his 50s. It wasn’t something I had sought out or fantasized about, but when it happened it wound up being incredibly erotic!”
    A true family affair!
  3. While my boyfriend and I were having sex, he stuck a water bottle in my vagina and his dick up my ass. Then he tried fisting me in both orifices.”
    Kinky. As. Fuck!
  4. When my boyfriend was out of town, and we were both horny as fuck, we decided that I should go to the bathhouse alone and have another patron use my phone to FaceTime my boyfriend while he went to Pound Town on my butt with a big dildo. Then I got into a sling while several men took turns fucking me and others sucked and jerked me off, all while my boyfriend watched.”
    Good times at the bathhouse!
  5. Two Thai ladyboy’s were undressed with their cocks out. I had one in my hand and the other in my mouth. It soon evolved from there, and the highlights included my being spit-roasted by them (so good!), multiple 69-ing, and pretty much every hole being filled multiple times.”
    Hot!
  6. “I went to a bathhouse and got in the sex swing. A guy came up and started rimming me, and then a crowd started to form. He then started to fuck me. As soon as he was done, another guy was ready for a turn. All in all, 10 guys took their turn on me in a short time. It was absolutely amazing.”
    Another amazing bathhouse experience!

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Check out more kinky sex stories: https://www.buzzfeed.com/spenceralthouse/just-some-kinky-stuff

Mile High Club Members Reveal Tips For Airplane Sex

2900305586_530cf11668_oAdventurous travelers shared their secrets on Reddit for how to join the Mile High Club. While getting frisky on an airplane seems pretty tricky, these people prove that it can be done with some ingenuity. One man explained that he tells the cabin crew he has a “serious medical condition” and will need his wife to, ahem, assist him in the lavatory.

The man added: “By giving that explanation beforehand, my wife and I have had unhurried and uninterrupted sex in an airplane four times in a row now.” Another guy claimed the best way to fuck in the bathroom is by sitting on the baby changing table that folds down over the toilet: “She put her feet against the wall and fun ensued,” he said. “The height of the fold down table was perfect.” Even though these stories might give hope for a surprisingly common fantasy, a seasoned flight attendant had this advice: “I just want to let everyone know that the lavs in the back of the plane aren’t very soundproof. The people in those seats can hear just about everything.”

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Check out more about Redditors’ tips for how to join the Mile High Club: https://nypost.com/2017/11/13/mile-high-club-members-reveal-the-best-techniques-for-airplane-romps/

Sexperts Recommend Sexually Fantasizing To Keep Your Relationship’s Spark Alive

frustrated coupleSex toy company Lovehoney recently surveyed 4,500 people about their sexual fantasies, and the findings are giving sexperts important insights about what keeps a relationship staying lusty. It seems a surprising number of men and women fantasize about having sex with an ex-partner, which according to professionals, is actually very healthy. “Fantasies allow monogamous couples to get all the pleasure of ‘new’ sex without the pain of broken hearts and relationship,” an expert said.

Sexperts are also saying that planning fun activities and acting on sexual urges no matter how preoccupied you might be are the ingredients to maintaining a satisfying sex life long-term. “Lust is primitive, wild and edgy. We need risk and a hint of danger to continue to see our partners as sexual beings,” one expert said. The most important thing is just to make time for regular sex—whether it’s a quickie or a long, luxurious fuck-fest, be sure to get it on with your partner!

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Check out more about how to keep your sex life hot here: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-4601894/Expert-shares-sex-tips-spark-alive-couples.html