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Top Doctor Claims ‘Blue Balls’ Is Real

A high-profile Australian GP claims “blue balls” is real and not simply an excuse men come up with when they want sex. “Blue balls” refers to physical discomfort in the testicles caused by prolonged sexual arousal without ejaculation. Dr Sam Hay says the phenomenon does in fact exist—and there is evidence to prove it.

He explained: “If you become aroused for a long time, you get lots of blood going down to the testicles and it increases the pressure. And if you don’t [ejaculate] then that pressure becomes achy… I’ve found out that there’s research out there to prove that it exists.” Dr Hay stressed that testicles don’t actually go “blue” but they can take on “a sort of blue hue” because of the color of blood. He added that the pain and color will “disappear shortly afterwards,” and that if a man feels significant, prolonged pain in the testicles then it’s “another problem.”

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Check out more about a doctor claiming “blue balls” is real: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-11051631/KIIS-FM-doctor-says-men-blue-balls-prolonged-arousal.html

Couples Are Experimenting With ‘Soft Swinging’

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Some couples are finding clever ways to add spice to their sex lives: “soft swapping.” These kinksters cavort naked with other couples in hotel rooms and at sex parties without ever “going all the way.” “Soft-swapping”—or “soft-swinging”—is unusual enough that even noted sexperts weren’t overly familiar with the topic until a TikTok went viral and brought attention to the saucy lifestyle.

Experts say the practice can be a safer way for couples to get kinky: “It could be a risk-mitigation strategy in that it allows for some degree of sexual novelty without taking as much risk for STIs and/or unintended pregnancy,” one said. While fucking isn’t on the menu, threesomes, foursomes, making out, foreplay, mutual masturbation and oral sex are. “Another benefit of soft-swapping for women is that we have so many parts that feel good when touched, and realistically one person can’t get to all of them at once,” one “soft-swinger” explained about indulging her “feminist” fantasies.

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Check out more about “soft swingers”: https://nypost.com/2022/06/13/were-soft-swingers-and-our-marriage-has-never-been-better/

More Women Than Men Turned On By ‘Aggressive’ Porn, Study Finds

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A new study proves more women than men enjoy watching “aggressive” porn—dispelling myths about what each gender likes when it comes to XXX. The study, published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior, found that “those who did say that they enjoyed displays of aggression, including rougher aggression, somewhat surprisingly women were a majority.” One of the study’s researchers explained, “Women were more likely to report being aroused by aggression, actively seeking aggression and wanting to see more aggression in mainstream pornography.”

After exploring 122 anonymous porn users’ preferences, the study found over half of all viewers, 53%, liked at least a little bit of aggression in porn—breaking down to 66% of women and 40% of men. Women, too, were more likely to go for “harder” expressions of aggression in porn and to seek it more than men, with themes such as bondage, discipline, dominance, submission and sadomasochism. “Very little attention has been given … to female viewers, their preferences and their desires,” a researcher said. “I noticed that much of the literature talked about aggression in mainstream pornography as a growing phenomenon (my findings show that this is not the case), claiming that this is driven by men’s desires for domination over women.”

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Check out more about a study showing more women than men enjoy “aggressive” porn: https://nypost.com/2022/06/07/more-women-than-men-turned-on-by-aggressive-porn-study/

Here’s more on the study: https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-021-02053-1

NiteFlirt’s Own “Shadow Priest” Offers Their Advice

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Here at NiteFlirt, we’re fully aware of how powerful the voice can be. And one Flirt, Shadow Priest, spoke to Men’s Health with their experience to help others with their own dirty talk.

The very first tip offered? “Listening,” he said. “What do they think about when they fantasize? What words do they use? Paying attention to your partner is the most basic and most important skill.” After that, Shadow Priest opened up about everything: consent, fetishes, even how to get around any awkward moments in the conversation. It’s definitely worth reading, or having someone read it to you… let that voice guide you wherever you’re hoping to go!

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These Are The Objects To Let You Know If Someone Is A Swinger

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An upside-down pineapple was recently revealed on TikTok as a symbol for swingers indicating they are DTF. And now, swingers are sharing other objects to signal their sexual openness. It seems kitschy lawn ornaments are all the rage for suburbanite swingers: garden gnomes are a way to show your home is a swinging hotspot.

Hot tubs, not surprisingly, could also indicate you have a naughty neighbor. Pampas grass planted in a person’s front yard is another telltale sign of a kinky neighbor. Additionally, if a woman is wearing an anklet or a toe ring, she may be advertising that she is into an alternative sexual lifestyle, the website Bigger Love proclaims.

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Check out more about the objects to let you know someone is a swinger: https://nypost.com/2022/06/08/sex-and-the-suburbs-how-to-know-if-your-neighbor-is-a-swinger/

Doctor Claims Cheap Airline Seats Lower Sex Drive

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If you want to join the mile high club you better fly first class. A doctor warns the nearly 73% of American adults planning to travel this summer that flying too much with cheap tickets can ruin your sex drive. In a video, the Yale-graduate doctor explains the link between anxiety, claustrophobia and the lack of space and how this can deplete someone’s libido—especially if they’re sitting in cheap and cramped economy seats.

“It drives your flight-and-fight mechanism. So hormones that go up in the brain like norepinephrine and epinephrine will lower testosterone and that will immediately have an effect on libido and even sexual function,” she explained. Besides flying first class, she recommended taking precautions to sustain your health and sex drive as you get ready to fly this summer. She suggested making sure all your urgent tasks are completed—so you’re not stressing—and make sure you’re well-rested.

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Check out more about how cheap airline seats deplete your sex drive: https://nypost.com/2022/06/02/doctor-warns-frequent-flyers-cheap-seats-lower-sex-drive

1 in 4 Delivery Drivers Admit To Hooking Up In Their Trucks, Survey Finds

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It seems delivery drivers really give the full package deal. A new survey discovered that one in four delivery drivers have hooked up with someone while on the job. “Interacting inappropriately with a customer was one of the most common indiscretions reported,” the findings read, with 27% of drivers participating in “less-than-professional communications” and 25% revealing they hooked up with someone while working.

Customers are also sometimes up for more than just deliveries: “Delivery drivers experience many kinds of things while doing their duties—from strange deliveries to even stranger customers,” the survey explained. One driver said, “When I got to the customer he was super weird, in a costume with an exposed private area.” Meanwhile, 78% of couriers judged people’s orders, recalling the most bewildering ones including sexual lubricant, 20 orders of fries and a 12-foot Christmas tree in March.

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Check out more about 1 in 4 delivery drivers hooking up in their trucks: https://nypost.com/2022/05/12/1-in-4-delivery-drivers-hook-up-in-their-delivery-truck-survey/

America Has Two Of The World’s Kinkiest Cities

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A new study ranked the kinkiest cities in the world and two American hotspots made the cut. Not surprisingly, Las Vegas and New York City are among the raciest destinations across the globe, sexperts say. London is rated the kinkiest city in The Bottle Club’s latest study where they ranked cities on a 40-point scale.

Las Vegas follows shortly behind London’s near-perfect score of 39 with a score of 38, while Berlin comes in third place with 33 points, and New York City is in the top four with a score of 29. In order to determine each city’s “kinky” score, they were ranked on the number of kinky people, sex events, and porn stars named after the city. London leads the way due to a whopping 131 sex events, 10,000 content creators on OnlyFans, and at least 30 porn stars named “London.”

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Check out more about the kinkiest cities in the world: https://nypost.com/2022/04/20/america-has-two-of-the-worlds-kinkiest-cities/

Man With 9 Wives Has ‘Sex Schedule’ To ‘Fulfill My Sexuality At Any Cost’

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Fucking multiple partners is apparently a lot of work. A Brazilian model and polygamist who notoriously married nine women now claims he’s had to create a sex schedule to be sure each wife’s needs are met. “They all want to fulfill my sexuality at any cost,” he said.

The swinger’s wedding—to “protest against monogamy”—went viral, and now he’s struggling to satisfy all his partners equally. “Initially I tried to have sex by appointment,” he said of the juggling act, but needless to say, he found it difficult trying to “manage à trois.” Despite the complicated dynamics., he says “the sex is great”: “It is very fun, pleasurable and unique to experience everything collectively, and they are all very different in bed,” he gushed.

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Check out more about a swinger’s crazy sex schedule with his nine wives: https://nypost.com/2022/04/26/man-with-9-wives-has-sex-schedule-to-fulfill-my-sexuality-at-any-cost/