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Sex Work & Digital Safety

Written by: Behavior Analyst

Online privacy is a concern for everyone, from celebrities to the neighbor next door, and most notably, for sex workers of all categories.

One way to ensure your privacy is protected is not to click external links that might be given through chat or email, even if they appear to be trustworthy websites. It might seem harmless at first, but sometimes one click can ultimately expose your identity. The innocent, funny viral video link could potentially show the person who shared it your identification. Many popular, professional networking websites show users who have viewed their profile and several social media outlets are notorious for suggesting other members to befriend and follow, all of which could put your real-life personal accounts in jeopardy of being exposed. Even the most popular porn websites could present traceable information to the person who shared a video to view with them.

Additionally, please use caution when sharing any photos on adult websites that are also shared on personal social media apps. Those images can be cross-searched and uncover private profiles over to savvy, curious fans. When taking pictures with a cell phone, make sure the location tags are off, or scrub any metadata before using them on adult profiles to help safeguard your confidentiality.

These are just a few essential tips to take into account when considering your digital safety but they are certainly not all-inclusive. If someone asks you to read an article, view porn together, or laugh at the newest viral dance video, ask them for the title to look it up on your own, don’t click that link!

In the meantime, rest assured that NiteFlirt takes your privacy seriously and your safety is our utmost concern – so if you’re looking to let some of the stress of the real world go, we guarantee we have just the thing to help you relax.

And to chat more about privacy or any other “private matters”, be sure to get in touch with Behavior Analyst!

Valentine’s Goody Contest

It’s been a cold winter! Shoot, for most of us it’s been a cold couple of weeks! Let’s heat things up this Valentine’s Day with some hot, new Goody Bags and some cool, extra cash.

It's been a cold winter. This Valentine's Day warm things up with NiteFlirt.

Who needs candy hearts when you have NiteFlirt?

To take part in our contest, just create a new Valentine’s-themed Goody Bag. Every new Goody Bag (created after Feb. 6, 2019 and priced at $1.99 or more) that has the word Valentine in the title or description and is sold between Feb. 7, 2019 and Feb. 15, 2019 will be counted towards the contest. Goody Bags containing Skype or other cam IDs are not eligible.

The 3 Flirts who sell the most Valentine’s-themed bags will get a NiteFlirt t-shirt and cash bonus credited to their accounts!

1st Place: $300

2nd Place: $200

3rd Place: $100

Disclaimer: All Flirts providing services on NiteFlirt are eligible for the Valentine’s Goody Contest. All Flirts will automatically be entered unless they notify NiteFlirt that they do not want to participate. Each NiteFlirt account is considered its own entry, sales from accounts cannot be combined. Sales of Goodies that are found to be in violation of NiteFlirt’s policies, purchased by the seller, or otherwise deemed fraudulent by NiteFlirt in its sole discretion will not be included in the final sales total. Goody Bags that contain Skype IDs or other cam IDs are not eligible. The Valentine’s Goody Contest is based on the total amount of new Goody Bags that are sold to unique customers. Multiple buys of the same Goody Bag from one customer will not count towards your total. Only Goody Bags priced at $1.99 or more and created after February 6, 2019 are eligible. The contest runs from midnight (UTC) February 7, 2019 to 11:59 p.m. (UTC) February 15, 2019. Winners will be announced in the NiteFlirt Community Forums on February 18, 2019. Prize money will be credited to the winning NiteFlirt accounts within 14 days of the end of the contest.

Best Outdoor Sex Positions: 6 Fun Ideas Outdoor Sex

Looking for something exhilarating? We’ve got just the thing: outdoor sex. Below are some of the best outdoor sex positions to keep you comfortable, safe, and seriously turned on while you hook up in the great outdoors.

  1. Assisted Missionary (With Pool Floaty)

    Pool floats also make great sex props while getting frisky outside. Placing the float under the receiver’s ass will act as a great cushion and heighten the angle of penetration, which can feel amazing for both partners. This outdoor sex position works especially well in a pool, lake, or backyard with a sturdy inflatable or lounge chair. Just make sure the floaty is stable before things get wild.
  2. Lawn Mower (Standing Doggy-Style)

    In this doggy-style outdoor sex position, the receiver places their hands on the ground so their body is bent upward while the giver enters from behind. The angle can be deep and intense, and it’s perfect on a grassy lawn or soft ground. Before you drop into position, quickly check the area for rocks, sticks, or bugs, and consider laying down a blanket if you’d rather not get grass stains on your knees or hands.
  3. Reverse Cowgirl

    This reverse cowgirl outdoor sex position is ideal if you have a blanket and a soft surface, like sand, grass, or a picnic area. One partner lies on their back while the other straddles them facing away, riding at their own pace. Who doesn’t love sex on the beach, or a cozy blanket under the stars? Use a thick towel or blanket to protect your skin from sand and small rocks, and keep some lube handy if things feel dry.
  4. Tree Pose (Sex Against a Tree)

    A sturdy tree is a natural prop for outdoor sex. You can lean the receiver against the trunk for standing doggy-style, or have one partner wrap a leg around the other’s hip for a closer full-body embrace. This tree-supported outdoor sex position works well on hikes or in secluded parks, but pick a tree with relatively smooth bark and avoid spots where you’re easily visible from trails or campsites.
  5. Fire Hydrant (Discreet Oral Sex)

    This position is great for couples wanting to taste the outdoors. One partner sits on the ground, preferably with a blanket or towel under their butt, and performs oral sex on their standing partner. This is perfect for a discreet outdoor oral sex position on a lawn, in a quiet park, or by the pool. Keep the receiver low to the ground and the standing partner close, so the angle is comfortable and you can shift quickly if someone walks by. A thicker blanket or folded towel under the seated partner makes this much more knee- and butt-friendly.
  6. Picnic Spread

    If you have an outdoor table or a big picnic blanket, you can use it as your “bedroom” in nature. Try seated lap sex on a bench, bent-over positions on the table, or spooning on the blanket with pillows or cushions for extra comfort. Make sure any table or bench you use is stable, and choose a spot that’s away from crowds so you can focus on pleasure instead of worrying about who might walk past.

Comfort Tips for Better Outdoor Sex

Outdoor sex is hottest when the setup feels good, not like a struggle. Choose a spot with soft ground, a little cover, and enough room to twist, grind, and change positions without worrying who might catch the show.

Bring a few simple comfort essentials: a blanket or towel to turn grass or sand into a makeshift bed, and a cushion or rolled-up jacket to lift hips or support knees so you can really lean into the movement. Slip into clothes that are easy to slide aside or peel off. Elastic waistbands, soft fabrics, and fewer fiddly buttons mean you can get access fast when the mood hits.

Once you’re tangled up together, notice how your bodies feel against the ground, the air, and each other. If something’s pinching, scratching, or killing the mood, laugh about it, shift your angle, or move to a slightly different spot. Treat comfort as part of the seduction, adjusting, teasing, and repositioning until you’ve found that sweet spot where every thrust, grind, and touch feels even better out in the open air.

Want to explore outdoor sex fantasies without leaving home? Connect with Flirts on NiteFlirt who specialize in roleplaying adventurous outdoor scenarios over the phone, and let them talk you through your favorite positions in delicious detail.

Get to Know Annas Your Escape

With Annas Your Escape  (@Annas_Ur_Escape)
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Annas Your Escape01How did you begin in the world of adult chat and phone sex? Well, I used to be a bartender, and I loved flirting with my patrons. My best line was when they would ask for a Southern Comfort, I came back with, “Well, I’m working right now, but I’ll be off at midnight.” I love making men laugh and have a good time. Also, I’m an exhibitionist and love showing off my body. So one day I figured I’d put my sexy wittiness and my love of teasing men together with my body, and here I am!

What do you do for fun when not taking phone sex and phone with cam (cam sex) calls on NiteFlirt? I’m a gym rat. If I’m not on the phone fucking, teasing, and pleasing men, I’m at the gym…most likely doing the same thing while getting my workout on.Annas Your Escape02

If you were some sort of erotic sexy food, what would you be? A mango. If you eat a mango correctly, you use your front teeth to peel back the skin, then bite into the fruit while the juice runs down your arm. Mangos are sweet, juicy, and messy just like sex should be.

What’s the funniest thing that’s happened to you on one of your hot phone sex calls? LOL OMG! Well, I tend to really get into phone sex, and sometimes it can get wild. When I first started, I had an old computer chair that was already on its last leg. During this call, we were being hard core. I had my dildo pushing in and out of me while I was rocking back and forth in my chair when all of a sudden -BAM!- my chair broke, and I fell backward on my back. I was mid-orgasm so I was cumming and laughing at the same time. My man on the phone started cracking up, and next thing I know I get a tribute from him to buy a new computer chair. I swear we laughed about that call for months!

Annas Your Escape03Is there any kind of specific fetish that you yourself enjoy? Confessions. I really enjoy talking to people, and I love keeping secrets. I know everyone has secret fantasies they are scared to express, and that’s what I live for. I just have a wicked desire to know what kind of dirty thoughts a man keeps locked up in the back of his mind.

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Get to Know HavenHesse

Get to Know HavenHesse
With HavenHesse  (@HavenHesse)
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HavenHesse01If you were some sort of erotic sexy food, what would you be?
I would be candied bacon because I’m savory-sweet and bad for your heart.
With all your experience in the world of erotic fantasy and adult chat, what’s your favorite part of sex?
I love when a guy teases me with just the tip before he thrusts deep.
What’s the funniest thing that’s happened to you on one of your hot phone sex calls?
I was in the middle of a heated convo and my Dad’s dog started whining. I had to rub his back with my foot for the entire call to keep his spoiled ass quiet!
Is there anything you do to get yourself in the mood for an erotic fantasy phone sex session?
I put on my makeup and wear some of my favorite lingerie. . .touching myself teasingly until my phone rings.HavenHesse02
Is there any kind of specific fetish that you yourself enjoy?
My favorite kinks are JOI and CEI. And when I’m feeling submissive, I love a good spanking and getting cock slapped in the face.

Get to Know Miss Huntress

Miss Huntress01With Miss Huntress

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How did you begin in the world of adult chat and phone sex?
I lost my job and the only one I could get at the time was as a Dominatrix at which I was actually very good. I am a personal submissive so I understand why submission is beneficial, and my personality is naturally dominant so it was a perfect fit! I then went on to become a Disciplinarian. I utilized that fetish to create incentive/disincentive programs to help people reach real life goals — such as weight loss, procrastination, even daily meditation habits! During the same time, I began to understand and apply the psychological components of the fetish world, and soon I created my own business, “Life Coaching With A Twist.” I am now a Fetish Educator and Mentor. Niteflirt is the perfect platform for my business! It has become apparent over time that helping people understand the underpinnings of their fetishes is definitely what I was born to do — it is actually my Divine Purpose!!!

What is your favorite part of being a Flirt on NiteFlirt?
I enjoy listening to people tell me their stories about how their fetish interests began, and many times, I am the first person they have told. I enjoy being the person who provides a “safe space” for them, listens in a non-judgmental way, and validates their authenticity. That is my favorite part of my occupation! I love it!

Miss Huntress02What do you do for fun when not taking phone calls on NiteFlirt?
Hiking, socializing, singing, and SEX!!!

Is there any kind of specific fetish that you yourself enjoy?
Yes. I am a natural born submissive and I enjoy breath play, biting, and, most of all, spanking.

What erotic fantasy would you like enacted on YOU?
Tie me up, interrogate me, and torture me with tease and denial! PLEASE!!!

Flirt Contest: Goody May-nia

goodiesAhhhh, May! We’re well into spring and looking forward to summer, and that means many of us are doing some spring cleaning. But it’s not just our houses that need sprucing up — our Goody Bags could use a refresh, too! So we’re having a contest to help motivate you and put a little extra cash in your pockets.

All you need to do is create and sell new Goody Bags with fresh, new content. Every new Goody Bag (created after May 1, 2017 and priced at $1.99 or more) that is sold between May 15 and May 31 will be counted towards the contest. Goody Bags containing Skype or other cam IDs are not eligible.

The 3 Flirts who sell the most new bags will get a cash bonus credited to their accounts!

1st Place: $300
2nd Place: $200
3rd Place: $100

It’s that simple! So what are you waiting for? Create fresh content, throw it into new Goody Bags, and get ready for an awesome summer!

Disclaimer: All Flirts providing services on NiteFlirt are eligible for the Goody May-nia sales contest. All Flirts will automatically be entered unless they notify NiteFlirt that they do not want to participate. Each NiteFlirt account is considered its own entry, sales from accounts cannot be combined. Sales of Goodies that are found to be in violation of NiteFlirt’s policies, purchased by the seller, or otherwise deemed fraudulent by NiteFlirt in its sole discretion will not be included in the final sales total. Goody Bags that contain Skype IDs or other cam IDs are not eligible. The Goody May-nia sales contest is based on the total amount of new Goody Bags that are sold to unique customers. Multiple buys of the same Goody Bag from one customer will not count towards your total. Only Goody Bags priced at $1.99 or more and created after May 1, 2017 are eligible. The contest runs from midnight (UTC) May 15, 20175 to 11:59 p.m. (UTC) May 31, 2017. Winners will be announced in the NiteFlirt Community Forums on June 1st, 2017. Prize money will be credited to the winning NiteFlirt accounts within 14 days of the end of the contest.

Get to Know Lucifer Rose

Lucifer Rose01With Lucifer Rose (@LucifersLovRose)
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How did you begin in the world of adult chat and phone sex?
Actually, it was suggested to me by my college roommates. I wanted to learn more about sex and decided to become a phone sex operator this year.

What is your favorite part of being a Flirt on NiteFlirt?
You see, I am still a virgin and I just wanted to discuss some of my fantasies before losing my virginity. Being on Niteflirt allows for me to explore my fantasies of being a pamper princess, having sex with aliens/robots/superheroes, and exploring my ripoff fetish.

Lucifer Rose02What do you do for fun when not taking phone sex calls on NiteFlirt?
Currently, I’m attending university. My major is business administration with a concentration in wine studies and my minor is theater arts so I am totally busy being a musical theater and wine geek! Plus, I write short fairy tale romances that I sell on NiteFlirt. In my spare time, I attend rockabilly festivals, comic conventions, UFO conventions, and tattoo conventions. I love collecting dolls and dreaming about getting fucked by a prince charming. I am into the 1960’s girl group the Shangri-Las because I am into cheap melodrama music by girls like me!

If you were some sort of erotic sexy food, what would you be?
Glamorous chocolate dipped strawberries because I am glamorous and spunky, and virginally sweet.

Get to Know DonaDiabla

DonaDiabla02 With DonaDiabla  (@Diablaworld)
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How did you begin in the world of adult chat and phone sex?
Actually, I got started as a phone sex operator at the age of 18. So, it has been almost 14 years.

What is your favorite part of being a Flirt on NiteFlirt?
My favorite part is interacting with many different types of submissives and slavesDonaDiabla03

What do you do for fun when not taking phone sex and phone with cam (cam sex) calls on NiteFlirt?
Learning more about the occult, playing extreme mind games with men, listening to the Depeche Mode, playing Second Life, and becoming a big star in the game “Kim Kardashian Hollywood.”

If you were some sort of erotic sexy food, what would you be?
I would be tres leche cake with habanero caramel in Kaymak cream because I am the perfect mix of Mexican spiciness and Turkish creaminess. Plus, my skin is the color and flavor of Kaymak.

Gabourey Sidibe was a PSO for 3 Years!

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For most of us, Gabourey Sidibe appeared out of nowhere with her breakthrough role in 2009’s movie “Precious” but her acting career started 3 years before that as a Phone Sex Operator.

In a recent interview with PEOPLE Magazine, Sidibe spilled the T on her career as a PSO. “I was actually pretty good at it,” Sidibe, 33, tells PEOPLE of the phone-sex gig, which she did for three years, fielding calls for two months before moving up in the business. “I did it for two months before I was promoted.”

Sidibe started performing on the phone in her early 20’s after she dropped out of college, pretending to be a “super-young 21-year-old college girl named Melody.” She promptly quit once she was cast in “Precious” and recalls being incredibly nervous about how people would react to her unusual profession.

“I wasn’t just some phone whore,” and she insists that if it wasn’t for this job she would not have been prepared for her acting career.

Are you ready to talk to some of the hottest PSO’s in the business, we got what you need right here!

H/T to our friends at People where you can read more of Gabourey Sidibe’s interview and get the details on her upcoming book “This Is Just My Face: Try Not to Stare” hitting bookshelves this May.