Looking for something exhilarating? We’ve got just the thing: outdoor sex. Below are some of the best outdoor sex positions to keep you comfortable, safe, and seriously turned on while you hook up in the great outdoors.
Assisted Missionary (With Pool Floaty)
Pool floats also make great sex props while getting frisky outside. Placing the float under the receiver’s ass will act as a great cushion and heighten the angle of penetration, which can feel amazing for both partners. This outdoor sex position works especially well in a pool, lake, or backyard with a sturdy inflatable or lounge chair. Just make sure the floaty is stable before things get wild.Lawn Mower (Standing Doggy-Style)
In this doggy-style outdoor sex position, the receiver places their hands on the ground so their body is bent upward while the giver enters from behind. The angle can be deep and intense, and it’s perfect on a grassy lawn or soft ground. Before you drop into position, quickly check the area for rocks, sticks, or bugs, and consider laying down a blanket if you’d rather not get grass stains on your knees or hands.Reverse Cowgirl
This reverse cowgirl outdoor sex position is ideal if you have a blanket and a soft surface, like sand, grass, or a picnic area. One partner lies on their back while the other straddles them facing away, riding at their own pace. Who doesn’t love sex on the beach, or a cozy blanket under the stars? Use a thick towel or blanket to protect your skin from sand and small rocks, and keep some lube handy if things feel dry.Tree Pose (Sex Against a Tree)
A sturdy tree is a natural prop for outdoor sex. You can lean the receiver against the trunk for standing doggy-style, or have one partner wrap a leg around the other’s hip for a closer full-body embrace. This tree-supported outdoor sex position works well on hikes or in secluded parks, but pick a tree with relatively smooth bark and avoid spots where you’re easily visible from trails or campsites.Fire Hydrant (Discreet Oral Sex)
This position is great for couples wanting to taste the outdoors. One partner sits on the ground, preferably with a blanket or towel under their butt, and performs oral sex on their standing partner. This is perfect for a discreet outdoor oral sex position on a lawn, in a quiet park, or by the pool. Keep the receiver low to the ground and the standing partner close, so the angle is comfortable and you can shift quickly if someone walks by. A thicker blanket or folded towel under the seated partner makes this much more knee- and butt-friendly.Picnic Spread
If you have an outdoor table or a big picnic blanket, you can use it as your “bedroom” in nature. Try seated lap sex on a bench, bent-over positions on the table, or spooning on the blanket with pillows or cushions for extra comfort. Make sure any table or bench you use is stable, and choose a spot that’s away from crowds so you can focus on pleasure instead of worrying about who might walk past.
Comfort Tips for Better Outdoor Sex
Outdoor sex is hottest when the setup feels good, not like a struggle. Choose a spot with soft ground, a little cover, and enough room to twist, grind, and change positions without worrying who might catch the show.
Bring a few simple comfort essentials: a blanket or towel to turn grass or sand into a makeshift bed, and a cushion or rolled-up jacket to lift hips or support knees so you can really lean into the movement. Slip into clothes that are easy to slide aside or peel off. Elastic waistbands, soft fabrics, and fewer fiddly buttons mean you can get access fast when the mood hits.
Once you’re tangled up together, notice how your bodies feel against the ground, the air, and each other. If something’s pinching, scratching, or killing the mood, laugh about it, shift your angle, or move to a slightly different spot. Treat comfort as part of the seduction, adjusting, teasing, and repositioning until you’ve found that sweet spot where every thrust, grind, and touch feels even better out in the open air.
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