Category Archives: Feel Good

The Precise Amount Of Time It Takes A Woman To Orgasm, According To Science

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_sex9A study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine used a stopwatch to measure the time it took women to climax—and found the magic number is 13:46 minutes. For eight weeks, a group of 645 women from 20 countries set their sexy-time stopwatches each time they got it on. Researchers found that only 31.4 percent of participants climaxed through penetrative sex, while 68.6 percent of the ladies needed some other form of action, including kissing, “light biting” or touching other body parts.

Some positions were more effective than others, with woman on top as the most popular for cumming— 42.2 percent of ladies said this was the most optimal for them. Relationship status didn’t matter either, since it took about the same time for both married and unmarried women to finish. Another interesting finding: women who wear socks during fucking can increase their pleasure.

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Check out more about a study measuring the precise time it takes women to reach orgasm: https://nypost.com/2020/02/12/heres-precisely-how-long-it-takes-to-make-a-woman-orgasm/

Indiana University’s ‘SexFest’ Features BDSM Safety And Sex Toys

feet-1095408_1280Indiana University is bringing sex positivity to campus with its fifth annual SexFest, an event organized by student-run Sexual Health Advocacy Group. The school is hosting several events and demonstrations throughout the week, including a BDSM Safety Panel that will feature “personal stories from individuals who practice BDSM.” The BDSM panel even includes BDSM practitioners explaining and demonstrating proper technique for flogging.

Other events include “Kick-off to Kink,” which focuses on a “discussion about desire and communication” and includes an appearance from a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. Another event features a “Kink Workshop” where people are able to “browse educational booths demonstrating the use of different sex toys.” Indiana University says, “Our public health researchers have found some evidence to suggest that people are engaging in a broader range of sexual activities and as a result, it is the IU Health Center’s mission to make sure they practice it safely, following the BDSM community’s principal tenets of ‘safe, sane, and consensual.’”

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Check out more about SexFest at Indiana University: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-7975489/Indiana-University-defends-Sex-Fest-featuring-BDSM-safety-demonstration.html

Sex Surrogate Gives Man With Disability A ‘Rocket-Propelled’ Sex Life

17052634_81459f773e_z (1)A 28-year-old man who has cerebral palsy had never had an erotic experience of any kind—until a “sex surrogate” came into his life. The full-time sex surrogate and therapist helps others explore their sexuality and develop skills through one-on-one, hands-on coaching. Typical clients include people who struggle with intimacy and anxiety, have experienced sexual trauma, or who have difficulty reaching orgasm, with 60 percent having disabilities.

The sex surrogate meets with the man once a month, with a typical session involving busting myths about sexuality, teaching him healthy masturbation practices and helping to boost his confidence. “Working with a sex surrogate has blasted a great, big, rocket-propelled grenade through the myth that I am disabled and I therefore have relinquished the right to sexual expression,” the man said. “That’s bollocks!” The sex surrogate—who does not have sex with her clients—said, “If by working with someone, I can help them or I can support them in finding some more joy or a greater sense of self, then that for me is magic.”

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Check out more about a sex surrogate who helps people with disabilities enjoy a healthy sex life: https://nypost.com/2020/01/24/sex-surrogate-gives-man-with-disability-a-rocket-propelled-sex-life/

Science Confirms Weed Makes Sex Better

Sexy St Patricks Day WomanAccording to a new study, science has verified something that many cannabis users have known for ages: weed makes sex better. The study, which was published in the Journal of Health Economics, found that the amount of sex people have increases in states with medical cannabis. Researchers believe that marijuana lowers one’s inhibitions and makes them more able to indulge in behaviors that otherwise might cause anxiety or shame.

“Liberalized marijuana laws clearly lead to more use, and the effects from an epidemiological standpoint show clear increases in disinhibited sexual responses,” a sexologist says. There’s also a growing body of evidence suggesting that some compounds, including THC and possibly CBD, can increase vaginal and clitoral blood flow, which then signals to the brain that the body is down to fuck. “There may well be some women who smoke up before sex because it makes everything easier and perhaps better, but it also may affect the quality of orgasm, making it easier, with good sympathetic blood flow, to have one, and easier in the brain to suspend disbelief and let yourself go.”

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Check out more about why weed makes sex better: https://www.portlandmercury.com/blogtown/2020/01/31/27908366/science-confirms-it-sex-and-weed-are-a-great-match

UK’s Favorite Sex Positions

270833119_0d8840e498_zA sex toy retailer looked into the most-searched sex positions in the UK to find out the favorites for Valentine’s Day. Classic positions like the 69, missionary and cowgirl make the top five most-searched, while the Eagle racked up 150,000 searches in the last month alone. Londoners named the Eagle, the missionary position where the woman puts her legs in the air, as their favorite position.

It seems Love Island had people inspired—the Eagle was made famous by Curtis Pritchard on the racy show last year. And other unusual positions sparked interest online included the Butter Churner, made popular by Callum Jones on Love Island, the Anvil, the Mermaid and the Turtle. People in Scotland are adventurous, preferring 69 and the standing position, while elsewhere Spooning, Doggy Style and the Pretzel also make the top 10 most searched positions.

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Check out more about UK’s favorite sex positions: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-7995007/What-countrys-loved-sex-position-Love-Islands-Eagle-comes-top.html

Man Successfully Cured Of “Orgasm Allergy”

cup-1010916_1920A 25-year-old man has finally found sexual healing after suffering allergic reactions every time he climaxed for nearly ten years. Doctors diagnosed the man with post-orgasmic illness syndrome (POIS), an ejaculation-induced disorder marked by “nasal congestion, burning eyes, concentration difficulties, irritability, depressed mood, and a flu-like state of generalized malaise.” The unfortunate man’s “anti-climactic” condition made it so he “avoided masturbation, and also attempted to avoid ejaculation when engaging in sex with a partner.”

His allergic symptoms got so bad, he was only experiencing orgasms once every two months. Fortunately, the man was finally able to get his “happy ending” when doctors started injecting him with human chorionic gonadotropin, a hormone that prompts more testosterone production. As a result, he reported that “this was the first time since he was 16 that he could experience orgasm without negative physical or emotional consequences afterwards.”

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Check out more about a man who found treatment for his orgasm allergy: https://nypost.com/2020/01/21/mans-orgasm-allergy-gives-him-debilitating-anxiety-brain-fog/

Model Goes Viral For Offering Nudes In Exchange For Donations For Australia

cup-1010916_1920The model who went viral for inspiring people to donate to Australian bushfire relief in exchange for her nude photos now estimates she has raised more than $1 million. The model who goes by “The Naked Philanthropist” ignited the craze with a tweet saying she would send a nude photo to anyone who provided proof that they donated to one of a list of organizations working in Australia. She posted an X-rated photo on Twitter, saying “Every $10 you donate = one nude picture from me to your DM. You must send me confirmation that you donated.”

The tweet blew up immediately, and just a few days later, she estimated that more than $1 million in donations had been generated. “We had some people who donated a lot of money,” she said. “One person $5,000 and at least 10 people $1,000. Those we made sure we had their name and a second verification of the payment,” she said. She estimated that she and a small team she hired to respond to the requests have now sent 10,000 nude photos—although the demand has been so overwhelming that they’ve had to stop.

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Here’s more about a model who offered nudes in exchange for donations for Australia: https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/laurenstrapagiel/kaylen-ward-australia-fires-sex-workers-donations

Fat Sex Thread Trending On Twitter

cup-1010916_1920A sex-positive person on Twitter started a trend about having sex with fat people that’s been trending. The thread begins with: “I have sex with fat people, and it’s not revolutionary: a thread.” They added, “I’m super leery of non-fat people who frame sex with fat folks as an act of liberation. Similar to when they do it to trans folks, it’s always seemed very ‘sensational’ to me.”

The thread discussed fatphobia and fat fetishization, to which the person explains: “I have sex with fat people because they’re hot. Not because they’re fat. Not in spite of them being fat. Not b/c it’s ‘more cushion for the pushin.’ Not b/c they ‘wear it well.’ Not b/c ‘thick thighs save lives.’ Not b/c they’re ‘big but healthy.’ Because. they. are. hot.” The point of the thread really boils down to this statement: “Having sex with fat people isn’t a political statement. I don’t do it because I’m a radical. I don’t do it in the name of liberation. I do it because shorty is fine af and I like butt touchin.”

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Check out more about fat sex trending on Twitter: https://www.buzzfeed.com/jamedjackson/twitter-thread-having-sex-fat-people

Reddit Celebrates Father’s Post About Catching His Son Having Gay Sex

gaypo0rnOne father found out his son was gay by unexpectedly walking in on him having sex with his boyfriend. This dad’s subsequent Reddit post, where he lovingly seeks advice on how to make his son feel comfortable, has the internet ready to dole out a ‘father of the year’ award.  It received thousands of likes and retweets, with many tipping their hats to the father and also offering up much-needed advice and support.

“I [45M] Walked in on son [16M] having gay sex and he’s become quite awkward and distant,” the title reads. “I’m also going to buy him a lock for his door and tell him that I want him to feel comfortable ‘doing it’ in the house with his boyfriend,” he wrote. A user responded by congratulating the dad: “Dad being accepting from the start is great.” Another user wrote: “Dad wanting them to feel safe being intimate at home is an unexpected and great surprise.”

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Check out more about a dad seeking advice about how to make his son feel comfortable having sex after catching him in the act: https://www.dailydot.com/irl/wholesome-reddit-dad-walked-in-on-son-having-gay-sex/

Star Wars: The Rise of Skywalker Features First-Ever Same-Sex Kiss

Image Credit: NASA

Image Credit: NASA

Director J.J. Abrams teased fans that there would be LGBTQ representation in the new Star Wars film. And fans finally got to see the same-sex relationship in Star Wars: The Rise of Skywalker during the film’s release. Two female members of the Resistance shared a kiss in one celebration scene in the film — a first for the franchise’s 40-year history on the silver screen.

“In the case of the LGBTQ community, it was important to me that people who go to see this movie feel that they’re being represented in the film,” Abrams said. Many fans speculated that the same-sex sequence would be shared by Poe Dameron (Oscar Isaac) and Finn (John Boyega), but Abrams quickly shot that idea down during an interview with Variety. LGBTQ folks are very pleased to see a same-sex relationship in a galaxy far, far away.

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Check out more about a same-sex relationship in the new Star Wars movie: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-7806167/Star-Wars-Rise-Skywalker-features-sex-kiss-franchises-40-year-history.html