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This line is for visiting Me with your questions, needs for advice on your kinky journey, negotiating interests + boundaries with others, prep/considerations for play, checking expectations at the door, aiding growth on your kinky journey and things of that nature. This line is NOT for Domination role play/ sessions/ scenes. 

I'm a sadistic + creative lifestyle kinkster in Canada: a Pro Dominatrix + Session Wrestler since 2005. BDSM, Kink + Hedonism are a big part of my life and my happiness. I offer a non-judgemental ear with a lot of life experience, practice life/ body hacking, sex positive advice, notes on RACK/ SSC kink negotiating (risk aware, prioritizing safety, aftercare + backup plans) and have tried many things in many freaky directions. 

• Ask for my consult for negotiating + seeking out your desires, retraining, life experience collecting, hacking the body's chemistry
• Learn how to better verbalize your interests and boundaries
• Confess your freakishness to a non-judgemental and very freaky Goddess who can give you advice on playing out your fantasies
• Pick My kinky brain about your journey
• How to find/ approach play partners that may share your kinks
• How to build play kits for the home from tools to aftercare
• Know that I love kink and really believe in it's power for self-growth, self-exploration, negotiating consent and intimacy, redefining what physical intimacy can look like and how it can feel...

I consider BDSM to be one of the best tools for strengthening the self, meeting your true self, levelling up intimacy negotiating skills + sustain self-trust in heightened + alternate states.  Playing in kink has improved my communication, endurance + patience: remember, it's a marathon, not a race. I love Femdom as a tool for improving men's communication, endurance and patience: it's a marathon, not a race. There are breaks, there are winds in the road and hurdles. If you can stay on task through those, your navigation in this world will completely change for the better. When you show yourself what you can endure through submission  you can navigate the rest of your life with greater strength and self-trust.

Come to ask for my advice for your exploration and submission. 

Enter the Queendom of the divine freak Goddess Aspasia and let me guide you.