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I’m a Canadian Dominatrix + Hedonist known for my unique expressions of kink, weirdness and bizarre themes and scenes as well as:

Goddess worship, Femdom, Findom, Scent Play, Scissoring/ Scissorholds, Domination Wrestling, Breathplay, Ballbusting + CBT, Foot Domination, Corporal Punishment and Percussion, Spanking, Dehumanization, Human Furniture, Ignore, Outings + Kinky Camping, Creative Themes, WAM, Servitude, Transformations, CD + Sissification, "Feminization", Strap On + Anal Training (and other holes of yours), Sensory Deprivation, Shopping, Humiliation, Distance Training, Bizarre Props, Masks, Costumes, Panty Fetish, Sock Fetish, Boot fetish, Human Turkeys, Multi-Hole Slut training, Odd Insertions, Kitchen Puppy, Clowns vs Mimes + Rubber Chickens, Sheet Ghost Sluts, Corn Holing, Perverting the everyday,  Trampling and a lot more than that, but you'll see if you serve Me or come to me for advice.

I lean towards weirdness, variety, transformative and sensation play above all else. I love exploring with submissives who have multiple interests, things to swerve to or swap out with other activities to keep the scene going: it's a marathon not a race. I split my time between city adventures and off-grid stays. I love watching newbie kinksters learn and play in their fetishes + kinks or take natural chemical rides in their own body with pain training, strap on, training for servitude.  Sometimes subs come with me on hikes (city or country) and find themselves tested, their survival and strength as my mule but that takes practice and skills to do. All of this servitude makes subs/ slaves stronger, builds trust (and self-trust)  and helps you better verbalize and negotiate for the experiences you want.  I want you to dive into your inner freak and chug in it's filthy wisdom for bringing more pleasure, discipline + self growth to your person: get that big chunk of happiness and filth you are missing. You get enough of the mundane, of things that look and feel like other things.. now what- will you say yes to the scary unknown and break beyond poorly built barriers in yourself- through risk-aware, sex-positive kink + fetishy goodness. Use my consultation/ brain-picking line to ask me questions about open + alternative relationships, BDSM negotiations, lifehacking, safety with certain tools or kinks and SSC kink navigation.

Femdom:   I live a hedonistic, delicious life. I know many of you would gladly put your cocks in chastity to be My "sexy party" waterboy. Learn to channel your lust into strength and usefulness for Me.  I enjoy retraining men to be able to harness orgasms from everywhere but the usual, to take more pain through kinky rubber rituals, find sturdiness in being human furniture, become slutty princesses or better safer sluts and hone skills needed to be a party sissy (or more attentive lover)... so many uses for a man or dehumanized man puppet/ mascot puppy that better serve Me and other women thank you've been told. I just love incorporating found/ everyday objects so you have multiple reminders of your retraining all around you. If you want to serve Me you have to work on your listening and comprehension skills. I will tell you exactly what I want, the challenge is, will you be able to listen and obey Me truly with all the wonderful distractions that exist in my treasure chest of skills and being. 

Enter the Queendom of the divine freak Goddess Aspasia and let Me guide you...

Address me as Contessa, Goddess or Queen.