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I have made a 29 year career as a professional Dominatrix and a lifetime in the BDSM scene and I am all about safe, sane and consensual. I am still expanding on my repertoire with the plan to continue in the BDSM scene nationwide, expanding, enhancing, education and training myself, my loyal devotees, my companions and the main stream on the art of BDSM, fetish, kink, role play and transformation. Choosing the right Professional Dominatrix for yourself is something which should be done with care, as the right lady will be able to deliver you to the height of ecstasy,while the wrong one will, at best, make you frustrated, and at worst, make your BDSM experience something you will forever regret. In my opinion there are a number of things you need to look for in a Professional Dominatrix; reputation, communication, honesty,compatibility, and discretion, as well as where she stands on specific points; safety, sanity, consensuality and limitations. Without knowing what you are looking for in a Professional Dominatrix, what you end up with may not be what you intended to experience. In addition to the above, I am a nationally known and respected expert in medical fetish play.This includes enemas, water sports, sounds, needle play and just about any kind of exam of any/all orifices. This line of work requires a lot training and understanding of the human body both physically and emotionally. It requires nonjudgmental insight into the workings of “deviant” (as viewed by society) sexual psychology. It requires the ability to effectively wield a diverse array of implements, devices, equipment, and toys and the ability to wield them differently with everyone based on their individual needs and desires. It requires an intuitive sensibility, the ability to read between the lines of verbal communication, to understand the subtleties of body language. It requires an appreciation for the power of human touch whether sadistic or loving. A session is $250 for up to 2 hours and on a first visit you will need to allow at least 2 hours as we'll talk first and you'll get a feel for me as a person and establish a confidence level. BDSM is all about trust, even more so than about pain or submission. There seems to be a need that is fulfilled through BDSM. It could be considered a drug when you think about all of the endorphins, adrenaline, and the feeling of connection that is produced in session. Many clients have wives that have no idea about their darker sexual fantasies. There is fear about judgment and condemnation. Sometimes there is shame. For the record, I do not have sex with clients. Most professional dommes don’t. Sex is generally in the realm of escort work. That doesn’t mean that what I do is not intimate. It most certainly is. Even the heaviest masochist needs to feel safe and nurtured while in scene. A successful professional in this industry is a person who can make someone they’ve never met trust them and become vulnerable before the session even begins. There are a few good dommes out there and a lot of bad ones. If this is a first visit, I won't know you well enough to play without a safe word. While I am very skilled and have never had someone safeword out on me, it's not a good idea to play without a safeword. The people I see on a regular basis have a safeword but never use it--I know them so well that I end the session as they are drawing breath to use their safeword as I like to take them to the edge. A FEW OF MY FAVORITE THINGS.... Asphyxiation and Breath Play Ball Busting Body Worship Caning CBT Cross Dressing Electrical play Flogging Foot (clean or dirty), Stocking, Pantyhose, Spike Heel, Boot Worship Forced Feminization Humiliation Interrogation Nipple Torture Over-The-Knee Paddling Percussion CBT Restraint by leather, duct-tape, etc Role Play Slave training Slapping Shaving Showers Sissy Training Smothering Spanking Strap On Teasing Tickling Trampling Verbal Abuse Whipping