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Study Reveals Ideal Number of Previous Sexual Partners For Men and Women

If you’ve ever wondered what the optimal “golden number” is for notches on your bedpost, a new study has the answer. Published in the Journal of Sex Research, the study asked participants to rank a potential sexual partner’s attractiveness based on how many sexual partners they had in the past. And according to the survey of 188 heterosexual participants on Facebook, the number’s a lot lower than you may think.

For one-night stands, the optimal number was between 2 to 6, with women slightly more forgiving towards men’s previous flings. But when it came to long-term relationships, both sexes were reluctant to get involved with someone with more than around 2 to 3 previous sexual partners. As one researcher of the study noted, “contrary to the idea that male promiscuity is tolerated but female promiscuity is not, both sexes expressed equal reluctance to get involved with someone with an overly extensive sexual history.” While we’re all about equality of the sexes, we have this to say to both men and women: lighten up; it’s only a number.

Want to add another notch to your bedpost? We say the more the merrier!

Check out more about the study that reveals the ideal number of previous sexual partners: https://www.iflscience.com/brain/what-is-the-ideal-golden-number-of-previous-sexual-partners-for-men-and-women/

8 Life-Changing Sex Toys To Try In 2017

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While everyone has a favorite sexual companion in their nightstand, why not try something new this year? According to Amazon users, these naughty products will keep you coming back again and again. Here are 8 sex toys that will change your sex life in exciting new ways (get details in the BuzzFeed link below).

A vibrating cock ringIf the reviews are true, this vibrating cock ring will give you a real good buzz: “Amazing ring! I’ve tried many and this one is just the right size and shape to get the job done. Most of the sub-par rings don’t reach my anatomy during intercourse and this one hits the spot! Love the little nubs on it also. Good quality and well made product!” —Review Girl
A glass dildo for G-spot stimulationAt only $19.95, this amazing toy will make your G-spot and your wallet very happy. It gets a 5/5 rating on Amazon.
Silicon-based lubeSliquid Silver lube will keep things nice and slippery. One reviewer said they had no problem staying lubricated “for long duration of time, including one 24-hour plug session.” Now that’s an endorsement!
A butt plug kit to ease you into anal play Naughty Plug Silicone Anal Trainer Kit is great for those who want to ease on in to ass play. One reviewer says, “The smallest size is not intimidating at all. Comfortable, smooth, and they stay in well.”
A soft and spicy floggerIt gets a 4.8/5 rating because, as Anthony R. says, “Great weight and balance. Can deliver a wide variety of strikes to suit your style of play.”
A sex swingThis exciting product is promising to take your sex game to new heights. It has firm handles for optimal support and adjustable leg straps for deep penetration.
An egg vibe your partner gets to controlThere’s something very exciting about giving control over to someone else. A reviewer boasts, “the multiple vibration patterns and speeds are great. It’s fun to use.”
Soft restraintsThis product is naughty and comfy: “The straps that go around your arms and legs are soft and don’t dig into your skin, which is nice.”

Want to find something new and exciting this year? Come get naughty with us!

Check out more life-changing sex toys to make 2017 the most exciting year ever here: https://www.buzzfeed.com/norawhelan/recommended-sex-toys

Sex Toys Used To Chase Off Armed Robbers At California Sex Shop

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An armed robber got a huge surprise during a sex store stick-up when instead of cash, he got a face full of dildos. The attempted robbery, caught on surveillance video, happened at San Bernardino sex store Lotions & Lace. Just before closing, a man walked in pointing what appeared to be a gun, but the two feisty female store employees weren’t scared.

“With the gun, he walked in. I just thought he was trying to be funny, to scare us,” said Amy, a store employee. “But then I saw the gun and it was like, really? I don’t have time for this.” She started yelling, and eventually began throwing sex toys at him to chase him away. Before long, he fled the store empty-handed. “I think he was a coward,” said the store’s other employee. “Coming in and trying to get over on two females and not realizing that we’re pretty feisty.”

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Check out more about sex shop employees chasing off an armed robber with sex toys here: https://abc7.com/news/armed-robber-chased-off-with-sex-toys-at-san-bernardino-shop/1658847/

New iPhone Device Lets You Send a Kiss Long Distance

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The new iPhone just got a lot more stimulating with the Messages’ Digital Touch tool, “Kissenger.” Kissenger lets you send a virtual kiss to your lover with sensations from the device’s Taptic Engine. This means that with the Kissenger iPhone attachment, you can literally share a kiss with another—even if you’re thousands of miles apart!

All you have to do is press your lips to a silicon pad attached to the bottom of your iPhone and your partner can actually feel the sensation on their own case. As Daily Dot explains, “When you kiss the pad, which is outfitted with force sensors, the device’s app logs the sensation, transmits it to your partner’s device, and then recreates it. They can put it to their cheek, lips, or wherever to feel your kiss.” While it’s perhaps the most PG advancement in the exciting field of teledildonics—and there’s definitely a need to adapt the technology to, ahem, other areas where long distance lovers would want to feel contact—the device is a sweet way to simulate a kiss with someone you’re missing. And with the video chat feature, couples can literally make out—though they’d need to keep their eyes open.

Looking for some virtual stimulation yourself? Come bridge that long distance gap with us!

Check out more about iPhone’s new Kissenger attachment here: https://www.dailydot.com/debug/iphone-kiss-messenger-device/

Studies Reveal The Link Between Sex Drive and Birth Control

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Two studies published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine finally put to bed the myth that birth control can kill a woman’s sex drive. While it’s true that some women do experience a lower sex drive on the Pill, researchers concluded that several factors are more important when it comes to a woman’s libido. Researchers focused on women in long-term, monogamous, heterosexual relationships, and measured their desire for solo sex versus their desire for sex with a partner to see how their relationship choices affected their sex drive in conjunction with being on birth control.

The study found that women on non-hormonal birth control had a higher solitary sex drive and that women on hormonal birth control had a higher desire for sex with a partner. It also found that, “while birth control did have an effect on sex drive for some women, relationship length and age were much stronger predictors of sexual desire than the type of contraception a woman was on,” reports Bustle. Researchers admit that drawing conclusions about women’s desire can be tricky, but that the study ultimately “sheds light on how different types of contraception can affect our sexual appetite and desire.”

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Check out more about the link between contraception and sex drive on Bustle’s website here.

Uber’s New Guidelines Bans Flirting and Sex

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For the first time, Uber released new guidelines that forbid flirting and sex between drivers and passengers. It tells both riders and drivers alike, “please don’t comment on someone’s appearance or ask whether they are single. … And don’t touch or flirt with other people in the car.” The ban is an attempt to deter the unwanted sexual attention women often report about Uber drivers.

Now, according to the Uber terms, drivers and riders could get banned from the service for “asking overly personal questions, and making comments or gestures that are aggressive, sexual, discriminatory, or disrespectful.” It expressly forbids all sexual contact between drivers and passengers, even after a ride is over, “no matter what.” The anti-flirting guideline may help curb harassment and creepy situations for women, such as the incident a Boston.com reporter described where a driver offered her oral sex and locked the doors to keep her from getting out. Hey, creepy Uber dudes: harassment is not flirting—and it’s definitely not sexy.

Looking to get flirty? We are always down for some touching and flirting here!

Check out more about Uber’s new ban on flirting and sex: https://www.slate.com/blogs/xx_factor/2016/12/09/uber_now_bans_flirting_in_its_vehicles_will_that_stop_creepy_drivers.html

Sex Advice App Shows Women Had Great Sex in 2016

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Eve, a popular sex advice app for women, proves that women all over the country had great sex this year. 500,000 women tracked their sex lives, and according to the data, many women said they were very satisfied with sex in 2016. Eighty-nine percent of those who used the app to log sexual activity reported that the sex was either ‘mind blowing’ or ‘pretty good.’ Here’s other interesting findings.

Eve users living in St. Louis had more sex than women in any other city in the US. The next 10 cities where women had the most sex over the last year include Las Vegas; Detroit; Portland, Oregon; Salt Lake City; New York City; Dallas; Orlando, Florida; Wilmington, Delaware; Fort Lauderdale, Florida; and Boston. Eve also found that Aquarius women had the most sex, and that 62% talked to their partners about their sexual histories. Thanks, Eve, for letting women share all the mind blowing sex they had this year!

Want to have some mind blowing experiences yourself? Whatever your star sign, we can definitely send you over the moon!

Check out more about the sex advice app that peaked into women’s bedrooms in 2016 here: https://www.iflscience.com/technology/a-peek-into-womens-bedrooms-in-2016-according-to-a-popular-sexadvice-app/

Spotify’s Top 5 Sex Songs of 2016

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Spotify recently released its most popular sex songs as part of the “2016 Wrapped” list. And since Spotify choose the songs by “mood,” meaning the songs most likely to put you in the mood, this list is sure to make for an explosive end of the year celebration! Here are Spotify’s top global sex songs of 2016.

“Sex”—Cheat Codes
This hot-for-(sex)-teacher music video is all “about sex, baby.” With this catchy tune, you’ll want to “Tell me all your dreams and darkest fantasies.” (Spoiler: it includes muffins, hot dogs, and slapping a fish!).
“This Is What You Came For”—Calvin Harris
This dancey song—featuring the endlessly sexy Rihanna—will definitely make you want to move your body!
“One Dance”—Drake
The thumping, sensual rhythms in this song will have you saying, “Baby. I need to know, where do you want to go. If you’re down, I’ll take it slow. Make you lose control.”
“Work”—Rihanna
Rihanna definitely makes a compelling case to put down the work and get to the lovin’: “You need to get done, done, done, done at work, come over. We just need to slow the motion. Long distance, I need you.”
“Light It Up”—Major Lazer
As the song says, “Tonight, let’s all go free. Set it ablaze like a candle we lit, hotter, yeah, light it up.” Make it hot, 2016!

Looking to set the rest of 2016 ablaze? Come slow the motion and lose control right here!

Check out more of Spotify’s best sex songs of 2016: https://www.bustle.com/articles/198092-the-top-sex-songs-of-2016-because-musics-a-perfect-way-to-get-in-the-mood

The Reason You’re Into Bondage Could Be Because Of Your Cat

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Owning a cat can lead to some serious friskiness, according to research in the journal Evolutionary Psychology. Apparently, cat owners could get into BDSM from a brain parasite they’ve picked up from their pet, toxoplasmosis. Even though it sounds far-fetched, toxoplasmosis has been linked to sadomasochistic behavior in humans.

“Toxoplasmosis Gondii infects billions of people (about a third of the world’s population) and is often transmitted from pet cats—spread through contact with faeces,” reports UK News Yahoo. Using a questionnaire, researchers collected data from 36,564 people in Slovakia and the Czech Republic—741 of whom were infected—and found that people with toxoplasmosis “expressed higher attraction to bondage, violence, zoophilia, fetishism, and, in men, also to masochism, and raping and being raped.” The study’s lead author said that the parasite “succeeds in using the fact that sex-related stimuli and fear-related stimuli affect very similar circuits in the brain. Even without Toxoplasma, there will be some relationship between fear and sex.” So, if you suddenly have an itch to get kinky, your feisty kitty could have something to do with it!

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Check out more about how owning a cat can make you get into BDSM here: https://uk.news.yahoo.com/owning-a-cat-could-make-you-get-into-bondage-experts-warn-095645031.html

New App SessMe Lets You Practice Safe Sext

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While sexting is fun, the not so fun side of it is the fear that those sexy pics might fall into the wrong hands. From revenge porn to hackers, everyone knows there’s a danger in it—and not the sexy, exciting kind. Well, now a new app is claiming to have a solution for risky sexting.

SessMe lets users delete images from an entire network, as well as prevent screenshots and forwards. This means that your sext would really be for the recipient’s eyes only. It even allows you to control the amount of time a sexy photo or message is seen for. Of course, there’s the risk that with this app, a lot of other apps might be released to work around it, so it’s always a good idea to have responsible, safe sext. But this app is a good enhancement.

Looking for some naughty fun yourself? Everything you see will be for your eyes only!

Check out more about SessMe here: https://www.bustle.com/articles/130509-new-app-sessme-helps-you-practice-safe-sext