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7 Tips For Orgies

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feetIf you’ve ever had an orgy, we bet there’s a few things you wish you’d known beforehand. This is why members of the BuzzFeed community decided to give helpful tips for you to know before you go. Because let’s face it—orgies are never what they look like in porn.

  1. Don’t stress if it’s not what you expected.
    “Most of the time, 75% of the group is confused.” Just go with it!
  2. Don’t do something you’re not comfortable with. If you don’t want to be double-penetrated or jerked off or kissed, say so.
    Also, safe words are key.
  3. Stimulation overload can totally occur.
    As one single lady who recently went to swinger’s party said, “Don’t be hesitant to take a break if you need one.”
  4. Don’t let your defined sexuality get in the way.
    “Don’t be afraid to try something new. When there’s more than three people, inhibitions already don’t matter.” Anything goes at an orgy!
  5. Don’t get inside your head about what other people are seeing, doing, or thinking.
    Nobody is judging you if they’re there too.
  6. You’ll know pretty immediately if the orgy is a right fit for you, so trust your gut.
    “Most people who participate in an orgy are extremely open-minded. You’ll either decide immediately that it’s not for you, or you’ll just go with the flow and have a lot of uncomfortable laughs along the way.” Both are totally fine!
  7. If you’re feeling left out, make sure you communicate that.
    Remember that you’re in charge of your own experience at an orgy.

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Check out more tips for orgies: https://www.buzzfeed.com/spenceralthouse/sorry-mom-i-know-i-have-a-college-degree

7 Sex Pillows To Elevate Your Pleasure

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Image Credit: refinery29.com by way of Toughage

If you’re looking for a way to take your sex life to the next level, here’s a great way to do it: sex pillows. Sex pillows are specifically designed to give you the lift you need to maximize your pleasure. Here are the ones that’ll give you the best bang for your buck.

  1. Liberator BonBon
    This one’s perfect for solo play—you can mount your favorite vibrator or dildo to it and enjoy the ride! It’s firm enough to support you, hands-free.
  2. Liberator Wedge
    This basic sex pillow provides the perfect lift to aid in penetration and help you find your G-spot. As one porn star says, “Wedge pillows help to keep me feeling safe and secure while doing wild positions.”
  3. Pipedream Fetish Fantasy Inflatable Position Master
    Specifically designed for BDSM, this pillow’s handles double as an effective place to attach straps for both ankle and wrist bondage.
  4. Liberator Ramp
    If you’re looking for a more intense experience, this ramp allows for even deeper positions. It’s also great for partners with extreme height differences.
  5. Toughage Soft Inflatable Sex Ramp Pillow
    “This sturdy pillow can withstand the most extreme positions, and also doubles as a toy-holder for solo vibrator action,” says Refinery29.
  6. Liberator Hipster
    The curviness of its design makes for optimal G-spot stimulation, and sex positions are virtually unlimited with the high and low lifts.
  7. Pipedream Fetish Fantasy Deluxe Position Master With Cuffs
    The soft velvet pillow and hand-cuffs will allow you to achieve new angles while comfortably being restrained.

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Check out more of the best sex pillows: https://www.refinery29.com/best-sex-pillows#slide-12

7 Sex Horror Stories That Will Make You Say ‘OMG, Are They Okay?’

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wtf-1780728_640BuzzFeed recently asked readers to share the most hilarious, horrific, and weird things that ever happened during an orgasm. And boy did they deliver! These hilarious sex horror stories will make you say “OMG” at the ridiculously unfortunate timing.

  1. Accidental threesome
    “One night, we were in missionary position with her legs up on my shoulders. Just as we were both in the throes of orgasm, her dog, who had apparently snuck up on the bed, jammed his cold little nose right up between my cheeks as I was finishing.” Bad boy!
  2. TIIIIMBEER
    “After a particularly intense session with my fiancé, I hopped off the bed to clean myself up and collapsed onto the floor. My legs were still shaky and not cooperating. He’s laughing, I’m laughing — then I pee myself.” Intense!
  3. Unexpected reaction
    “My boyfriend was going down on me for the first time and instead of having an orgasm, I had a full-blown panic attack. He had no idea what was going on and thought I was enjoying it, until I kicked him in the head.” When losing complete control goes wrong…
  4. Pleasure-pain
    “One time I had a VERY intense orgasm while using my vibrator, and ended up kneeing myself in the face which resulted in a very messy bloody nose. Still no regrets though.” I hope they teach kickboxing!
  5. The worst intruder
    “My girlfriend at the time was giving me a BJ. My dad opened the door and ended up staring me right in the eyes as I finished. Horrifying.” Just. The. Worst. Thing. Ever.
  6. After-O surprise
    “When my boyfriend and I were still in the early months of dating, we were doing it missionary style. Right after he came, he let out a huge fart.” Is it a compliment, like belching after a good meal?
  7. So good it makes you break into song
    “My then-boyfriend (current fiancé) made me orgasm so hard I started crying and singing “The Circle of Life” from Lion King. Still don’t know why a kid’s movie came to mind.” That was one powerful orgasm!

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Check out more sex horror stories: https://www.buzzfeed.com/annaborges/orgasm-horror-stories

People Who Have ‘Friends With Benefits’ Report Being Sexually Satisfied

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adult-1822413_640A new survey of 1,000 Americans and Europeans gives surprising new insights into “friends with benefits” arrangements. As it turns out, women are more likely to have FWBs than men. Not only that, but people who have them are pretty satisfied with their sex lives—in fact, they’re more satisfied than people in relationships.

“51% of Americans in FWB arrangements said they were satisfied, 30% said they were only somewhat satisfied, and 19% said that they were dissatisfied,” reports Refinery29. In comparison, people in relationships rate their sexual satisfaction somewhat lower: 43% of Americans said they were satisfied, 26% were somewhat satisfied, and 31% were dissatisfied. Researchers of the study aren’t necessarily saying that FWBs is superior to relationships, but the survey does prove that casual sex can work very well for some people.

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Check out more about the study that shows people who have friends with benefits are sexually satisfied: https://www.refinery29.com/2017/11/179254/friends-with-benefits-statistics

BDSM Is Just Like Golf, Study Says

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feet-1095408_1280What does golf and BDSM have in common? A lot more than you might realize, actually. According to a new study, BDSM should be treated just like any other “leisure activity.” In fact, the study was so convincing that BDSM has been reclassified along leisure activities in the Journal of Sexual Medicine.

Experts say that since BDSM helps participants develop personal skills, create a sense of adventure and reduce stress, it’s not different than sports like golf, hiking and skiing. If it weren’t similar to such leisure activities, they argue, it wouldn’t include words like “play” and “games.” The study, led by Idaho State University, states: “A few recent studies have suggested that BDSM participation might provide important psychological and social benefits, such as feelings of pleasure or enjoyment, fun, an escape from the demands of everyday life, personal growth, improved relationships and self-expression.” BDSM—ahem, golf—anyone?

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Check out more about the study that shows BDSM is no different than golf: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/sciencetech/article-4979518/Sociologists-claim-bondage-just-like-playing-golf.html

These Strangers Got Busted For Having Oral Sex On A Flight

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2900305586_530cf11668_oTwo strangers are paying the price for joining the Mile High Club. They definitely made their flight from Los Angeles to Detroit a lot more exciting—but then they got caught in the act. A 48-year-old woman was busted performing oral sex on a 28-year-old man, and now, they could both be charged with a misdemeanor or felony.

The in-flight adventure took place right in their seats, which ended up being a huge mistake. Despite its risks, hooking up on a plane is a common fantasy that many people act out. According to a recent survey, of the 17% of people who have fooled around on a plane, only a quarter of them made it to the bathroom, while 80% did it while sitting in coach class. While the Mile High Club is a hot fantasy, getting caught comes with a pretty hefty membership fee.

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Check out more about the strangers who got caught having oral sex on a flight: https://www.refinery29.com/2017/11/179299/mile-high-club-felony-charges

Regular Marijuana Users Have More Sex

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Couple making love in bedA new study is proving what weed smokers have known all along: smoking pot can increase your sex drive. The study, published in Journal of Sexual Medicine, found that people who smoke more weed also have more sex. Researchers looked at data of more than 50,000 people and found a definite link between regular marijuana usage and more frequent sex.

Women who smoked pot had sex an average of 7.1 times month, compared with 6 times per month for those who don’t smoke. The results were similar for men: 6.9 times a month for daily weed smokers, and 5.6 times a month for non-smokers. Researchers aren’t sure whether marijuana caused people to have sex more frequently or not, but they had this to say: “We don’t want people to smoke to improve sexual function, but it probably doesn’t hurt things.”

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Check out more about the study that shows a link between marijuana usage and more sex: https://www.refinery29.com/2017/10/178593/marijuana-users-more-sex-study

Couple Gets Caught Having Sex In Domino’s Pizza

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best_phone_sex_niteflirt_orgasm5One saucy couple were getting pretty hot and heavy while waiting for their pizza. Like Domino’s promise, they definitely finished in 30 minutes or less—and then were swiftly arrested. Daniella Hirst, 29, pleaded guilty to outraging public decency and Craig Smith, 31, was found guilty in absentia because he was incarcerated for another matter, the BBC reported.

The video of the couple, which quickly made the rounds on the internet, shows Hirst giving a blowjob to Smith, and then the two fucking against the front counter (watch portions of the video below). Smith explained their romp, saying, “After ordering the pizza we talked about all the places we’d had sex with each other. Our top five include a bus, a van, a hotel, swimming pool and a field. We wanted to see if we could top it.” Hirst added that while she’s “very open-minded about sex and public places” and “loves the thrill,” she never thought she’d get caught and “end up all over the internet.”

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Check out more about a couple getting caught fucking in a Dominos: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/couple-has-sex-in-dominos-pizza-then-justice-is-served_us_59c52dffe4b0cdc77330d7a8

8 Wildest Places People Have Had Sex

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pumpkinHave you ever longed to boldly fuck where no one has fucked before? If so, you’ll find these places thrilling—because literally nowhere is off limits for these brave folks. Here are the 8 wildest places people have actually gotten it on.

  1. “In my priest’s office, with my mother (the parish secretary) across the hall.”
    Jesus, that’s naughty!
  2. “My boyfriend and I left in the middle of an evening service in a Baptist church to go and have sex in the baptismal pool located in the old sanctuary. We both got a real thrill out of it.”
    Born again filthy—these two need another bath!
  3. “Me and the guy I was seeing at the time had what we called a ‘fucket list’ that covered all of our sex goals. Probably the best one was at the altar of our university’s chapel.”
    One more thing to check off the fucket list!
  4. “I once had sex in a moving motor home, in the double bed above the driver, who was my ex’s mum. The rest of the family were somewhere also in the motor home.”
    Riding dangerously!
  5. “In a hospital room on the gurney right after she was released.” What a way to celebrate!
  6. “Fingerbang in a jury room? This counts, no?”
    Yup!
  7. “My ex and I had sex in the front seat of my car at a drive-in movie theatre. Twice. After, we drove home naked.”
    Now that’s a good date!
  8. “I’ve had sex in a few interesting places, most notably In a cable car over the city of Barcelona and in the gatehouse at Trim Castle in Ireland.”
    Perfect vacation!

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Check out more of the wildest places people have fucked: https://www.buzzfeed.com/benhenry/any-time-any-place

You’ll Never Guess What the Most Dangerous Sex Position Is

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sexy-scientistWe’re willing to bet you’ll never guess which sex positions are the most dangerous. A recent study revealed that it’s actually the most basic sex positions that are the riskiest. As it turns out, doggy style is the position that causes the most ER-related injuries—closely followed by missionary.

Researchers looked into the sex lives of 90 patients, aged 18 to 66, who suffered penile fracture, and found that vanilla sex positions were most often to blame. In 69 cases (!), doggy style caused 37 injuries, missionary caused 23, and woman-on-top caused nine. Researchers say that while it can be difficult in the heat of the moment to “go a bit easier,” men should remember to “take firm hold of their partner’s hips to ensure they stay in position.” They added: “You’re also safer doing this position on the floor rather than with something hard [like a bed or table] in front of you.”

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Check out more about the most dangerous sex positions: https://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/entry/dangerous-sex-position-revealed-doggy-style_uk_59bfc92ae4b02da0e1437360