To the outside world 67-year-old Grahame and his 58 -year-old wife, Sandra seem to live a normal life. They enjoy gardening together, vacationing, and spending time with their 7 grandchildren. Idyllic way to spend your golden years with your loved one, right? Well… this quintessential older couple has a very new-age marriage arrangement. Grahame can get stray tail whenever he desires, and Sandra is okay with this!
The 67-year-old Casanova uses dating sites for fleeting flings and affairs with the approval of his wife, Sandra. Grahame is a frequent user of maritalaffair.co.uk, an online dating website which promotes itself as ‘a dating arena for those looking for extramarital relations.’ Yes folks these websites do exist! Keep in mind that this couple has been married for 25 years, I’m not sure if they are geniuses or if they’re cuckoo for cocoa puffs. One thing is for sure; Grahame is cuckoo for strange ass.
Grahame says: “My wife is into other things. She is grandkids-mad and likes shopping. To be blunt. she isn’t that interested in sex anymore. Lots of women go off sex as they get older. “They go through the menopause and their bodies change and it’s not their fault. Men and women are very different. Men’s brains don’t change. We still think about sex every minute of the day even when we get older.”
“We both respect we are into different things so she turns a blind eye to me putting adverts online for casual flings. I used to use lonely hearts ads in newspapers then two years ago I heard about a website where married people openly look for an affair. It’s full of people like me.”
“We are great friends and great friends give and take. I give my wife anything she wants whenever she wants. I take her on holiday to anywhere she likes. Sometimes she goes away with the grandkids. I keep asking her if she wants a new car but she’s happy with her old banger.”
“I think the world of my wife and I want to stay with her. I’m a very lucky man because I know most women wouldn’t like what I do. But then most men are liars. I never lie to anyone.”
I’m sure to most men, Grahame is living the dream. He has the companionship and love of his wife, and then the rush of a new slay. I’m not sure if Grahame and Sandra are trailblazing or trendsetting for the future, but you do hear these stories more often these days. I would imagine that under the surface things aren’t copacetic between couples that have these modern arrangements; more like it’s one partner just going with the flow because they don’t want to rock the boat this late in the game. I think that Sandra should get out and have her own meat n greet… I mean meet n greet, it’s only fair.
Grahame goes on to explain: “I don’t see them all the time obviously. I’m not a stud I’m 67! Some I only see a couple of times a year. I arrange more than that because often they don’t materialize. Sometimes women chicken out at the last minute – I think they just like the fantasy.”
“Things start off with a few emails back and forth. Then we exchange pictures. I always drive to meet them, choosing a pub half way between us. I’ll travel anywhere really. There’s one woman in Leeds who I see every few months. I stay overnight at her house. She is a single mother of 55 and calls me whenever she fancies company.”
“The first date is usually just a drink to take the pressure off. Women can be hesitant at first until they get to know and trust someone. If we want to take anything further we’ll arrange a second date. Sometimes we will book a hotel or if she is single I will stay with her.”
WOW this is a lot to digest. I think in today’s world its getting to the point that there is so much temptation, so much access to a fling or affair through dating sites and social media that this might be the mechanics of a relationship in the near future. Can you imagine, looking at your significant other and asking them how their night was, and getting the response, “I came twice, it was a lovely shag, and you?”
Link for the Article: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2305701/My-wife-lets-affairs-One-happily-married-man-defends-use-extra-marital-affairs-dating-website.html?ito=feeds-newsxml
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