If you want to get extra chummy with your neighbors, just look for the tell-tale signs. Pampas grass is one way to detect a kinkster next door—this grass, which you may have seen on front lawns across the country, has been associated with swinging since the ’70s. In addition to grass, the host of the Life on the Swingset podcast says many swingers choose to wear a black ring.
The host said: “Wear your black ring on your right hand if you are out and open to meet other swingers.” According to the Swinger Code website, people who are up for swapping partners often wear a wristband showing a special symbol for swinging—the symbol, which consists of the internationally known male and female signs, intersecting and oriented horizontally, with three plus or minus signs on both sides, which differs based on what the swinging couple are into. Also, an upside-down pineapple in the garden—or worn on jewelry and clothing—is known as another swinger trait, especially in the form of a door-knocker.
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