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Meet the Fetishists Who Like to Dress Up as Puppies (and Bone)

There’s a new documentary called “The Secret Lives Of The Human Pups” that explores the unusual world of “puppy players,” a subset of the BDSM community that finds pleasure in dressing up and pretending to be dogs. “Puppy play” attracts a wide variety of people, but most are gay men with a interest in leather and crawling around on the floor like a dog. According to the Guardian, the kinksters get a sexual thrill out of behaving like puppies, including playing with chew toys, eating out of bowls, and wearing dog-masks.

While the fetish play probably often leads to boning, one human-puppy named “Kaz” explains that his interests are more innocent. “People automatically jump to the conclusion that this is gear we wear to have sex. I used to get asked awful questions like, if I liked having sex with dogs,” he said. “But it’s certainly not that, and it’s not always sexual. Members of my pack, we spend a lot of time together at home just being dogs.” Another man who’s spent almost $6,000 on transforming himself into a dalmatian named Spot likes the way the ear scratches, belly rubs, ball chasing and treats allow him to “disappear.” We say, run, Spot, run—toward your kinky puppy play!

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Check out more about the fetishists who like to dress up as puppies here: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/documentary-secret-lives-of-human-pets-puppy-play_us_5745da94e4b055bb1170e4b6

5 Fancy Establishments That Used To Be Raunchy Sex Clubs

15929936930_14a78eca47_mIn many of New York City’s most upscale spots, the expression “If these walls could talk” is definitely applicable. That’s because the sites of several chi-chi establishments have a way wilder, raunchier past. Here are some fancy places that used to cater to a much seedier, much sexier clientele.

  1. DOS CAMINOS (675 Hudson Street)
    At this Meatpacking joint that now sells swank Mexican food, “meat used to be seriously packed,” as Papermag puts it. “The place used to be the Vault—the hardcore S&M club where CEOs got whipped and waxed until 1997.” Escandaloso!
  2. SUGAR FACTORY (835 Washington St)
    This trendy spot used to be the Mineshaft from 1977 to 1985, aka the most notoriously raunchy gay sex hangout of all, “where studs congregated around the communal bathtub to relieve themselves on a willing slave.” It’s like the song says, “Pour some sugar on [slave]!”
  3. LEFT BANK NYC (117 Perry Street)
    This fancy spot catering in pork chops and pickles used to have a very different type of sausage in its kitchen in the 1970s. It was the International Stud, where a legendary side room catered to horny gays yanking out their sausages!
  4. SHAKE SHACK (691 8th Avenue)
    This touristy Times Square destination was once the all-male porn theater the Adonis. Until finally closing in 1994, it hosted “dirty movies and raunchy real-life blow jobs among the customers, all creating a multimedia skankfest of delight.”
  5. JUE LAN CLUB AT LIMELIGHT SHOPS (47 W. 20th Street)
    This swanky Chinese spot was the nightclub the Limelight back in the ’80s and ’90s, “a mecca for raucous clubbies on drugs and occasionally on their knees. The stuff you saw in the stairway alone!”

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Check out more swank establishments that used to be raunchy sex clubs: https://www.papermag.com/five-fancy-restaurants-that-used-to-be-raunchy-sex-clubs-1820166323.html

A Polyamorist View of Monogamy

Have you ever considered what’s more difficult, monogamy or polyamory? Many people assume that because monogamy is the more socially acceptable form of romantic partnership, it must be easy, and more natural. But a polyamorist in Together magazine examines the many challenging and unnatural ways monogamy manifests itself in our society. Here are some of the highlights (read the entire piece below).

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“Arguably, polyamory requires a lot more ‘work’ than monogamy. It’s logistically more challenging managing multiple relationships—there are only so many hours in a week,” says polyamorist Michael McDonald. “But if monogamy is so much simpler than polyamory, why does it feel like so much work?” McDonald argues that monogamy is not natural—as in, it’s not in a human’s nature to couple with just one person—so if a person chooses to be monogamous, then they are participating in “an advanced form of relating that requires us to transcend what comes naturally to us in relationship.”

McDonald goes on to describe how monogamous couples can be separated into two different camps: conscious monogamy and unconscious monogamy. Conscious monogamy is when a couple transcends their very nature to choose a long-term, co-created partnership. Unconscious monogamy is rooted in fear, relating to societal expectations and to anxieties about security, which he says is the more common, more insidious form of monogamy we often see today. McDonald believes, therefore, that we should “be encouraging polyamory as the norm, and monogamy as the advanced, only meant for the most experienced.”

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Check out more about a polyamorist’s view of monogamy here: https://together.guide/a-polyamorist-view-of-monogamy/

 

8 Even More Awkward Moments You Have During Man-on-Man Sex, Part II

As you probably know, sex can be awkward. And as we already covered in “8 Awkward Moments You Have During Man-on-Man Sex, Part I,” sometimes shit literally happens if you’re a guy who fucks guys. Here are 8 even more awkward moments you have during gay sex.

  1. When you run out of lube
    This especially sucks when you are oh. so. close. to finishing!
  2. When he pulls down his pants and you realize there’s no way he’s ever…
    Gonna fit! Bigger isn’t always better, as it turns out.
  3. When you accidentally catch a load in your eye
    And then no one actually believes that you have pink eye.
  4. When you can’t find his butthole
    You’re poking around like a fool as he’s waiting impatiently for you to find it.
  5. When he looks nothing like his Grindr profile
    Hm, maybe it’s time to update that pic—you know, by about 15 years!
  6. When you can’t finish no matter what
    A bottle of lube, a cramped jaw, hand and wrist later, he finally gives up!
  7. When you realize your both tops or bottoms
    This is like that awkward dance in a confined space when you’re trying to get around a person who is also trying to get around you, and you’re both accidentally going in the same direction.
  8. When you have to pee right as things are heating up
    Do you run to the bathroom and ruin the moment, or pee on him? The choice is yours.

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Check out more even awkward moments you have during man-on-man sex here.

Trump Literally Fucks America in New X-Rated Video

Kink.com has taken the idea of Trump “Making America Great Again” to a new satiric level with their edgy video called “Make America Gape Again.” The local hardcore and fetish porn site is sure to shock even seasoned viewers with this video, in which Trump literally fucks America—gangbang style! “I’ve directed a lot of hardcore,” Maitresse Madeline Marlowe, the director of the film, an independent film director who shoots Kink’s femdom series, said in a release. “But this is this is by far the darkest thing I’ve ever done.”

Trump is portrayed by a group of five men wearing a mask of his face (perhaps a commentary on his many personalities/personas), and Lady Liberty is played by porn star Ella Nova, a Miss America-type blonde bombshell with a red-white-and-blue bush! While the gangbang is consensual, the video is meant to shock and horrify viewers. “We didn’t want to show Trump as a comic figure, we wanted to show him how we see him: as a powerful but frightening force. That’s why we mixed in actual footage of Trump in some of the promos,” says Marlowe. The fact of Trump’s rise to power is depicted in the surreal yet frighteningly on-the-nose screwing of America. Still, if you like some horror with your porn, feel free to gape below. God bless America?

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Check out Trump literally fucking America here.

8 Awkward Moments You Have During Man-on-Man Sex, Part I

If you’re a man who fucks other men, you’ve probably had some not-so-sexy, somewhat embarrassing experiences during sex. And if so, you’ll probably recognize at least a few of these awkward moments (terrible beard-burn, anyone?). Here are 8 awkward moments during man-on-man sex.

  1. When you get facial hair in your mouth while kissing
    This can be pretty disruptive. But, hey—at least it’s facial hair and not some other type of hair!
  2. When you’re lying on top of each other and your erect penises keep awkwardly poking each other
    Guy 1: “Oh, excuse me!”
    Guy 2: “Oh, excuse me!”
  3. Beard-burn from kissing
    Ouch! Worse than rug burn!
  4. When you’re so turned on, you orgasm within seconds of him touching you
    “OMG, you’re so hot…Oops!”
  5. When you can’t get it up
    It happens. And yes, it’s awkward.
  6. When he’s just too tight
    “Just. Can’t. Seem. To. Get. It. In. Argh!”
  7. When you keep falling out
    As Homer Simpson would say (if he had gay sex): D’oh!
  8. When you get a little poop on your penis
    Well, it was probably worth it!

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Check out more awkward moments you have during man-on-man sex here and keep watching the Phone Sex Blog for part 2 coming up in a few days!

Sexperts Explain Whether Pineapple Actually Makes Cum Taste Better

Maybe you’ve heard that eating pineapple and other sweet fruits will improve your taste and smell down there. While you probably have nothing to be concerned about—we’d be willing to bet you taste just how you’re supposed to taste—many people, especially women, worry that their pussies should resemble sweet tropical fruit. To address this common anxiety, sexperts weigh in on whether foods like pineapple actually makes your cum taste better. Here’s some helpful highlights (read more below).

On Buzzfeed, an OB/GYN explains, “To be fair, this myth isn’t total garbage. Your bodily fluids—like sweat, saliva, and vaginal secretions—can all be influenced by your diet and lifestyle habits.” This means that eating pungent foods like garlic can give your spunk a pungent aroma. But, in general, eating a nutritious diet and staying well hydrated are your best tools for maintaining healthily aromatic bodily fluids—not eating a bunch of pineapple before a big date! Also, hygiene is important (washing with mild soap and water is really all you need). The bottom line: “A vagina should smell and taste like a vagina,” says the sexpert. So don’t worry—whatever you got going on down there, whether or not it tastes like a piña colada, is probably delicious!

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Check out more about whether pineapple makes your cum taste better here: 

Game of Thrones’ Lesbian Reveal Made Viewers’ Dreams Come True

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_gameofthronespornstarsA recent episode of Game of Thrones had viewers cheering during its big reveal: Yara Greyjoy is a lesbian! The badass, aspiring ruler of the Iron Islands showed that her passions lie not only in leading armed combat, but also in hot girl-on-girl action. Because as she so aptly pointed out, “No one on the Iron Islands has an ass like that!”

The lesbian reveal took place in a brothel, with Yara getting some (non-violent) action with a sexy, topless lady. While Game of Thrones has had a few queer characters before, Yara’s coming out was undeniably bold, shameless, and definitely hot as hell! Here’s to getting some kicks in before battling all of Westeros for the throne, Yara! You deserve a good stress relief! Want to have some good times yourself? Come show us where your passions lie! Check out more about the big lesbian reveal on GoT here: https://www.pride.com/tv/2016/6/06/game-thrones-lesbian-reveal-made-our-dreams-come-true

The Vagina Costume Spreading Awareness and Laughs

Photo via Conceived Brooklyn

Photo via Conceived Brooklyn

Have you ever wanted to show your support for pussy power—by actually dressing up as one? If the answer is yes, you’re in luck: a Brooklyn company is manufacturing Lycra and polyester costumes designed to look like a vajayjay! The company, Conceived in Brooklyn, has been making headlines lately for their adorable, $149 pink costume, which also has a philanthropic aim: to celebrate women’s vaginas!

“A vagina costume can provoke an uncomfortable response,” reads the company’s website. “Our intent is to draw attention to a topic that many people aren’t aware of.” What the company’s doing is often called “vagactivism,” defined as “a delightful form of activism that champions women’s rights by destigmatizing and celebrating the vagina.” If it isn’t totally clear how wearing a giant vagina costume will do that, besides showing pussy pride, Conceived in Brooklyn has promised to donate $10 of every $149 to 50 Cents. Period., an organization that promotes women’s health, menstrual hygiene, and sex education around the world. The costume company is also trying to spread the vagina love on social media with the hashtag #costumeforacause. So, if you want to show your love for the vag—and you don’t mind looking like a giant pink hotdog—you know where you can find your cute vulva costume!

Want to show your support for the vagine? You don’t need to dress like one to show your love!

Check out more about the vagina costume that spreads awareness here: https://www.slate.com/blogs/xx_factor/2016/05/25/what_is_the_deal_with_this_149_vagina_costume.html

The More You Masturbate, The Less Chance You’ll Have of Dying Prematurely

best_phone_sex_niteflirt_blowjobsWe have good news for the guys who enjoy regular self-love. According to a study published in the European Urology, guys who masturbate more often significantly reduce their chances of dying prematurely. The study followed 30,000 men over the course of 20 years, and found that men who regularly jerk off were generally healthier and had lower chances of being diagnosed with prostate cancer.

The study found that those who masturbate more when their young fare better later on in life. “Men who ejaculated at least 21 times a month in their 20s were 19% less likely to be diagnosed with prostate cancer than men who ejaculated about seven times a month,” reports Gaystarnews. The study also discovered that men in their 40s who choke the chicken on a regular basis are 22% less likely to be diagnosed with prostate cancer. Jennifer Rider, the leader of the study said: “Ejaculation frequency is, to some extent, a measure of overall health status in that men at the very low end of ejaculation – 0 to 3 times per month – were more likely to have other (medical problems) and die prematurely from causes other than prostate cancer.” So, guys, better get wanking!

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Check out more about how masturbating more decreases your chances of dying prematurely: https://www.gaystarnews.com/article/masturbate-prevent-chances-dying-prematurely/#gs.IlY1oTs