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The Secret Lives Of Cuckolding Gigolos In India

There are sex workers in India who specialize in straight and gay cuckolding couples. One gigolo says his clients like it when he ties his flowing hair in a bun—particularly when he uses the wife’s hairclip. These are the men defying taboos in India by helping Indian couples translate such fantasies into real life. 

I offered to play a bartender and served him drinks while his wife blew him. I massaged him too. The idea was to make him feel good about himself so that he could ease himself into the act. It was only when he was comfortable that I proceeded to fuck his wife,” says one cuckold. Another gigolo talked about a very high-profile client: “He told me I could fuck his wife but I had to disclose my caste first. And he was not joking.” The gigolos talked about some of the more “surreal” experiences they had: “Towards the end, when the wife was about to cum, she abruptly pushed me away and came on the husband’s face who was still on the floor,” he said. “And like magic, he came without touching himself.”

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Check out more about cuckolding gigolos in India: https://www.vice.com/en/article/akgyna/cuckolding-sex-workers-gigolos-india

New Book Reveals How To Have Your Best Sex After 60

People in their 60s are enjoying the best sex of their lives. The author of a new book about how to have the best sex ever after 60 says, “Now that so many of us are living longer and outliving our partners or our marriages, the idea (and practice) of good sex for the old is very much centre stage.” She talks about the importance of “speaking up,” saying “Tell each other what you can and can’t do, what feels good and what doesn’t, what you need in order to feel sexy.”

She suggests guiding a partner’s hand and using words (quicker, slower, stay right there, etc.) to achieve sexual satisfaction. She talks about being open to sexual experimentation and to “discovering over-the-top sensations you didn’t know existed.” She says, “After your decades of growth, you’re likely to be more confident, more comfortable revealing yourself and being bravely close. This capacity for honesty and intimacy can intensify sex.”

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Check out more about a new book revealing how to have your best sex after 60: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-9895987/New-book-reveals-best-sex-60.html

New Study Reveals Top 20 US Cities For Cheating

It seems that after a year stuck in lockdown, people are itching to get outside of their house—and their marriage—for some action. Infamous dating site Ashley Madison has revealed the top 20 US cities for cheaters to find a hot fling. The state-by-state infidelity breakdown, published in the Journal of Sex Research, was based on the number of sign-ups to the dating service during the pandemic.

Last year, the company saw a spike in the number of sign-ups between March 1 and April 25, with up to 17,000-plus new accounts created in a single day. Miami took the top spot, with Atlanta and Oklahoma City—and the aptly nicknamed Sin City—also landing on top of the “Summer of Sex Index.” Meanwhile, cities such as Boise, Idaho and Tucson, Arizona made their debuts just in time for what’s alternately been dubbed “Hot Vax Summer,” “Slutty Summer” or “The Whoring ’20s.”

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Check out more about a new study revealing the top 20 US cities for cheating: https://nypost.com/2021/07/02/top-20-cities-for-cheating-in-the-us-revealed-sex-study/

Four Hours Of Exercise A Week Boosts Women’s Sex Lives, Study Says

Four hours of exercise a week can work wonders for a woman’s sex life, research shows. Scientists found it boosted arousal and increased the chances of orgasm. Regular physical activity is known to reduce the risk of erection problems in men, so Italian researchers wanted to see if there were similar effects in women, recruiting 322 women mostly in their mid-forties for the study.

The women were asked about their sex drive and how much they exercised, and had ultrasound scans to measure blood flow to the clitoris. The results, published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, showed those doing less than one hour a week of activity had high levels of sexual dysfunction—and those doing more than six hours a week had even worse sex lives. Those averaging four to six hours weekly—or 35 to 50 minutes a day—had the best chance of being sexually fulfilled.

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Check out more about how four hours of exercise a week improves women’s sex lives: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-9702599/Four-hours-exercise-week-boosts-womens-sex-lives-study-says.html

Explicit Sex Guide Airs On Norwegian Public Television

An explicit sex guide released by Norwegian public television left viewers with tongues wagging. Public broadcaster NRK offered a guide of no less than 60 different sex positions, with imaginative names including “the squeezing koala” and “spaghetti.” The guide includes XXX photos of real life couples, both straight and gay, demonstrating various sexual positions completely in the nude.

The network said, “During the preparation, we contacted over 20 experts – sexologists, psychologists and therapists.” They continued that support has been “overwhelmingly positive” and 850,000 users viewed the online guide within the first five days of it being released. The guide also includes practical positions for people who suffer from a certain condition such as back pain, or for those who are pregnant—we think this sex guide is definitely a public service.

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Check out more about an explicit sex guide on Norwegian public television: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-9700987/Explicit-sex-guide-Norwegian-public-television-causes-stir.html

Half Of Adults In UK Watched Porn During Pandemic, Study Says

It seems adults in the UK found fun ways to occupy themselves during the pandemic. Half of the adult population in the UK watched online porn during the pandemic, according to a recent study by a media regulator. The study found that 26 million individuals viewed adult material in September 2020.

By far the most popular site was Pornhub, which was visited by 15 million people—50% of men, and 16% of women. The figures rose substantially among younger age groups, with a third of young women and three-quarters of young men visiting Pornhub. The study also quoted Pornhub’s own claims that the average UK visitor spent 10 minutes and 20 seconds on the site—those naughty Brits!

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Check out more about a study showing that half of adults in the UK watched porn during the pandemic: https://www.theguardian.com/media/2021/jun/09/half-british-adults-watched-porn-pandemic-ofcom

Lesbians Candidly Answer Questions About Their Sex Lives

Nine Australian women who identify as lesbians answered a range of questions about their sex lives on ABC’s “You Can’t Ask That.” They were asked questions like, “did you try dick?,” and “how does sex work?” One woman, who was married to a man for 30 years, said that after she admitted her sexuality to herself, the first time she had sex with a woman “my whole body reacted.”

Another woman who is a self-professed “butch” lesbian has never slept with a man, but says she has a “nice looking dick” at home. When they were asked “how does sex work?” almost all the participants on the program agreed that “scissoring” was a “good time” and indulged with sex toys. A lesbian said she has a strap-on and buys a new one every time she has a new partner, “out of respect.”

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Check out more about lesbians candidly answering questions about sex: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-9644107/Muslim-lesbian-sex-worker-says-shes-400-d-ks-Ask-That.html

Dr. Ruth Says 90-Year-Olds Should Still Have Sex

Renowned sex therapist, 93-year-old Dr. Ruth Westheimer, has advice for her peers: keeping having sex. But there’s a caveat—the sex has to be good. She says, “If they have a good partner, they should have sex. If you don’t have a partner, they should satisfy themselves. Period. There is no age limit.”

Dr. Ruth went into sex therapy many decades ago to help “strengthen family life.” She said growing up as a Jewish person, “sex was never a sin, but an obligation—for a husband to satisfy his wife—period.  I realized I did not know enough and I just wanted people to know about contraception and STDs.” Speaking of her own “good” marriage, she said her husband was very supportive of her career: “He went with me to NBC every Sunday night for 10 years when I did my ‘Sexually Speaking’ program,” she said.

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Check out more about Dr. Ruth telling 90-year-olds to keep having sex: https://nypost.com/2021/06/05/dr-ruth-yes-90-year-olds-should-still-have-sex/

The Top Masturbation Question People Had During The Pandemic

During the lonely months of the pandemic, people had one thing on their minds: masturbation. In particular, people Googled one main question. It seems between March 2020 and May 2021 people around the world were Googling to find out if masturbation had any impact on their immune systems.

The top masturbation-related query on Google since March 2020 (both in the U.S. and worldwide) was “masturbation affect immunity.” One doctor attempted to answer the burning question: “You can’t say, ‘Oh my gosh, masturbation every day will prevent COVID.’ That’s definitely not going to happen,” she explained. “But you can say ‘It’s certainly not going to create harm.'” While masturbation might not make you immune to COVID-19, the doctor noted that masturbating and having orgasms provide a slew of other mental and physical benefits for both men and women.

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Check out more about the top masturbation question people had during the pandemic: https://mashable.com/article/does-masturbation-boost-immunity-coronavirus/

How To Have Safe Shower Sex

Shower sex can be very hot—just as long as you don’t slip and fall. Porn star and marketing director for an adult film company Jiz Lee has some sage advice, first of which is simply to use a bath mat: it will make shower sex less slippery and add some cushion to your knees for giving head. You can also opt out of standing and use a bench or stool: “Benches or shower chairs can also be used to prop a leg up, or to lean on if you’re bent over,” they said. 

Lee cautioned people against standing on the ledge of the bathtub, or holding onto the curtain rod. Also, whenever you adjust positions, take a second to make sure you feel steady and stable—not just to avoid potential injury, but also because it’s much harder to have good sex if you’re worried about falling. Lastly, Lee encouraged people to “lean into the entire sensory experience of having sex not only with yourself, or your partners, but with the water”—if you have a removable shower head, you can experiment with hydro stimulation.

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Check out more about how to safely have shower sex: https://www.vice.com/en/article/qjpn35/how-to-have-sex-in-the-shower