Older New Yorkers are booking more appointments for BDSM, according to a Manhattan dominatrix. The dom at a Manhattan dungeon said her boomer clients want to learn “how to please their partner”—and “unpack “years of sexual oppression.” She claims the consensual kink is like “emotional therapy,” but costs less than a shrink.
For members of older generations, a dungeon is a place for them to let their kink out in secret. Another Manhattan dominatrix and a sex-work researcher at UCLA said her clients average in their 50s, but 40% of her business is 60 and up. Older clients tend to like “classic BDSM”—including wanting to engage in corporal punishment, role play and bondage; younger clients are more into sensual domination—a softer form of domination focused on real or fancied pleasurable sensations—and fetishes, she said.
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