Phone Sex

Hello! I’m Julie! One of the things I like best about life is the way that we as humans are able to pivot and try new things that appeal to us (and conversely steer away from things that don’t work). I, myself, often prioritize comfort and familiarity, so I don’t try as many new things as I think I should, but this is a great start!

I’m a guidance counselor by day and, well, a frustrated guidance counselor by night! That’s my joke. Ask any therapist, psychiatrist or counselor and they will tell you the same thing: the worst part of the job is clients who don’t help themselves. Ideally, I’d like to be able to tell people what to do to solve their problems and then have them do it. That is not only a pipe dream, but something that would fly in the face of every ethical standard there is in the profession.

However… on line and when dealing with sex in the capacity of someone interested in getting to the root of the fantasies and helping people achieve their goals, it seems more than apt. So after taking a lot of deep breaths, I finally jumped into the fray!

I’m 30 and based in New York City. I can’t say that I ever expected to go down this path, but I am intrigued by it and thus pursuing it. I think what makes the concept of phone sex so appealing is that the people who call in have a goal in mind; a specific goal. It’s not a nebulous concept: I’ll get better (though I would assume you would be better at the end of the call), it’s a focused goal and I can assist and keep on track.

I have seen a number of clients (admittedly few and far between) who have sexual issues that they’re dealing with and the energy of those exchanges is always significantly different than with clients who have behavioral things they want to work on. It really is limiting to be meeting with someone, know the answer to what they need, (“You need a threesome with another guy!”), but not be able to put it forth in specific and detailed terms. Rest assured, if I think you need a threesome with another guy, I will make certain to share that with you.

As for me, my main points of fulfillment in the bedroom are knowing that my partners are being pleased. Encouraging comes naturally to me… as does a sense of perfectionism. I want to do it right and I want it to be great for you. I am open to many things providing that they are legal and do enjoy a good romp in the great outdoors. Let me know if you have any questions and let’s begin! The counselor is now available!