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|08/04/2016||M.......8||Fun first call. Goddess is fun and firm. Makes things interesting.|
|06/24/2016||r......t||Goddess BellaDonna, You are simply exquisite and this puppy's mind and soul adores and cherishes You|
|06/23/2016||n........y||Very good... took control right away... and bent over her knee. Call got cut short, but will call back to receive all my spankings, Ma'am.|
|06/13/2016||r......t||Goddess Belladonna, You are an extraordinary Woman, Superior and Intelligent and Your words are pure truth. Grateful to You for sharing Your wisdom and breathing the freshness of Your words into my mind.|
|06/07/2016||r......t||Goddess BellaDonna, What a beautiful, straight forward, well written, informative piece of literature. You are a true genius and I am very fortunate to be able to read this. Thank You and my prayers for Your good fortune Puppy|
|05/27/2016||r......t||Goddess Belladonna, Thank You allowing me to learn more from You about who I truly am.|
|05/25/2016||r......t||Thank You Goddess, You are the truth, You are my mentor. You are Real and to adore and worship You is the greatest of privileges. Thank You for Your friendship|
|05/23/2016||p....y||great explanation of castration , gelding and penectomy . and how she would have complete power over me by removing my [her] useless dick and balls!|
|05/15/2016||j......2||i want to be a good boy|
Close your eyes for a second, take a deep breath, and then allow yourself to slowly sink to your knees before my presence. Count to 10, nice and slow, before opening your eyes again and continue reading. Did you do what I asked of you? Very good, you have just obeyed my first order and it wasn’t that difficult it was it?
Most orders are not that difficult to obey and submission doesn’t have to be painful at all. D/s and S&M are not the same, so don’t confuse the two.
There are hundreds if not thousands of variables in the wide world of BDSM, Fetishes and Kinks. The experiences and intensities of how you experience something may never be the exact same. This alternative world were we "love differently" comes with unending possibilities and more to learn then any of us can do in a single lifetime.
Which is why if someone tells you they know everything or are THE BEST keep moving, there is no such thing. We all – both sides – continue to explore, experience and evolve as our D/s relationships grow, our play partners change, our experience levels rise, we find our own special place within it that is wonderfully suited to our core personality, and as we learn about new to us kinks, fetishes or alternative to the traditional play aspects.
It may be overwhelming at times my darlings, but it is ever so exciting! Don't miss out because of fear, misconceptions, strict religious upbringing, self-doubt, fear of rejection or a million other reasons that stops most people from stepping into this colorful and encompassing world of Adult sexuality and yes even spiritual self-evolution.
(Did you know that when asked an opinion on something as trivial as my look above it is still considered a service you provide for your Goddess???? There are so many misconceptions of what is and what isn't D/s these days... )
Ready to get to know a little about your potentially new Goddess or experienced Chat Partner and Guide?
I consider myself a more mature (born 1970) everyday BBW woman and yes very much a living Goddess (go ahead ask me it's ok) who just happens to be born an alpha female personality.
Taking control and making decisions is extremely easy for me and feels natural.
I was born in Germany, but have been in the USA since 1988. I barely speak the German language anymore since I decided upon entry to the US that I would honor and respect the national language of my new Home County and speak in English only.
However you can still hear my accent come out every so often when I get excited about something... (It's ok to laugh when it does, I can be rather cute at that point... Oh the stories I could tell you.. )
In my everyday regular vanilla life I am a full-time RVer who travels the USA as much as possible. I love to read, write, watch Netflix, go for walks, draw, love to cook, enjoy playing D20 type Games and a ton more completely non-kinky things.
I am an open book and have no problem talking to you about that aspect of my life either, matter of fact I always encourage those who wish to become my long distance or phone subs to take interest in who I am as a person and I would love to do the same with you during our calls together.
I have been part of the BDSM, Fetish and Kink world since 1992, both as a Lifestyler as well as a Professional. Online, Phone, as well as real time. I have experienced both sides of the fence at some point and have found MY place as the Alpha Female or Goddess in charge. My personality and inner core simply wouldn't allow for anything else, and no I am not interested in switching, but I am happy to converse via this Listing with individuals from both sides as well as Switches in a purely "Munch type" Interaction and cordial discussion.
Having experienced submission first-hand many years ago for about 5 years in total, has given me an invaluable insight of the thoughts, fears, doubts, physical endurance, fighting the Ego etc that my counter parts go through. It also gave me an insight into my own inner hidden self and allowed me to realize that I am not able, capable or even willing to surrender my power to another being. I am what you’d call a natural born alpha female – a leader – and a Goddess walking.
It is doubtlessly also why I have the firm point of view that a submissive is not a loser, not without a voice, not a second class human being etc. He or she may simply be my complimenting and symbiotic counterpart to MY kinky and fetish desires / needs. It takes a lot of courage, strength, trust, selfless devotion, and a very special inner core to surrender yourself so completely to the control of another and to put their needs, their desires, and their happiness before them-selves. Truthfully that is one of the many reasons so many end up failing when they try to become slaves. You have to have the right type of spirit in your deepest core. It can't be created, just encouraged, conditioned, brought to life, and nurtured. The spark has to be there already and there is a huge difference between the following:
Kinkster, Fetishist, Top, Bottom, Switch, Master / Mistress, Dom / Domme, God / Goddess, or the various other exulted titles, Owner, Sadist, masochist, submissive, slave, and property (If I didn't mention a dynamic then assume that it is not permitted for me to talk about here on Niteflirt)
If you have done the math real fast you will notice that I have 25 years of experience in total (20 as Domme / 5 as bottom sub) and I belief that this gives me more than a little bit of authority when it comes to helping, guiding, talking about, discussing, and commanding (for those truly seeking my dominance as my online subs) men and women just like you who are searching for someone who is able and willing to open up the submissive Horizon they secretly dream about exploring.
Here are just some of the kinks and fetishes I am adept in and personally enjoy to variant degrees.
Bondage – Self-bondage Instructions – Mental Bondage – Physical Bondage – Extreme Bondage, Feminization, Sissification, Crossdressing, BBW Goddess worship, Verbal and non-intrusive emasculation Fetishes, Femdom, C.B.T., Collar and Leash Training, Chastity and Key holding, Cock Control, Hyper Fetishes, Robotics Fetish, Cuckolding, Feeder / Feedee / Food Fetishes, Masturbation Encouragement – Masturbation Puppetry – Masturbation Control, Electro Play, Wig and Makeup Fetishes, Strapon Play, Wax Play, Old School Punishments, Pantyhose / Stocking Fetish, Panty Fetishes, “Forced” or “Coerced” Fem, Bi, Gay, Dildo / Anal Toys / Vibrator / Sex Toys– Use them under my instructions!, Foot, Shoe and Boot Fetishes, Roleplays, Chit Chat, Worship and Domination, Caging, Humiliation (I prefer action vs verbal personally), Objectification, Subjectification, Slut training, Consensual whoring out, Service slave conditioning, sex slave conditioning, Tickle Torture Fetish – I am your evil Tickle Queen, Erotic Tickle Fetish – Exploring the sensuality and erotic pleasures of tickling – I am LER not Lee, Transformation Fetish Fantasies, Financial Domination / Fetish / Wallet Consumption, Raise the Rate Call Cashtrations, Giantess Fetish, College Professor / Student or Boss / Secretary Fantasy, Role Reversal or Gender Reversal Fetish, Tease and Denial, Bitch Conditioning – Become my obedient, loving, generous and devoted beta male, Protocols and Rituals, Spiritual D/s, Ass worship and Domination, Scent Conditioning, Disciplinarian, Virtual Wife / Girlfriend Experience Fantasies – I am the dominant woman you always wished you had a relationship with, Smoking Fetish Chit Chat and Smoke for me / I force you to smoke Orders, Contract Fetish, Mock Therapy, Interracial Sex for Sissy or Femmi Cucks. Etc.
Most MAINSTREAM Fetishes are ok here.
If I am not familiar or adept in a fetish or kink I will honestly tell you. As long as I am comfortable with discussing it as well, we can still talk about it and I’ll just ask you a lot of questions if I am not. If you are not 100% sure email me first. I enjoy learning about different kinks and fetishes as well.
As you can see I have a wide variety of fetishes and kinks we can explore or talk about.
Two more things:
#1: As someone wishing to come to me as a submissive or bottom, please remember that I am a Lady. That means speak to me with respect and show me that you can be a gentleman sub, good boy or sissy, and potentially amusing pet for me. You may address me as Ma'am, Goddess Bella Donna or Miz Bella Donna, If you are a fellow Dom/me, or a Switch / Kinkster/ pure Fetishist who just wishes to discuss fetishes and kinks with me you may address Me as Miz Bella. Lack of manners and respect towards Me will NOT be tolerated.
#2 : If you wish to apply to Me for conditioning as my long distance submissive, bitch, sissy or servant then make sure you understand the following first: If I condition you I will conditioning you exactly how I would a real time slave of mine with all the requirements, disciplinary actions, and punishments as necessary. You will learn to become a submissive to me partner without falling for the “I am worthless” trap BS – This is actual long distance conditioning and not roleplay – My online subs would be able to walk into my real time life and serve me exactly as I desire and require. They put ME first and are truly devoted to Me. They do provide for me as well in all aspects as I demand that includes financially. Do NOT request unless sincere. I am extremely picky when it comes to conditioning someone to become my own and I do NOT give second chances if you lie to Me or act as if you have no sense. I am ONLY interested for this in GENTLEMEN and / or gentile sissies with a solid level of intelligence and a need to serve ME.
Well there you go, so many options, and now it’s up to you if you are ready to dip your toe into the Water of submission under my loving but strict guidance.
I hope to speak to you soon.
Goddess Bella Donna