Phone Sex

Some Background:
I am in my late 40s (but have been told--alot--that I look like I'm about 35!), bright, articulate, and a great conversationalist. I am kind & nurturing, but also no-nonsense & assertive. I am more the "sexy librarian type" than the glitzy porn star type. Despite having a fresh-faced, girl-next-door appearance, I am an alpha woman with a very sexy, dominant side. And I LOVE to put you in your place:-) It is this dichotomy that intrigues and inspires men most. If we are a good fit, you will likely appreciate extended conversations that are also intelligent, authentic, un-scripted, and interactive! I love to be the person with whom you share some of your deepest, darkest secrets. And, I make a very trustworthy confidante.

I am a veteran on Niteflirt, yet I find ways to keep the experience fresh and engaging. When you call me, you get the benefit of both my experience and enthusiasm for what I do. Over time, I've learned it’s important to focus on what you love and let the rest fall away. After all, if it isn't fun, why do it? I update my listings as my interests evolve. You can be sure if I mention something in my listings, I enjoy it, versus having put it down because it's a good search term.

Some of my favorite erotic topics:
-Sensual, dominant female. Queen, Mistress, Goddess, Cuckoldress, depending on our chemistry. Female-led relationships. Obedient men. Men who understand that what their dominant woman wants always comes first.

-Tease and denial. While most men want to cum, I take a special pleasure in denying men who want total control. I love to leave these men (you?) with very blue balls:-) If you eventually want to cum, that's okay too. Just make sure to ask for permision to touch yourself. And, of course, ask for permission before cumming *smile*. And, know that I LOVE keeping you teetering on the edge for a long time:-)

-Ruined Orgasms. What's the next best thing to total denial and blue balls? That's right, ruined orgasms. I have a special fondness for your ability to ruin several times in a row. Capped off by a dry (yes, dry) orgasm.

-Chastity/me as your Keyholder. Oh, how I love the control that comes along with keeping you in a chastity device! Locking and unlocking you according to my whims, regulating your stroking, cumming, milking...I am happy to help you take this as far as you are willing to go. Depending on your personal situation, chastity may include an actual device, or the honor system, and may extend from a few hours to several months.

-Cuckolding. Preparing me for my lover (shopping, picking out my lingerie, stockings, shoes, bathing me and more), watching him make love to me (with or without a chastity device on), waiting in the next room (while listening to the sounds of him fucking me), waiting at home while I am out with my lover, imagining what we are doing, wondering when I will return home and whether or how much I will tell you about our adventures...At its heart, cuckolding is about the cuckoldress getting exactly what she wants; the cuckold's satisfaction is derived primarily from her pleasure and fulfillment.

-CEI (Cum-eating instructions). I love men who love to eat cum. Whether you are a novice (and would love to be coached to eat yours for the first time) or already an enthusiastic cum-eater, know that I have the experience to support and encourage you.

-SPH (Small Penis Humiliation) I love discussing size, and teasing about your lack of it. How small are you? How do you compare with other cocks I've experienced? This play can be hot whether you are super tiny or not. There will always be someone better equipped than you, with a longer, thicker and more satisfying cock. Exploring the themes of adequacy and inadequacy can be very powerful, regardless of your actual size.

My Ideal Fit: An Alpha Male with an Under-served Submissive Side
Are you a successful, intelligent, masculine professional in your everyday life? But, behind closed doors, you crave a strong dominant female you can serve and please? If so, you and I are a great natural fit.

Email and Text:
If you are a new client, reach out by text to introduce yourself, and if it seems we are a good fit, the next step will be a conversation.

Schedule:
I admit I have limited availability to talk most days, but the best time to start a call usually works out to be 8-10 am PT. To ensure I can pick up and enjoy a relaxed and leisurely experience with you, consider sending an email about 30 min before you want to call to make sure I'll be available. You can always call at other times but be aware without a heads up or a relatively early start time, I may not be able to pick up. If that happens, watch for an email from me to coordinate our schedules.