I am in the lifestyle, have been for the past decade or so. I'm a top, a dominant and a sadist. I think your pain is either funny or, depending on circumstance, arousing.
One of the major things that drew me to the lifestyle was the element of power exchange. I love to play with power and control; trust and intimacy are two things I value greatly, and because I value them, I love to play with both trust and intimacy. Power, control, trust... all three combine to create the most amazing energy!
When you call me, we'll spend a couple of minutes getting to know each other. While I can do a 'quickie', a cold call or you average 'wham, bam, thank you ma'am' phone session, frankly, I don't want to! I'd far rather take the time to talk with you, find out what you're into and see if you and I can create something wonderful together.
I love hearing all about what turns you on, what makes you hot and bothered. I know that sometimes telling another person about your secret fantasies and desires can be embarrassing and uncomfortable; let me reassure you that your embarrassment and discomfort are unbearably hot to me! Don't be ashamed of anything you may be looking for, anything that you dream or fantasize about. I promise you I've heard it all! I've done it all, too.
Like I said, I'm in the lifestyle, and I've been active in the scene for a smidge over a decade. I've discovered in that time that what I really get off on is the power, control, trust and in being able to provide an experience for my partners that exceeds their wildest dreams. I enjoy a challenge -- figuring out how your brain works and what to do and say to make you simply explode rocks my world!
I'm a sadistic service top, a dominant and a Mistress. Tell me what you want, what you need and I'll do what it takes to provide that for you. Because I want to, I love to, and nothing is more fun than hearing you at the end of a call!
Call me, right now, and we'll make your fantasies a reality.