{"id":44359,"date":"2026-09-29T08:51:59","date_gmt":"2026-09-29T15:51:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/?p=44359"},"modified":"2026-09-29T08:51:59","modified_gmt":"2026-09-29T15:51:59","slug":"blog-bold-self-care-without-apologizing","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/blog-bold-self-care-without-apologizing\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Practice Bold Self-Care Without Apologizing for It"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wp-block-post-date\"><time datetime=\"2026-09-29T08:51:59-07:00\">September 29, 2026<\/time><\/div>\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-resized\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/reading-1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"724\" height=\"483\" src=\"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/reading-1.jpg\" alt=\"Beautiful woman practicing self care\" class=\"wp-image-44309\" style=\"aspect-ratio:1.4990166279277668;width:600px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/reading-1.jpg 724w, https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/reading-1-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/reading-1-624x416.jpg 624w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 724px) 100vw, 724px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">\u201cI\u2019ll take a break after one more call.\u201d \u201cI know I should be working, but I\u2019m exhausted.\u201d If your time off always comes with an explanation, you may be giving yourself permission to rest without ever letting yourself enjoy it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<!--more-->\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For NiteFlirt creators, being available can feel like part of the job. But choosing when you\u2019re <em>unavailable<\/em> is part of running your business, too. Bold self-care starts when you stop treating that choice like something you need to defend.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">What Does \u201cBold\u201d Self-Care Actually Look Like?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Bold self-care doesn\u2019t have to be dramatic. It might mean logging off at the time you planned, declining a request that doesn\u2019t work for you, or keeping an evening free even when you could take another call.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The bold part is following through without building a case for why you\u2019ve earned it. You can say, \u201cI\u2019m done for today,\u201d and let that be enough.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Why Do We Feel the Need to Justify Rest?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When you set your own hours, there\u2019s always a reason to work a little longer. You may worry about missing a call or feel as though you need to make the most of every moment you\u2019re online. It\u2019s easy to carry that pressure into your time off.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Notice what happens when your break becomes a running debate: <em>Should I check in? Could I be doing more? Have I worked enough today?<\/em> You\u2019ve stepped away from work, but your attention is still there. Giving yourself a clear stopping point can help you be more present during the time you chose to take.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">How Can You Treat Rest as a Decision?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Put breaks on your schedule with the same intention you bring to your work hours. Decide when you\u2019ll log off, what requests you\u2019re willing to take, and when you\u2019ll return. If your plans need to change, make a new decision rather than letting guilt make it for you.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">You can also practice a shorter response when someone presses against a boundary. \u201cI\u2019m unavailable tonight\u201d communicates what they need to know. You don\u2019t have to share the personal reason behind it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">A Small Way to Start This Week<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Choose one break you would normally postpone: a full evening off, an uninterrupted meal, or a quiet hour between calls. Put it on your calendar and keep it. When the urge to justify it shows up, remind yourself that you already made the decision.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Your time belongs to you, including the hours you choose to spend working and the hours you choose to keep for yourself. Take the break. Skip the apology.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cI\u2019ll take a break after one more call.\u201d \u201cI know I should be working, but I\u2019m exhausted.\u201d If your time off always comes with an explanation, you may be giving yourself permission to rest without ever letting yourself enjoy it.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[14600,13891,12887,3711,3701,3,4,13480,17086,16384,12879],"tags":[3161,16140,1941,16484,14938,17278,16196],"class_list":["post-44359","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-empowering","category-entertainment","category-feel-good","category-flirt-blogs","category-flirts","category-insights","category-niteflirt-com","category-people","category-phone-sex","category-self-care","category-sex-worker","tag-boundaries","tag-creator-wellness","tag-niteflirt","tag-niteflirt-tips","tag-self-care","tag-taking-breaks","tag-work-life-balance"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v28.6 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Bold Self-Care: How to Rest Without Justifying It<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Why rest sometimes needs to be loud and unapologetic, not quiet and justified, especially heading into a busy season.\" \/>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/blog-bold-self-care-without-apologizing\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Bold Self-Care: How to Rest Without Justifying It\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Why rest sometimes needs to be loud and unapologetic, not quiet and justified, especially heading into a busy season.\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/blog-bold-self-care-without-apologizing\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"NiteFlirt News | Flirty Tips, Steamy Stories &amp; Chat Secrets\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2026-09-29T15:51:59+00:00\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:image\" content=\"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/reading-1.jpg\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:width\" content=\"724\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:height\" content=\"483\" \/>\n\t<meta property=\"og:image:type\" content=\"image\/jpeg\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"Madge\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:creator\" content=\"@niteflirt\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:site\" content=\"@niteflirt\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:label1\" content=\"Written by\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data1\" content=\"Madge\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:label2\" content=\"Est. reading time\" \/>\n\t<meta name=\"twitter:data2\" content=\"3 minutes\" \/>\n<script type=\"application\/ld+json\" class=\"yoast-schema-graph\">{\"@context\":\"https:\\\/\\\/schema.org\",\"@graph\":[{\"@type\":\"Organization\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.niteflirt.com\\\/#organization\",\"name\":\"NiteFlirt\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.niteflirt.com\\\/\",\"logo\":{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.niteflirt.com\\\/#logo\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/niteflirt-assets.s3.amazonaws.com\\\/homepage\\\/niteflirt-logo-mob.png\",\"caption\":\"NiteFlirt\"},\"image\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.niteflirt.com\\\/#logo\"},\"contactPoint\":{\"@type\":\"ContactPoint\",\"telephone\":\"+1-800-863-5478\",\"contactType\":\"customer service\",\"areaServed\":[\"US\"]},\"sameAs\":[\"https:\\\/\\\/x.com\\\/niteflirt\",\"https:\\\/\\\/www.instagram.com\\\/niteflirt_\\\/\"]},{\"@type\":[\"Article\",\"BlogPosting\"],\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.niteflirt.com\\\/news\\\/blog-bold-self-care-without-apologizing\\\/#article\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.niteflirt.com\\\/news\\\/blog-bold-self-care-without-apologizing\\\/#webpage\"},\"author\":{\"name\":\"Madge\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.niteflirt.com\\\/news\\\/#\\\/schema\\\/person\\\/967176c7e6aacf1193ee4966d9cd0440\"},\"headline\":\"How to Practice Bold Self-Care Without Apologizing for It\",\"datePublished\":\"2026-09-29T15:51:59+00:00\",\"mainEntityOfPage\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.niteflirt.com\\\/news\\\/blog-bold-self-care-without-apologizing\\\/#webpage\"},\"wordCount\":452,\"commentCount\":0,\"image\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.niteflirt.com\\\/news\\\/blog-bold-self-care-without-apologizing\\\/#primaryimage\"},\"thumbnailUrl\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.niteflirt.com\\\/news\\\/wp-content\\\/uploads\\\/2026\\\/09\\\/reading-1.jpg\",\"keywords\":[\"boundaries\",\"creator wellness\",\"niteflirt\",\"NiteFlirt tips\",\"self-care\",\"Taking Breaks\",\"Work-life balance\"],\"articleSection\":[\"Empowering\",\"Entertainment\",\"Feel Good\",\"Flirt Blogs\",\"Flirts\",\"Insights\",\"NiteFlirt.com\",\"People\",\"Phone Sex\",\"Self-care\",\"Sex Worker\"],\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"CommentAction\",\"name\":\"Comment\",\"target\":[\"https:\\\/\\\/www.niteflirt.com\\\/news\\\/blog-bold-self-care-without-apologizing\\\/#respond\"]}]},{\"@type\":\"WebPage\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.niteflirt.com\\\/news\\\/blog-bold-self-care-without-apologizing\\\/#webpage\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.niteflirt.com\\\/news\\\/blog-bold-self-care-without-apologizing\\\/\",\"name\":\"Bold Self-Care: How to Rest Without Justifying It\",\"isPartOf\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.niteflirt.com\\\/news\\\/#website\"},\"primaryImageOfPage\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.niteflirt.com\\\/news\\\/blog-bold-self-care-without-apologizing\\\/#primaryimage\"},\"image\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.niteflirt.com\\\/news\\\/blog-bold-self-care-without-apologizing\\\/#primaryimage\"},\"thumbnailUrl\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.niteflirt.com\\\/news\\\/wp-content\\\/uploads\\\/2026\\\/09\\\/reading-1.jpg\",\"datePublished\":\"2026-09-29T15:51:59+00:00\",\"author\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.niteflirt.com\\\/news\\\/#\\\/schema\\\/person\\\/967176c7e6aacf1193ee4966d9cd0440\"},\"description\":\"Why rest sometimes needs to be loud and unapologetic, not quiet and justified, especially heading into a busy season.\",\"breadcrumb\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.niteflirt.com\\\/news\\\/blog-bold-self-care-without-apologizing\\\/#breadcrumb\"},\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"ReadAction\",\"target\":[\"https:\\\/\\\/www.niteflirt.com\\\/news\\\/blog-bold-self-care-without-apologizing\\\/\"]}]},{\"@type\":\"ImageObject\",\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.niteflirt.com\\\/news\\\/blog-bold-self-care-without-apologizing\\\/#primaryimage\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.niteflirt.com\\\/news\\\/wp-content\\\/uploads\\\/2026\\\/09\\\/reading-1.jpg\",\"contentUrl\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.niteflirt.com\\\/news\\\/wp-content\\\/uploads\\\/2026\\\/09\\\/reading-1.jpg\"},{\"@type\":\"BreadcrumbList\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.niteflirt.com\\\/news\\\/blog-bold-self-care-without-apologizing\\\/#breadcrumb\",\"itemListElement\":[{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":1,\"name\":\"Home\",\"item\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.niteflirt.com\\\/news\\\/\"},{\"@type\":\"ListItem\",\"position\":2,\"name\":\"How to Practice Bold Self-Care Without Apologizing for It\"}]},{\"@type\":\"WebSite\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.niteflirt.com\\\/news\\\/#website\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.niteflirt.com\\\/news\\\/\",\"name\":\"NiteFlirt News | Flirty Tips, Steamy Stories & Chat Secrets\",\"description\":\"NiteFlirt | Speak to your Desire\",\"alternateName\":\"NiteFlirt News\",\"potentialAction\":[{\"@type\":\"SearchAction\",\"target\":{\"@type\":\"EntryPoint\",\"urlTemplate\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.niteflirt.com\\\/news\\\/?s={search_term_string}\"},\"query-input\":{\"@type\":\"PropertyValueSpecification\",\"valueRequired\":true,\"valueName\":\"search_term_string\"}}],\"inLanguage\":\"en-US\",\"publisher\":{\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.niteflirt.com\\\/#organization\"}},{\"@type\":\"Person\",\"@id\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.niteflirt.com\\\/news\\\/#\\\/schema\\\/person\\\/967176c7e6aacf1193ee4966d9cd0440\",\"name\":\"Madge\",\"description\":\"Fluent in innuendo. Certified in orgasms. Madge writes like she talks: directly, confidently, and with a wink you can practically hear. With years in the field and a professional's eye for what actually works (and what's just noise), she covers everything from the art of a great tease to the mechanics of phone sex done right. She's dominant by nature and educational by trade, which means she'll tell you exactly what to do and exactly why it works. Equal parts wicked and wise, Madge leaves the fluffing to someone else. She delivers results. What she writes about: Flirt of the Week features (she's got an eye for talent) Take Care of Yourself Tuesdays (self-care, her way, non-negotiable) The real mechanics of great phone sex Confidence, control, and knowing exactly what you're doing What your Zodiac sign says about your bedroom style (yes, even Scorpios get fact-checked.) Fun facts: Alphabetizes her bookshelf by author, then by how much she'd trust that author in bed. Takes her coffee the way she takes control: no sugar, no hesitation. Has cleared a pool table before her opponent got a single shot, and made it look like she was barely trying. Can bend over backwards. Won\u2019t. The neighborhood cat still avoids eye contact (she knows why.)\",\"url\":\"https:\\\/\\\/www.niteflirt.com\\\/news\\\/author\\\/ashley\\\/\"}]}<\/script>\n<!-- \/ Yoast SEO plugin. -->","yoast_head_json":{"title":"Bold Self-Care: How to Rest Without Justifying It","description":"Why rest sometimes needs to be loud and unapologetic, not quiet and justified, especially heading into a busy season.","robots":{"index":"index","follow":"follow","max-snippet":"max-snippet:-1","max-image-preview":"max-image-preview:large","max-video-preview":"max-video-preview:-1"},"canonical":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/blog-bold-self-care-without-apologizing\/","og_locale":"en_US","og_type":"article","og_title":"Bold Self-Care: How to Rest Without Justifying It","og_description":"Why rest sometimes needs to be loud and unapologetic, not quiet and justified, especially heading into a busy season.","og_url":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/blog-bold-self-care-without-apologizing\/","og_site_name":"NiteFlirt News | Flirty Tips, Steamy Stories &amp; Chat Secrets","article_published_time":"2026-09-29T15:51:59+00:00","og_image":[{"width":724,"height":483,"url":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/reading-1.jpg","type":"image\/jpeg"}],"author":"Madge","twitter_card":"summary_large_image","twitter_creator":"@niteflirt","twitter_site":"@niteflirt","twitter_misc":{"Written by":"Madge","Est. reading time":"3 minutes"},"schema":{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org","@graph":[{"@type":"Organization","@id":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/#organization","name":"NiteFlirt","url":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/#logo","url":"https:\/\/niteflirt-assets.s3.amazonaws.com\/homepage\/niteflirt-logo-mob.png","caption":"NiteFlirt"},"image":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/#logo"},"contactPoint":{"@type":"ContactPoint","telephone":"+1-800-863-5478","contactType":"customer service","areaServed":["US"]},"sameAs":["https:\/\/x.com\/niteflirt","https:\/\/www.instagram.com\/niteflirt_\/"]},{"@type":["Article","BlogPosting"],"@id":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/blog-bold-self-care-without-apologizing\/#article","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/blog-bold-self-care-without-apologizing\/#webpage"},"author":{"name":"Madge","@id":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/#\/schema\/person\/967176c7e6aacf1193ee4966d9cd0440"},"headline":"How to Practice Bold Self-Care Without Apologizing for It","datePublished":"2026-09-29T15:51:59+00:00","mainEntityOfPage":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/blog-bold-self-care-without-apologizing\/#webpage"},"wordCount":452,"commentCount":0,"image":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/blog-bold-self-care-without-apologizing\/#primaryimage"},"thumbnailUrl":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/reading-1.jpg","keywords":["boundaries","creator wellness","niteflirt","NiteFlirt tips","self-care","Taking Breaks","Work-life balance"],"articleSection":["Empowering","Entertainment","Feel Good","Flirt Blogs","Flirts","Insights","NiteFlirt.com","People","Phone Sex","Self-care","Sex Worker"],"inLanguage":"en-US","potentialAction":[{"@type":"CommentAction","name":"Comment","target":["https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/blog-bold-self-care-without-apologizing\/#respond"]}]},{"@type":"WebPage","@id":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/blog-bold-self-care-without-apologizing\/#webpage","url":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/blog-bold-self-care-without-apologizing\/","name":"Bold Self-Care: How to Rest Without Justifying It","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/#website"},"primaryImageOfPage":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/blog-bold-self-care-without-apologizing\/#primaryimage"},"image":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/blog-bold-self-care-without-apologizing\/#primaryimage"},"thumbnailUrl":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/reading-1.jpg","datePublished":"2026-09-29T15:51:59+00:00","author":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/#\/schema\/person\/967176c7e6aacf1193ee4966d9cd0440"},"description":"Why rest sometimes needs to be loud and unapologetic, not quiet and justified, especially heading into a busy season.","breadcrumb":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/blog-bold-self-care-without-apologizing\/#breadcrumb"},"inLanguage":"en-US","potentialAction":[{"@type":"ReadAction","target":["https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/blog-bold-self-care-without-apologizing\/"]}]},{"@type":"ImageObject","inLanguage":"en-US","@id":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/blog-bold-self-care-without-apologizing\/#primaryimage","url":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/reading-1.jpg","contentUrl":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2026\/09\/reading-1.jpg"},{"@type":"BreadcrumbList","@id":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/blog-bold-self-care-without-apologizing\/#breadcrumb","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Home","item":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/"},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"name":"How to Practice Bold Self-Care Without Apologizing for It"}]},{"@type":"WebSite","@id":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/#website","url":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/","name":"NiteFlirt News | Flirty Tips, Steamy Stories & Chat Secrets","description":"NiteFlirt | Speak to your Desire","alternateName":"NiteFlirt News","potentialAction":[{"@type":"SearchAction","target":{"@type":"EntryPoint","urlTemplate":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/?s={search_term_string}"},"query-input":{"@type":"PropertyValueSpecification","valueRequired":true,"valueName":"search_term_string"}}],"inLanguage":"en-US","publisher":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/#organization"}},{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/#\/schema\/person\/967176c7e6aacf1193ee4966d9cd0440","name":"Madge","description":"Fluent in innuendo. Certified in orgasms. Madge writes like she talks: directly, confidently, and with a wink you can practically hear. With years in the field and a professional's eye for what actually works (and what's just noise), she covers everything from the art of a great tease to the mechanics of phone sex done right. She's dominant by nature and educational by trade, which means she'll tell you exactly what to do and exactly why it works. Equal parts wicked and wise, Madge leaves the fluffing to someone else. She delivers results. What she writes about: Flirt of the Week features (she's got an eye for talent) Take Care of Yourself Tuesdays (self-care, her way, non-negotiable) The real mechanics of great phone sex Confidence, control, and knowing exactly what you're doing What your Zodiac sign says about your bedroom style (yes, even Scorpios get fact-checked.) Fun facts: Alphabetizes her bookshelf by author, then by how much she'd trust that author in bed. Takes her coffee the way she takes control: no sugar, no hesitation. Has cleared a pool table before her opponent got a single shot, and made it look like she was barely trying. Can bend over backwards. Won\u2019t. The neighborhood cat still avoids eye contact (she knows why.)","url":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/author\/ashley\/"}]}},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44359","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/22"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=44359"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44359\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":44360,"href":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/44359\/revisions\/44360"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=44359"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=44359"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=44359"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}