{"id":42108,"date":"2024-06-11T11:56:00","date_gmt":"2024-06-11T18:56:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/?p=42108"},"modified":"2024-06-08T11:58:59","modified_gmt":"2024-06-08T18:58:59","slug":"tolyamory-lets-couples-cheat-on-the-down-low","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/tolyamory-lets-couples-cheat-on-the-down-low\/","title":{"rendered":"&#8216;Tolyamory&#8217; Lets Couples Cheat On The Down-Low"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"856\" height=\"406\" src=\"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Screen-Shot-2024-06-08-at-2.58.26-PM.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-42109\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Screen-Shot-2024-06-08-at-2.58.26-PM.png 856w, https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Screen-Shot-2024-06-08-at-2.58.26-PM-300x142.png 300w, https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/06\/Screen-Shot-2024-06-08-at-2.58.26-PM-768x364.png 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 856px) 100vw, 856px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>Some couples may opt for\u00a0polyamory\u2014a form of consensual non-monogamy that involves being in more than one relationship\u2014but \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/2024\/05\/31\/lifestyle\/what-is-tolyamory-how-couples-keep-cheating-on-the-down-low\/\">tolyamory<\/a>\u201d is a much more common, yet lesser discussed, relationship style. 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