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Older New Yorkers are booking more\u00a0appointments for BDSM<\/a>, according to a Manhattan dominatrix. The dom at a Manhattan dungeon said her boomer clients want to learn \u201chow to please their partner\u201d\u2014and \u201cunpack \u201cyears of sexual oppression.\u201d She claims the consensual kink is like \u201cemotional therapy,\u201d but costs less than a shrink.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

For members of older generations, a dungeon is a place for them to let their kink out in secret. Another Manhattan dominatrix and a sex-work researcher at UCLA said her clients average in their 50s, but 40% of her business is 60 and up. Older clients tend to like \u201cclassic BDSM\u201d\u2014including wanting to engage in corporal punishment, role play and bondage; younger clients are more into sensual domination\u2014a softer form of domination focused on real or fancied pleasurable sensations\u2014and fetishes, she said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Feeling kinky? Come explore your fetishes in NiteFlirt<\/a>‘s \u201cdungeon!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Older New Yorkers are booking more\u00a0appointments for BDSM, according to a Manhattan dominatrix. The dom at a Manhattan dungeon said her boomer clients want to learn \u201chow to please their partner\u201d\u2014and \u201cunpack \u201cyears of sexual oppression.\u201d She claims the consensual kink is like \u201cemotional therapy,\u201d but costs less than a shrink. 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