{"id":42020,"date":"2024-05-09T12:06:30","date_gmt":"2024-05-09T19:06:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/?p=42020"},"modified":"2024-05-09T12:06:31","modified_gmt":"2024-05-09T19:06:31","slug":"sexperts-say-ditch-the-phone-in-bed-for-better-sex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/sexperts-say-ditch-the-phone-in-bed-for-better-sex\/","title":{"rendered":"Sexperts Say Ditch The Phone In Bed For Better Sex"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\"><figure class=\"aligncenter size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"618\" height=\"408\" src=\"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Screen-Shot-2024-05-09-at-3.06.08-PM.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-42021\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Screen-Shot-2024-05-09-at-3.06.08-PM.png 618w, https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/05\/Screen-Shot-2024-05-09-at-3.06.08-PM-300x198.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 618px) 100vw, 618px\" \/><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Known as \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/2024\/04\/27\/lifestyle\/this-one-bedtime-habit-is-ruining-your-relationship-and-its-not-bad-sex\/\">parallel scrolling<\/a>\u201d the habit of\u00a0silently swiping on your phone\u00a0while lying next to your\u00a0lover could be a death sentence for your sex life, experts say. \u201cYou\u2019re basically decreasing the chances of intimacy and affection, or just generally engaging with your partner,\u201d\u00a0says one sexpert. Laying in bed can be a time to connect with each other\u2014something many horny couples lack.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Many people often complain that the other person is \u201cconstantly on their phone\u201d or seems \u201cdistracted,\u201d making it difficult to hold their attention and, in turn, can create \u201cmore separateness.\u201d Experts recommend setting screen limits, such as no phones at dinner, or taking one day out of the week to wind down without screens. If all else fails, try \u201cparallel play,\u201d the act of engaging in whatever the other person is looking at on their screen, whether it\u2019s a video game live stream or a TikTok feed: \u201cPeople often do better scrolling in bed at night when they are sharing what they are doing.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Want to improve your sex life? 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