{"id":41791,"date":"2024-02-18T07:54:00","date_gmt":"2024-02-18T15:54:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/?p=41791"},"modified":"2024-02-14T07:57:46","modified_gmt":"2024-02-14T15:57:46","slug":"narcissists-make-great-lovers","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/narcissists-make-great-lovers\/","title":{"rendered":"Narcissists Make Great Lovers"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If you\u2019ve found yourself in an exciting new relationship with a highly <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/health\/article-13066321\/sex-new-partner-electric-red-flag-narcissist.html\">skilled lover<\/a> who takes charge in the bedroom,\u00a0psychologists say you may be fucking a narcissist. Narcissists\u00a0want to be idealized and admired\u00a0by others, which can make them extremely eager to please sexually. They typically take on the dominant role, preferring a position of power that can be exciting for the non-narcissist in the partnership.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A psychologist explained: \u201cSome people will say, &#8216;This relationship is a nightmare but for the sex.&#8217; They&#8217;ll say, &#8216;Sex is great, but this person is horrible to me. But they&#8217;re really good in bed.&#8217;\u201d Narcissists crave validation, and performing well in bed is a way to get it.\u00a0\u201cNarcissistic people are very reward-sensitive: they like things that feel good, and they often don&#8217;t think about the consequences. So sex is the ultimate narcissist ground game,\u201d sexperts said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Want a rewarding <a href=\"http:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\">sexual experience<\/a>? 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