{"id":40855,"date":"2023-03-14T11:38:20","date_gmt":"2023-03-14T18:38:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/?p=40855"},"modified":"2023-03-14T11:39:12","modified_gmt":"2023-03-14T18:39:12","slug":"spontaneous-sex-isnt-the-hottest-sex-study-says","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/spontaneous-sex-isnt-the-hottest-sex-study-says\/","title":{"rendered":"Spontaneous Sex Isn&#8217;t The Hottest Sex, Study Says"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"700\" height=\"710\" src=\"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Screen-Shot-2023-03-14-at-2.37.06-PM.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-40857\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Screen-Shot-2023-03-14-at-2.37.06-PM.png 700w, https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Screen-Shot-2023-03-14-at-2.37.06-PM-296x300.png 296w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 700px) 100vw, 700px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Good things <em>come<\/em> to those who wait, according to a <a href=\"https:\/\/nypost.com\/2023\/02\/14\/spontaneous-sex-may-not-be-better-than-planned-sex-research\/\">new study<\/a>. New research from York University published in the\u00a0Journal of Sex Research\u00a0found that planning ahead can be just as sexy and satisfying as spontaneous sex\u2014despite popular beliefs otherwise. \u201cBut, despite these beliefs, across our two studies, we did not find strong support that people actually experience spontaneous sex as more satisfying than planned sex,\u201d the study&#8217;s authors said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cWhen we suggest that couples or other romantic configurations carve out that time, we\u2019re not necessarily saying you put it into a calendar\u2014like 7 p.m. on a Tuesday, after putting dinner in the oven and before folding the socks,\u201d explained a registered psychotherapist specializing in romantic relationships. The study&#8217;s authors concluded that the key to planning sex ahead of time is \u201cintention, versus expectation\u201d and to plan to regularly spend quality time together with no distractions to keep hold of the spark and alleviate any pressure. \u201cBut the intentionality behind it can be transformative in the sense that we don\u2019t wait around for the right moment, because sometimes the mood just never strikes, really, for some people, and that might deter them.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Want a satisfying sexual experience? The right moment is always <em>now<\/em> on <a href=\"https:\/\/niteflirt.com\">NiteFlirt<\/a>!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Good things come to those who wait, according to a new study. New research from York University published in the\u00a0Journal of Sex Research\u00a0found that planning ahead can be just as sexy and satisfying as spontaneous sex\u2014despite popular beliefs otherwise. \u201cBut, despite these beliefs, across our two studies, we did not find strong support that people [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":22,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[12900,3],"tags":[13803,15481,301,9527],"class_list":["post-40855","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-culture","category-insights","tag-laundry","tag-schedule","tag-sex","tag-spontaneous"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.6 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Spontaneous Sex Isn&#039;t The Hottest Sex, Study Says - NiteFlirt News | Flirty Tips, Steamy Stories &amp; Chat Secrets<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/spontaneous-sex-isnt-the-hottest-sex-study-says\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Spontaneous Sex Isn&#039;t The Hottest Sex, Study Says - NiteFlirt News | Flirty Tips, Steamy Stories &amp; Chat Secrets\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"Good things come to those who wait, according to a new study. 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