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The author of Cheatingland: The Secret Confessions of Men Who Stray<\/a> interviewed 61 men over four years to get new insights into infidelity. The author says, \u201c\u2018Cheatingland<\/span>\u2019 was a clandestine little country with its own customs\u2014sort of Fantasy Island, where wedding vows were forgotten and normally mild-mannered people could morph into sexual beasts.\u201d To some, \u201ccheating means taking their sexual frustration into their own hands and resolving the problem so that they won\u2019t poison the marriage with their dissatisfaction or resentment,\u201d the author writes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But in many cases, it has nothing to do with problems in the bedroom: \u201cI just needed to do something\u00a0I\u00a0wanted to do, something for myself, and that is to give myself the gift of amazing, heart-pounding sex,\u201d said one man<\/a>. There is a \u201cRussian roulette aspect to all of it,\u201d writes the author, in that the risk of getting caught is always there\u2014and for some, that’s part of the appeal. \u201cThe sex is absurd,\u201d another\u00a0man says. \u201cIt\u2019s risk-your-life good.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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The author of Cheatingland: The Secret Confessions of Men Who Stray interviewed 61 men over four years to get new insights into infidelity. 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