{"id":33187,"date":"2017-06-18T08:30:29","date_gmt":"2017-06-18T15:30:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/?p=33187"},"modified":"2017-06-13T16:10:43","modified_gmt":"2017-06-13T23:10:43","slug":"why-you-sometimes-blurt-out-i-love-you-during-sex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/why-you-sometimes-blurt-out-i-love-you-during-sex\/","title":{"rendered":"Why You Sometimes Blurt Out &#8216;I Love You&#8217; During Sex"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Screen-Shot-2015-08-06-at-3.55.03-PM.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-29714 aligncenter\" src=\"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/08\/Screen-Shot-2015-08-06-at-3.55.03-PM.png\" alt=\"Screen Shot 2015-08-06 at 3.55.03 PM\" width=\"592\" height=\"334\" \/><\/a>It often seems \u201cI love yous\u201d tossed out during sex are as meaningless as the empty promise afterward <a href=\"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\">to call<\/a> the next day. So what is it about getting laid that brings on the seemingly compulsive urge to tell someone we love them just because we happen to be currently fucking them? Science and culture might have the answer.<\/p>\n<p>As a society, we&#8217;re conditioned to believe you should only have sex with someone you love, so the pressure to feel an emotional bond with the person you&#8217;re fucking is definitely cultural. But it&#8217;s also chemical, taking place ten seconds after climax in the human brain. The elation you feel during fucking is the same as the euphoric effects of a drug\u2014a supreme moment of bliss\u2014and just like the high from a drug, you might feel things that aren&#8217;t real. Psychologists have also <a href=\"https:\/\/www.dailymail.co.uk\/femail\/article-2081475\/How-men-likely-say-I-love-sentiment-probably-genuine-sex.html\">shown that sex is hotter<\/a> when you say \u201cI love you,\u201d because it increases sexual desire on both sides. 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