{"id":31488,"date":"2016-07-09T08:30:57","date_gmt":"2016-07-09T15:30:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/?p=31488"},"modified":"2016-07-07T13:49:00","modified_gmt":"2016-07-07T20:49:00","slug":"what-people-say-on-dates-vs-what-they-actually-mean","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/what-people-say-on-dates-vs-what-they-actually-mean\/","title":{"rendered":"What People Say On Dates Vs What They Actually Mean"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/best_phone_sex_niteflirt_question.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-20321 alignright\" alt=\"best_phone_sex_niteflirt_question\" src=\"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/best_phone_sex_niteflirt_question-230x300.jpg\" width=\"230\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/best_phone_sex_niteflirt_question-230x300.jpg 230w, https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2013\/09\/best_phone_sex_niteflirt_question.jpg 240w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 230px) 100vw, 230px\" \/><\/a>Have you ever spent hours\/days\/weeks agonizing over what your date really meant when they said, \u201cI&#8217;d love to see you again\u201d when you never heard from them again? 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This is not necessarily a bad thing!<\/li>\n<li><b>What they say: \u201cI&#8217;m not looking for anything serious right now\u201d<\/b> <b>What they mean: \u201cI don&#8217;t fancy you but I might sleep with you depending on how drunk I get tonight.\u201d<\/b> Buy you a shot?<\/li>\n<li><b>What they say: \u201cIt&#8217;s been really nice meeting you.\u201d<\/b> <b>What they mean: \u201cWe have nothing in common and I never want to see you again.\u201d<\/b> Well that&#8217;s confusing!<\/li>\n<li><b>What they say: \u201cThat&#8217;s so interesting.\u201d<\/b> <b>What they mean: \u201cSOZ, I zoned out. Wut?\u201d<\/b> Time for shots!<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Looking for some straight-forward, simple good times? 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