{"id":29480,"date":"2015-07-08T08:37:10","date_gmt":"2015-07-08T15:37:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/?p=29480"},"modified":"2015-06-25T11:37:22","modified_gmt":"2015-06-25T18:37:22","slug":"the-internet-weighs-in-on-what-makes-someone-great-at-sex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/the-internet-weighs-in-on-what-makes-someone-great-at-sex\/","title":{"rendered":"The Internet Weighs In On What Makes Someone Great at Sex"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"jean_koulev\"<\/a>BuzzFeed recently asked their readers an important and often debated question: what makes someone great at sex<\/a>? And from that seemingly simple question, BuzzFeed compiled the answers into a list called \u201c21 Sex Tips That Aren’t Bullshit.\u201d They insist that the list is NOT \u201ca rolodex of sex positions, above-average genitalia, or decades of experience,\u201d but rather an honest response from real, sexual humans on what they value from someone who is very good in bed. Here are some highlights (check out the full list, complete with sexy\/silly gifs, below):<\/p>\n

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  1. \n
    Worshipping someone’s body<\/b><\/div>\n
    Treating<\/a> someone’s body as the best thing you have ever experienced is perhaps the ultimate indicator of how good you are in bed.<\/div>\n<\/li>\n
  2. \n
    Speaking up during sex<\/b><\/div>\n
    Someone who’s willing to tell you what they like and dislike or what feels amazing is definitely a turn on!<\/div>\n<\/li>\n
  3. \n
    Being honest about orgasms<\/b><\/div>\n
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  5. \n
    Focus on the pleasure, not the end-goal<\/b><\/div>\n
    Taking the pressure off of cumming really allows you to just focus on the pleasure and enjoy yourself in the moment.<\/div>\n<\/li>\n
  6. \n
    Taking your time<\/b><\/div>\n
    Don’t rush the foreplay! Have fun and don’t forget all the steps that lead up to the amazing main event: lip biting, earlobe nibbling, grinding\u2014the possibilities are endless!<\/div>\n<\/li>\n
  7. \n
    Being up for anything<\/b><\/div>\n
    \u201cBeing open-minded<\/a> to trying new things but also knowing the definitive boundaries for each person.\u201d \u2014Alexis Ferguson (Facebook)<\/div>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    Want to have a great sexual experience yourself? We are all about focusing on the pleasure and having a good time here<\/a>!<\/p>\n

    Check out BuzzFeed’s \u201c21 Sex Tips That Aren’t Bullshit\u201d<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

    BuzzFeed recently asked their readers an important and often debated question: what makes someone great at sex? 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