{"id":28959,"date":"2015-05-17T08:19:47","date_gmt":"2015-05-17T15:19:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/?p=28959"},"modified":"2015-05-13T09:20:26","modified_gmt":"2015-05-13T16:20:26","slug":"keep-it-casual-the-key-to-being-or-being-with-a-mistress","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/keep-it-casual-the-key-to-being-or-being-with-a-mistress\/","title":{"rendered":"Keep it Casual: the Key to Being or Being With a Mistress"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/10181193074_70ebdd50a6_z.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft  wp-image-29250\" title=\"Image Source: Flickr.com\/dorafily\" alt=\"\" src=\"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/03\/10181193074_70ebdd50a6_z.jpg\" width=\"277\" height=\"384\" \/><\/a>For many, the main appeal of being or being with a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/categories\/809-Find-Women-BDSM-Mistresses\" target=\"_blank\">mistress<\/a> is casual, commitment-free sex. 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