{"id":28332,"date":"2015-01-29T12:55:01","date_gmt":"2015-01-29T20:55:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/?p=28332"},"modified":"2015-01-29T12:55:01","modified_gmt":"2015-01-29T20:55:01","slug":"news-a-dominatrixs-3-truths-about-fetishes","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/news-a-dominatrixs-3-truths-about-fetishes\/","title":{"rendered":"NEWS: A Dominatrix’s 3 Truths about Fetishes"},"content":{"rendered":"

A dominatrix and phone sex operator dishes on Cracked.com<\/a> about the surprising things she’s learned about fetishes over the years. Even though many people believe that men are straight forward and uncomplicated when it comes to sex, this mistress-dominatrix<\/a>\/phone sex operator knows better: she’s encountered clients who are simply kinky, to others who have bizarre, even outlandish fetishes. Here are this dominatrix’s 3 truths about fetishes:\"Depositphotos_5328859_small\"<\/a><\/p>\n

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  1. Fetishes are not about sex; they’re about sexual fantasies<\/b><\/b> \n

    As a dominatrix, she explains what many people get twisted about BDSM<\/a> fetishes: there’s no actual sex involved. That would alter the power dynamic and put her, the dominatrix, in a vulnerable position\u2014a turn off for both dom and sub. Instead, a dominatrix’s role is to act out the sub’s sexual fantasies and fetishes. \u00a0Although many of the fantasies\/fetishes involve sex (spanking, whipping, etc.), she does not fuck any of her “slaves.”<\/li>\n

  2. Fetishes have surprisingly little to do with sex<\/b><\/b> \n

    As a phone sex operator and dominatrix she understands that because of internet porn, very few customers want to hear her moaning and talking dirty<\/a> while they get off\u2014instead, they call to indulge their fetishes with a hot lady who will not judge their kinks and who is game to play whatever twisted, kinky game they like.<\/li>\n

  3. Certain fetishes are very very common<\/b><\/b> \n

    Even though she describes the clients she encounters as having \u201celaborate [kinky] fantasy worlds\u201d that she helps \u201cguide them through,\u201d she explains that most of her clients have the same fetishes. In particular, there are a lot of guys who like to be feminized<\/a> (i.e., forced to cross dress) and\/or humiliated. She also says that about 75% of her clients have homosexual fantasies\u2014and that most are freaked out by this, even though it’s completely normal to fantasize about a dick in your mouth (again, it can be a turn on because of power, dominance\/submission) and, by her accounts, extremely common.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

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