{"id":2081,"date":"2013-03-13T11:27:39","date_gmt":"2013-03-13T18:27:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/?p=2081"},"modified":"2013-05-06T16:27:23","modified_gmt":"2013-05-06T23:27:23","slug":"femdom","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.niteflirt.com\/news\/femdom\/","title":{"rendered":"Femdom"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"<\/a>By MissReaghan<\/a><\/h3>\n

You all know the saying, “The way to a man’s heart is through his stomach”, yes? Well, I can counter that with a phrase of my own that summarizes exactly the nature of our relationship and how you can best serve your Mistress.<\/p>\n

What is a Femdom?<\/strong><\/h3>\n

When you think of a Mistress, what is the first image that pops into your head? Is it the image of a woman, all decked out in black rubber and carrying a whip while she screams at you in German? An impossible-to-please woman who will crush your balls beneath her stiletto-ed heel and make you beg for the privilege of thanking her for her time? Do you picture a well-dressed, be-suited woman hovering over your every move and correcting even the smallest of mistakes with a disappointed look and a quiet “Hmm” under her breath?<\/p>\n

Recently I had a survey on my phone sex blog<\/a>, asking people that same question and the variety of answers it brought back were somewhat surprising to me. Even “non-kinky” people had an opinion about what it meant to them and, I was surprised to find that quite a few weren’t that far off the mark. They all seemed to radiate an answer that boiled down to power exchange and a woman that is sure of herself and absolutely in control.<\/p>\n

Control me, Mistress!<\/strong><\/h3>\n

How does that control manifest itself? Like the definition of “Femdom”, there are many definitions to what “control” is. Some would search through the pages of a phone sex site looking for just the right woman to expertly teach them cock control and orgasm training<\/a>. Others want jerk-off instructions or just to listen as a woman guides their masturbation. Some require a strict Dominatrix with a “take no prisoners” approach to obedience while others would respond far better to a more sensual, teasing flirt. Still others like it somewhere in the middle … Sensually Strict, as it were.<\/p>\n

Her level of control over you is entirely dictated by what you respond to. Just like in anything else in life … if YOU aren’t enjoying yourself, she’s going to know it and that will make for an unsatisfactory call for everyone.<\/p>\n

So I leave you with the phrase I promised you at the beginning.<\/p>\n

“The way to a femdom’s heart is through your mind.”<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n

Know what you enjoy and the kind of phone<\/a> sex domination<\/a> that suits your personality best and then go find her!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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