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Sapiosexual
(n.) the behavior of being attracted to or aroused by intelligence and its use.

Well, this is flattering! Niteflirt reports that 95% of the people who call me have become repeat clients. I guess some people can tell the real thing when they see it? I was a lifestyle submissive for a few years and it changed my life. I'm also witty, fun, self-employed, creative, talented - and deeply turned on by intelligent men. I'm not an omnisexual femme-bot faking it for cash. Likeminded men will listen to my voice greeting and understand immediately.

There's an ultimate intimacy found in a real power exchange. I know it well. When my ex and I met, I had no idea what it meant to love BDSM - especially bondage. He taught me the art of pleasing, obeying, and craving control. I moved in within just 2 months, and he kept me in that beautiful life for 3 years while I indulged his every desire. Eventually, he moved onto someone else, but left me with an addiction I can't overcome no matter how hard I try to ignore it.

These days, I'm with an intelligent, sweet man who adores me, supports me, and cooks me eggs benedict. We watch Doctor Who and postulate about what will be the coolest parts of the new Star Wars flicks. We throw theme parties and drive to the beach for long weekends. I love him ...but I've always known that we weren't sexually compatible. The first time I asked him to pull my hair, he looked at me like I was crazy. He caught me checking out a flogger while we were shopping for a bachelor party gift and said "don't worry babe - I'm not a freak or anything." and when one of his friends at a party joked about anal sex, he said "gross". No kidding. So anal sex is a pleasure I've not had recently either.

So I live vanilla, but I was born to be a bottom, spawned to be a slave, and hatched to be a whore. There's nothing like being pinned down, tied up, and treated like an anonymous hole for the fucking.

Then a friend of mine who used to be on NF said "Cara, you've got such a sexy voice, you turn ME on with your submissive fantasies... you could have great sex on Niteflirt and it wouldn't even be cheating..."

So here I am. Asking you to give me what I've been craving for years... the opportunity to indulge YOUR unapologetic whims. I miss obedient servitude. Whether I cum screaming helplessly or just wallow in frustration... I want to be used - I need it - and I'm not happy unless I'm begging nicely for my orgasm.

Things I've enjoyed in the past: spankings, floggings, tease/denial, roleplay (LOVE being the seduced librarian, the intimidated stripper, the co-ed who REALLY needs that "A"), anal play, BONDAGE OF MANY KINDS, rope, chains (my preference for the sound & weight), whips, canes, riding crops, ball gags, facefucking, collars, tied to a cross, bondage horse, etc, etc. Don't be shy. If I can put this stuff out there, so can you!

Things I haven't done but really wish I had when I had the chance: vietnamese basket/swing, chastity belt, cage, medical fetish (legs in the stirrups or those cool looking dental contraptions that hold my mouth open wide). pretty curious about the erotic hypnosis thing too. my ex touched on it a bit, but if you know anything about mind control, brainwashing, or hypnotism, don't hold back.

Curious about my non-sexual likes? I dress like I'm trapped somewhere between Prohibition and the Eisenhower administration. I know more about Star Wars than any woman I've known - a username I've had for 20 years contains "salaciouscrumb". I'm into Doctor Who and like everyone else, I'm a staunch supporter of Tennant and Rose Tyler. I'm digging the new Netflix Daredevil. I get really into historical costuming (yes, corsets included), and I was once a Renaissance Faire geek and a swordfighter (real swords - get your mind out of the gutter!)