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Who am I?
I'm a 25 year-old bisexual female, sex and fetish podcaster, tattooed marathon runner, lifestyle switch, taboo fetishist, J.D., P90Xer, video gamer, goth-industrial clubgoer, theme party thrower extraordinaire, sadomasochist, geek, and NIN fan.
Here's where you come in.
I'm most turned on by fulfilling other people's fantasies. Kink and sex fascinate me. I'll be whoever you want me to be to make your desires reality. Ask me anything; nothing is too taboo. I would love to hear it.
My Sexual Resume
I get it. You want to know what qualifies me to turn you on. You're smart for asking.
I was born with fetishes and discovered that I was not alone in this respect when I read Anne Rice’s “Exit to Eden” when I was roughly 12. I still wish that a place like The Club existed. I then found Anne Rice’s Sleeping Beauty Trilogy and the BDSM classic, Pauline Reage’s “Story of O.” I started writing erotic stories in high school, donned leather and whipped frat boys in college, began attending goth-industrial and fetish events in law school, and am now a sex podcaster and an active member of the BDSM and fetish community. I’m an accomplished student and athlete by day; deviant and tattooed BDSM’er by night. I have stories that will make your head spin.
I answer both written questions and voicemails on the podcast.
To leave a voicemail for the podcast:
Skype me at FreedomOfFetish
Leave a message at the Freedom of Fetish voicemail at (860) 756-0308.
To contact me in writing, send your questions to:
Tweet me @FreedomOfFetish or @RavenLightholme
Visit the Freedom of Fetish formspring to submit anonymously.
Please provide me with a phone number if you'd like me to call with follow-up questions, and let me know if you'd like to be anonymous.
Want to know more about me? This list is a list of the things I like! (Points if you got the Tim & Eric reference)
Halloween (the day, not the movies)
Working out (specifically running, muay thai boxing, P90x, and all manner of lifting)
A Clockwork Orange
Hedonism (the state of mind, not the swinger's club)
Crossdressers, drag queens, faux queens, androgynous rock stars, transvestites, & other gender benders
Tim and Eric Awesome Show, Great Job!
Nine Inch Nails
Dan Savage, Savage Love, and other sex podcasts
Ren & Stimpy
Not being in direct sunlight
Battlestar Galactica (the new series)
Video games (I have a tattoo of the triforce from The Legend of Zelda)
Melodic/progressive trance (like Above & Beyond)
David Bowie in Labyrinth
YouTube videos of cute things
Penn & Teller's Bullshit
Sleeping more than 12 hours a night
Wet Hot American Summer
Superheroes & supervillains
Eyes Wide Shut
Texas hold 'em
RuPaul's Drag Race
The Lord of the Rings (both the books and the movies)
The Picture of Dorian Gray
Vampires (no, I do not think they're real, and no, this does not include Twilight)
The Perry Bible Fellowship (note: this has absolutely nothing to do with religion)
Goth-industrial and fetish club nights
Check It Out! with Dr. Steve Brule
In Girls, Boys, & Everything in Between:
Overall, I am attracted to those who are their own person; people who are successful, well-adjusted, self-aware, and content. I'm not looking to complete anyone, nor be completed. I like people who are already complete so that we both enjoy each other's presence and personality without neediness. In other words, I like the "with our powers combined" relationship, not the "damsel/prince in distress" relationship.
Intelligence without pretentiousness
Genuine, unfeigned confidence
Athleticism and muscularity
People who don't take themselves too seriously and laugh at themselves
That sociopathic ability to work a room and make everyone fall in love with you
Independent, self-reliant assuredness
The attractive kind of geekiness (i.e. knowing about geeky things without a corresponding drop in social skills)