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In my first few years here i never listed myself as a submissive. This might seem strange, particularly here on Niteflirt where more than a few flirts have no qualms about promoting themselves as both "Lifestyle Mistresses" and "Lifestyle slaves", among other things.
The reason I went so long without explicitly mentioning that i'm submissive is because in real life, i truly am a submissive. What being submissive means, to me, is that i'm a sexual creature hardwired to obey and please, with an innate need to be exquisitely used, skillfully controlled and, ideally, owned.
Luckily for me, even though i hadn't referred to myself as a submissive until i put up this listing, some of You had already figured it out -- either because You read between the lines of my listings, or because instinctively You picked up on it when we talked.
To all those who recognized my nature before i spelled it out -- and You know who You are -- i offer my gratitude. And, of course, the continued use of Your willing girl!
But i suspect there are others of You out there who i would love to serve but have yet to meet . Might You be One?
I've been told, more than a few times, that i bring out the Dominant in people -- so whether You're an experienced Master or someone just starting to explore the more dominant aspects of his nature, i think You'll know what to do with me.
i need to be at Your feet, under Your firm hand. i need to be overpowered and restrained, completely under Your control, existing only for Your pleasure.
I need to please You, and to feel Your need to control and possess me. My 'vanilla' listings did not come close to filling these needs ...
so here i am.
Why did it take me so long to "come out" here on Niteflirt with a listing that reflects my true sexuality? After all, this would seem the perfect place for it, doesn't it?
There were several reasons for my hesitation. One is that i succumb to Dominance s-o-o-o easily and s-o-o-o deeply. It really doesn't take much to put me in an altered state in which my only reality is Master's pleasure and my connection to life is Master's voice. I'm talking about a deeply passive and receptive state over which i have little control. An involuntary state that makes me rather ....vulnerable.
Unfortunately, some of the "Doms" on Niteflirt seem not to know that the real Dominant focuses an intense attention on the submissive's responses -- not only because that is the true source of His power, but also because He is responsible for her wellbeing.
There are other Doms here who do understand the dynamics of authentic Dominance, but who evidently don't know enough about aftercare to bring me back to everyday consciousness when they're done with me. Maybe they just don't comprehend the depth of the subspace into which their Dominance throws me. Or perhaps they figure that since they're paying for it, they're not responsible for the wellbeing of subs they dominate here on Niteflirt.
To me, it's perfectly understandable that someone might feel that way. Nevertheless, when the Dom gets what He needs and hangs up, i'm still left high and dry in a state of submissive vacuity ... which is not a good thing, for a sub like me.
As an authentic submissive, it's extremely difficult for me to refuse a command or displease a Dominant. That's why, in real life, i'm very discriminating about the people i allow to dominate me, and even the people to whom i reveal that i'm submissive.
But here on Niteflirt there's no way for me to pick and choose who Doms me. This is the dilemma which made me wait so long to reveal my submissive nature here.
In the end, however, my need to serve overcame my fears -- and so here i am. Now that i'm here, won't You give me a call ... and let me please You?