Phone Sex

Some Background:
Carpe diem! I am in my late 40s (experienced enough to know what I want and young enough to embrace it!), bright, articulate, and a great conversationalist. I am kind & nurturing, but also no-nonsense & assertive. I am more the "sexy librarian type" than the glitzy porn star type. Despite having a fresh-faced, girl-next-door appearance, I am an alpha woman with a sexy, dominant side. If you are an alpha male with an underserved submissive side who would appreciate connecting for leisurely conversations (30-90 min) that are intelligent, authentic, un-scripted, and interactive, we may be a very good fit. I am a trustworthy confidante and a "safe and sane" person with whom to explore the parts of yourself you may keep hidden from others.

I am a veteran on Niteflirt, yet I find ways to keep the experience fresh and engaging. When you call me, you get the benefit of both my experience and enthusiasm for what I do. Over time, I've learned it’s important to focus on what you love and let the rest fall away. After all, if it isn't fun, why do it? I update my listings as my interests evolve. You can be sure if I mention something in my listings, I enjoy it, versus having put it down because it's a good search term.

Some of my current favorite erotic topics:

Breast/Body Worship/Receiving Oral: I have curves for days (think exaggerated hourglass), and I love to be showered with attention. Want to talk about sucking, kissing, licking and otherwise worshipping all my incredible curves? I'm happy to oblige! Kiss my breasts, my pussy, my ass, my tummy, and caress my perfectly pedicured and smooth feet.

Sensual, dominant female: Queen, Mistress, Goddess, Cuckoldress, depending on our chemistry. Female-led relationships. Obedient men. Men who understand that what their dominant woman wants always comes first.

Domestic Service/Service-oriented Submissives: "Submissive " means different things to different people. I am someone who loves an obedient, service-oriented submissive who loves to please. Let me hand you my "honey-do" list and have you tackle all the things while I relax. If you perform exceptionally well, you may look forward to a sweet reward (e.g. licking my pussy, getting out of chastity and having a well-deserved release, or...?)

Tease and denial: While most men want to cum, I take a special pleasure in denying men who want total control. I love to leave these men (you?) with very blue balls:-) If you eventually want to cum, that's okay too. Just make sure to ask for permision to touch yourself. And, of course, ask for permission before cumming *smile*. And, know that I LOVE keeping you teetering on the edge for a long time:-)

Ruined Orgasms: What's the next best thing to total denial and blue balls? That's right, ruined orgasms. I have a special fondness for your ability to ruin several times in a row. Capped off by a dry (yes, dry) orgasm.

Chastity/me as your keyholder: Oh, how I love the control that comes along with keeping you in a chastity device! Locking and unlocking you according to my whims, regulating your stroking, cumming, milking...I am happy to help you take this as far as you are willing to go. Depending on your personal situation, chastity may include an actual device, or the honor system, and may extend from a few hours to several months.

Cuckolding:I have long loved talking about Cuckolding, perhaps because I love feeling free. To have a devoted partner who allows, or perhaps even relishes, my freedom is very exciting to me. It's also not uncommon for a man whose wife is currently Cuckolding him to want to confide in me. He will call while his wife is away to help cope with both the turmoil and excitement of what she is doing. Or, he'll call because he wants her to cuckold him (at least in fantasy) and hasn't yet confessed that to her. Sometimes I even give advice on how to broach that topic since it can help to have some sound advice from a woman's perspective. Whatever angle you are looking to discuss with cuckolding it is a favorite of mine to explore!

CEI/Cum-eating instructions: I love men who want to eat cum. Whether you are currently a novice (and would love to be coached to eat yours for the first time) or you are already an enthusiastic cum-eater, know that I have the experience to support and encourage you. It is a huge turn on to think about you cleaning up my pussy after you've cum inside me (or after I have been with my boyfriend!).

SPH/Small Penis Humiliation: I love discussing size, and teasing about your lack of it. How small are you? How do you compare with other cocks I've experienced? This play can be hot whether you are super tiny or not. There will always be someone better equipped than you, with a longer, thicker and more satisfying cock. Exploring the themes of adequacy and inadequacy can be very powerful, regardless of your actual size.

My Ideal Fit: An Alpha Male with an Under-served Submissive Side Are you a successful, intelligent, masculine professional in your everyday life? But, behind closed doors, you crave a strong dominant female you can serve and please? If so, you and I are a great natural fit.

New clients, be sure to read this: If you are a new client, reach out by text to introduce yourself. If it seems we are a good fit, the next step will be a conversation.

Schedule: I have limited availability to talk most days, but here are a few tips that can increase the chances we'll be able to talk. The best time to start a call is usually 6-10 am PT. To ensure I can pick up and enjoy a relaxed and leisurely experience with you, consider sending an email 15-30 min ahead. You can always call spontaneously and at other times, but be aware without a heads' up and a relatively early start time, I may not be able to pick up right away. If that happens, watch for an email from me to coordinate our schedules.