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An introduction:
Are you someone who wants more than a quick wank? Chances are, if you choose to call me, you wouldn't be satisfied with a stereotypical phone sex experience. If you are like many of the men who eventually find me, you've probably called several other providers, and have been left feeling a bit disappointed and empty. That is less a criticism of others, than a recognition that you and I are probably a little outside the mainstream. We are looking for something more that at times may feel elusive for us: genuine connection, engaging conversation, and a sexual chemistry that builds over time. Calls with me are not one-size-fits-all. After all, we are two people weaving an experience together, based on our unique chemistry. That said, this introduction will hopefully give you a reasonable idea of what you can expect from a conversation with me.

About me:
I am in my early 40s, naturally caring and nurturing, as well as no-nonsense and assertive. I look younger than my age, perhaps a credit to healthy living, but I have life experience and maturity beyond my years. Some might say I am an "old soul." I have a graduate degree from a top university and can hold my own when discussing a wide variety of topics. Clients tell me they call me because I seem "normal", someone with whom they can feel comfortable having an intelligent, stimulating conversation. They appreciate that I am not the glitzy porn star type, and yet have a very sexy, dominant side. While I am a seasoned veteran, I stay fresh and engaged by continually learning, growing and refining what I do so I keep having fun. I regularly update my listings and profile with the topics that genuinely interest me, so you can be sure if you find it here, it is something that I really enjoy. I believe adult conversations work best when two people find each other whose kinks and personalities mesh. At our best, when that happens, we are mirrors, encouraging each other towards a more complete expression of our sexuality.

I love "alpha males" with an under-served submissive side (versus "loser" or 24/7 sissy types). My favorite clients are executives, business owners, attorneys, and engineers who are schedule-oriented, courteous and communicative. A thread that ties many of my best conversations together is that we share a love of language the the power of well-chosen words.

If we are a good fit, you will likely appreciate:
  • A "real person" on the other end of the phone
  • Conversation that is intelligent, authentic, and un-scripted
  • A trustworthy confidante/someone to listen to your naughty confessions or fantasies
  • Sensual, dominant female (Queen, Mistress, Goddess, Cuckoldress, Cuntress, depending on our chemistry)
  • Permission to masturbate/ masturbation management
  • Tease and denial/Orgasm control
  • Chastity devices/I'll be your keyholder
  • Cuckolding, including preparing me for my Bull and cleaning me up after
  • Small penis humiliation (SPH), whether or not you are "tiny" it can be fun to playfully tease you about being inadequate
  • Playful humiliation and degradation It's fun to tease and name-call (that little thing, masturbation addict, stroke boy, etc), especially when it's done in a loving and affectionate way. Note: I'm not into hard core pain, or being unduly mean.
  • Pre-cum eating and Cum-eating (volume impresses!)
  • Ruined orgasms/ Making you very leaky/ Giving you a terrible case of blue balls
  • Extended, relaxed conversations (calls with me typically average 60-90 minutes)
  • Personalized attention

A Note about TOS
I play by the rules, and you should too. Please don't ask me if I will break the TOS, or insist on bringing up topics that are against the rules. There are plenty of other fun things to talk about!

A Note about Email:
Like many of you, I get a lot of email, and I prioritize responding to those messages that are thoughtful, intelligent, and respectful. If you want to get my attention, I recommend familiarizing yourself with my email etiquette guidelines. If you follow the guidelines contained within, you and I will get off to a great start, each of us clear about our expectations for each other.

A Note about Scheduling
I like keeping a regular schedule. However, my commitments this Fall are a little different than in the past, and I'm still settling into a routine. The following is my best guesstimate of when I'll be available. Most weekdays, my basic window of availability is from 8 am-3pm Central. However, I won't be logged in all of that time--you'll generally see me log in for 60-90 minutes two or three times. Weekends, there is no set schedule. Evenings are unlikely, but may be an option for established customers if scheduled in advance. As always, email me to request a specific time or confirm that I will be available when you want to talk. While it can be difficult to reach me, keeping my availability limited assures I will be fresh and engaged on our call:-)