"If one would master others, one must first master oneself."
"You cannot surrender control if you do not have control."
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I have been in the D/s lifestyle for more than 20 years and fully in the BDSM lifestyle for more then 8 years all as a
submissive. I am an author of alternative lifestyle advice and have had
pro-subbing experience with my previous Mistress and with my husband/dominant's mentor. I am bisexual and have lived in polyamourous relationships.
I am a masochist as well as a submissive and can offer a wide range of advice in various aspects including servitude, bootblacking, honourifics, being new to alternative lifestyles, spirituality, self-esteem, negotiations and many others. I can offer referals to others in your area that can be of real time assistance as well.
I own my own Alternative Lifestyle Marketing business and work with many Dominants and submissives on a daily basis. I do not have online experience. All of what I know is from what I was trained in real life. I have Old Guard/Leather training experience and have earned the title of an alpha slave.
I do not do phone sex but if you look below you will find a link to many that do at Submissives By Choice.
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