I’m Emma!  When I was in college in Texas I wanted to have sex in every building and public space on campus.  At the beginning of every semester, I’d sneak in at night with my boyfriend and christen my new classrooms.  In one instance, I had to basically pick the door lock to get in.  In another, I unlocked a window during the day so that I could climb in at night because my lock picking skills turned out to be poor at best.  

I ended up breaking up with that boyfriend between my junior and senior year.  When I started dating someone new that fall, he laughed at my desire to have sex everywhere.  He sort of chuckled when I confided this in him and he told me flat out, “that’s really stupid.”  That relationship didn’t make it to the next day.  I ended up reconnecting with my earlier boyfriend to take care of my fall classrooms and the homecoming parade (which is a story for another time, but suffice it to say at least 1,500 people got to see me on top of my boyfriend’s car with him on top of me).

At the moment when the new guy told me that my fantasies were stupid, it hurt.  But more than simply hurting, it stunned me.  It made me feel silly and like there was something wrong with me… which, I now know there isn’t.  It also made me feel very unsafe in the moment.

As I’ve gotten older, I’m 30 now, it’s truly amazing how few safe spaces there are for sexual fantasies (that follow the terms of service here).  A lot of men are conditioned to deny themselves things or express horror at things (being submissive, being hypnotized, being feminized) that actually speak volumes to them.  I’ve been with numerous older men and I absolutely love it when they open up to me.  It feels incredible to me and so fulfilling.  

I have always genuinely enjoyed creating that type of safe space for people—it’s what I want most for myself as well—so I thought that it would be a lot of fun to create a profile on here and give others the ability to experience that with me.  Everyone deserves that kind of space, just as I realized a decade ago, that I deserved to be fucked hard on stage in the college theater in the wee hours of the morning.

I genuinely want to hear what turns you on and what is missing from your sexual existence and then see what we can do to achieve that for you.  One word to the wise: I can sniff out bullshit like no one’s business.  I can tell when you believe what you’re saying and when you don’t.  Honesty gets you everywhere.  I am going to treat you like a human being and an actual person and would request the same of you.  I will make you feel secure and seen.  Welcome to my safe space!