Hello, everyone! I’m Bella. I’m 29 and am the proud owner of my own adult toy business.

I graduated from college at 22 with a degree in business. One of the projects we had to do for the major was to make a business plan for a company specializing in the sale of unique or novelty items. I could have created a store selling old Nintendo games, baseball cards, or rare freshwater fish, but instead, I chose to have my business sell adult toys. It was a real change of pace for me and was in a world I knew nothing about at the time. I spent the better part of my first semester senior year pounding the pavement in Austin, Texas, visiting the adult stores there and asking the employees who would talk to me one question: what’s keeping your doors open?

The answer that I received time and again was: lingerie. Lingerie sales were huge!

It was kind of surprising to me, akin to finding out that bug spray sales were keeping the grocery stores in business, but it made sense. So it quickly became my adult toy and lingerie business for the project. After finishing, I couldn’t help but wonder what would happen if I turned my fake business into a real business.

The other surprising thing to me was that the lingerie that I sell is probably worn more by men than women. I measure people for band and cup size and it’s always a thrill when I get to do that with a guy. Watching a man become aware of his body while working with me to make it pretty—not handsome or sexy, but pretty—that always gets me going.

What I like most about what I’m doing is the way it changes, day to day. Nothing is ever the same. I do a lot of home visits for things, especially when supplying toys for parties. I have developed friendships (and more) with my clientele as well. I am often asked for recommendations on things to try or positions in which to try them. I am always happy to deliver. I’ve begun to expand my services to sex advice as well as matchmaking, which has been equally exciting. Getting detailed feedback about my recommendations is always fun too. Because, when it comes to sex, even bad advice can result in great outcomes.

I’ve heard a lot about Niteflirt from various people and it seemed like something interesting to try. I have a lot of crazy stories involving cages, candles, tear away lingerie and police interrupted trysts as well as a more sensual side. I love exploring role-plays and fantasies. I don’t think I’m a one-size-fits-all kind of woman (pun somewhat intended), but I like to be organic and see what things come up. I do follow all the rules here though, so please keep that in mind. I am looking forward to talking to you!