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Hi there. I’m Vandee. I’m a young professional living in the Pacific Northwest, and I have an interesting proposition for you. As mine is not the traditional Niteflirt listing, I’d like to give you some additional context.

I have established myself as a top Flirt and developed a cult-like following. While I am well-versed in all things human behavior, my clients have told me that my main selling point is… well… me. My authenticity and easy manner lend themselves to clients feeling safe, understood, and, when appropriate, even empowered.

Typical conversations topics include anything you are currently dealing with about which you would like to either vent, receive advice, or simply say out loud to a safe person.

My average client has questions like:
- Why is my life unfulfilling?
- What do these impulses/thoughts/behaviors say about me?
- Why can’t I stop XYZ?
- Where did this behavior come from?
- Are there safe(r)/healthy(ier) ways to engage in this and still scratch the itch?
- How do various systems of power, previous trauma, etc. influence my dissatisfaction with life? What can I do about it?
- Perhaps most importantly of all, what do I do with the knowledge I’ve gained as a result of talking to Vandee? Insight is only one ingredient in a fulfilling life.
- In addition to building insight, I help you identify barriers to action, clear those barriers, and take steps towards the life you want to live.
- This includes things like finding coping skills, identifying core beliefs that impede your progress, and naming systemic barriers to your wellbeing.

Unlike a mental health practitioner, I am not afraid to tell you what I think is wrong, what I think your deficits are, or what I think needs to change.

So you need compassionate but firm female guidance in your life, feel free to give me a call.

My typical tend to be submissive, deep-thinkers who are driven by a need to feel useful, are self-aware, and are eager to be disabused of their privileges to create a more egalitarian world.

If you’d like to discuss first, send me a chat. I am happy to provide a photo of myself so you know who you’re talking to. Alternatively, you may call my cam line. Please do chat first to see that I am ready for your cam call.

I am a real person who funded my education, home, and other purchases by capturing the hearts and minds of my followers. Most are sure to find value here. I welcome you to reach out.

Warmly,
V