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Hello Sub addicts
If you find yourself addicted or constantly drawn to Femdom and BDSM, And you end up feeling abnormal, resentful, unhappy and out of control each time you do succumb to your particular weakness, I may be the right Healer that you need to talk too!
I used to work in the Femdom & BDSM industry for several years as professional Dominatrix and have come across many men just like yourself who often spiral into a confused, regretful and very negative state after unsuccessfully not being able to control their urges which they try to generally suppress. Whether your issues involve compulsively buying clips, spending money on Findoms, or giving in to temptation and visiting actual establishments and pro-domme only to feel a mixture of emotions afterwards.. Many of the men who i encountered often carry guilt, shame, or regret for being sexually enticed by certain sexual desires, and do not like feeling as though they are controlled by their strange taboo desires. (Mind you, i will show you that you are not that strange)
I deal with a broad range of clients who have a diverse range of desires, urges, and fetishes! Some of the clients I encounter believed that they are A-Sexual, and have no interest whats so ever in having intercourse or traditional intimacy with a female, and they have no homosexual desires either!! They simply are aroused by thoughts of submitting to a dominant woman and being ordered down to her feet. A large percentage of these clients generally require and crave to be humiliated and objectified and treated like a true inferior submissive.
This is the only way they can climax!!
Many of my clients question why they have these particular urges and strange taboo fantasies, they feel odd and strange for having these alternative desires that they cant freely share or explore with just anyone, They feel as though their life is more difficult because of their particular sexual desires, and some of my clients become extremely frustrated that they have to spend chunks of money in order to have a taste of what it is that gets them off!!
Imagine going to a bar, meeting a girl that you find attractive later in the evening she boldly asks you what turns you on in the bedroom…? Advising her that you want to be spat on, forced to cross dress, then fucked with a big black strap on, and forced to worship her feet isn't something that most men whom crave these type of things would confidently come out and declare… After all, what are the odds that some girl will be into the same things?? After all, most of the attractive girls aren't really into the BDSM thing.
(You would know this if you have been searching on many of the different platforms) Then of course you have some men who have families & normal sex lives, yet they still have a constant urge and soft spot for certain fetishes, such as feet.
They do not want the humiliation or the objectification they just want to literally suck and lick on feet the same way some men would crave to have a woman sit on their face!! Some of my clients have felt as though they were unable to let their partners know of their desires due to the fear that they may be judged, rejected or seen in a negative and less masculine light!
Some of my clients have at some point tried to communicate with a partner in one way or another in order to incorporate their certain fetish or desire into their personal/sex lives. Unfortunately for most of these men, their subtle hints and sometimes spontaneous attempts to get their partner to welcome, enjoy or even allow the desired fetish to take place in the first place was declined or uncomfortably avoided or laughed at and eventually shrugged off,
Until it got to a point that these men no longer tried to incorporate nor open up and speak of their fantasies and desires to their partners! Now, I am not saying that the females are at fault here, but what i am saying is that these men should have consulted with a professional and a female like myself in order to learn how to better communicate their desires rather if they truly did want a better results!! Men can never understand females, so don't even try!
This brings us to our next topic, Guilt. Many of my clients find themselves consistently giving in to their temptations and indulging in some pre-climax excitement only to end up feeling very weak, pathetic, ashamed, strange, alone, drained and ashamed!
These are not emotions that i advocate, but emotions that i constantly deal with when counselling my clients. Some of these emotions are stirred within my clients because they feel empty after a paid session, they become frustrated at the fact that the things that they are interested in are such a taboo and such a Niche, they complain they about having to resort to these measures rather than being able to go out there like every other “Normal” guy and just pick up a girl and have some fun! Some of the emotions are caused because my clients have internal issues with themselves and after sessions and scenes question what is wrong with themselves,
Then you have some clients cant stand being weak willed and allowing themselves to once again get tempted and seduced by the FINDOM fantasy of a Goddess using them and rinsing them for all that they have!! They feel stupid afterwards!
And before you draw any conclusions and start to assume that this whole article is just about foot fetishes and the men who feel embarrassed only after they potentially paid to be humiliated in order to blow a load over the sole of some random women's feet,
Let me remind you, that this article is actually for those genuinely struggle on an emotional, mental and sometimes financial level and who genuinely struggle with feelings of inadequacies, confusion and sometimes shame! There are some clients amongst us who are married with children who struggle on a daily basis with feelings of loneliness, and entrapment, feeling locked and bound to the life that they once conformed to and regretfully chose!
These clients have nothing but pure conviction in their hearts when share their most deepest and darkest secrets to the only person they can be themselves with, Their Mistress, Whilst dreaming of a day where they no longer need to hide there hormone replacement therapy, stilettos and lipstick in the back of a dusty shed.
Now, if you are a man who can relate to any of the emotional states mentioned above, Whether it be guilt, shame, confusion, regret, or issues with gender identity and your sexuality You may want to just talk to someone who gets it, who doesn't judge, who doesn't have any expectations, who has helped others feel at peace, Who instantly makes you feel understood and even normal again!
Each one of us is unique, Each one of us has walked a particular path, And each one of us has something that we keep close to our hearts. We all struggle with something, Whether it be Femdom, Bdsm, Sexuality or something completely different such as previous abuse or issues abandonment and self love.
Sometimes just opening up and allowing yourself to finally express and share those thoughts and feelings in a truly safe environment with someone who has seen it all and can give you some honest feedback and perspective is all you truly need,
I have had clients who suffered from major PTSD due to a experience that revolved around Femdom (due to some unfortunate abuse which happened at the hands of a truly sick emotional sadist who abused their position of power ) completely recover after one session. He no longer has the urge to keep revisiting clips on line, nor does he fear the thought of a Dominant woman.
There was no hypnotherapy involved, all he needed was someone experienced and emotionally balanced and spiritually stable to bring him back to alignment with reality, and provide him with some perspective and advise that ultimately was extremely soothing and healing in the circumstance that he was in at the time.
If you seek a consult please call me also skype sessions can be arranged, face to face would work better as i want you to be able to connect with me and feel the authenticity.