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I am a San Francisco based professional Mistress and Dominant companion, specializing in intense kink encounters, ongoing Dominant/submissive relationships, cathartic consensual sadomasochism, humiliation and degradation, serious bondage, advanced electrical play, corporal punishments, role playing, slave training, and more.

I enjoy phone sessions both because of the fact that we are able to safely explore even the most taboo of fantasies as well as the way that delving into a D/s with just our voices and minds at play adds an interesting psychological bent to our connection.

I'm interesting in speaking with people both to enjoy fantasy scenarios, and to get to know potential submissives and slaves to add to my stable.

Here is my personal BDSM history as written on my website:

I relish the excitement of meeting and playing with new people and just as I have a passion for exploring physical places through travel it brings me much pleasure to delve into new psychological places with the willing subs, slaves, masochists, fetishists and bottoms who present themselves to Me.

People often ask how I got into being a professional Dominatrix. It was about six years ago, and the short story is: I just wanted to, and so did! Having always been drawn to alternative sexuality, and voraciously reading all about it as soon as I discovered the world of (safe, sane, consensual/ risk aware) BDSM, I wanted to experience everything. I sought out serious training from a few different avenues, a legendary Femdom, an alternative sexuality educator, and several private workshops with various experts which solidified my skills in technical aspects of BDSM as well as my high health and safety standards. Playing alongside my experienced friends, and getting feedback and support from vastly experienced subs and slaves helped me to refine my own style and develop the necessary confidence to push limits, and become at home in my dominance and sadism.

I have always been drawn to basic sadomasochism, hurting you, eliciting a reaction in you. Corporal punishments, tortures, torments, and mean mind games all came first. With the cane, it was love at first sight. Next, an affinity for Old Guard training. I read, and consulted with those who had participated in Old Guard households and leather families. I took what I liked, and realized that my enjoyment of training, protocol, and structured D/s was heightened when it came from within me and suited each connection as I was so inspired by each individual (as opposed to an outside or predetermined structure). Serious bondage captivated me as it is a physical expression of that desire for control and I found it to be yet another medium I excelled in. My love of humiliation grew out of my sadism, I see it really as emotional sadomasochism and am amazed at how far I’ve been able to go with it. Meanwhile, my tactile and situational fetishes keep expanding all the time as I am exposed to more and more decadent and delicious things.

Female Supremacy is something I was introduced to via imagery and text early on. I found it to be cheesey and humorous at first- but something kept pulling me back to reading about it, researching people who practiced it, and ultimately fantasizing about it. I eventually reframed the themes and concepts of Femdom and Female Superiority to suit my desires. For me it is about a dynamic between individuals, and something I will gladly expound on when asked.

I’m interested in the lines between fantasy and reality, the ways the two overlap and feed into one another. Ongoing relationships, or well planned and earnestly invested short term connections, give me the space to see and experience what I really am most excited by which is raw emotion and Femdom Dominance and submission.

As an independent young lady with a free spirit, I’ve found that I am well suited for confidential relationships. I take great joy in sharing time with gentlemen and distinguished women who know both the rewards of submission and how to share their intriguing life experiences when appropriate. Our special bond stays between us and we are both happy to keep it that way.

What’s not to love? I get to travel the world, be my own boss (and sometimes yours), cavort with friends and admirers, and have the freedom to chase creative pursuits. Not to mention spend an inordinate amount of time doing erotic, sexy, ridiculous, mind-bending, intense BDSM. There are ups and downs in anything anyone chooses to do- but for me the pursuit of both kink expertise and pro sessions just keeps getting more fun.